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Why is that people on here still feel the need to knock people and try and make others feel little? I am getting verry disgusted in seeing people do this. If dont like someone or you are not attracted to a person why dont u keep it to yourself. This is not only the men doing things like this on this board but the girls also. I for one am I also sick and tired of comeing on this forum to see that more people have spoken shit about me. People u need to get over yourselves and stop putting people above others. This behavior is not only disgusting but it is disturbing that peopl I have never come in contact with or people that I have come in contact with have the nerve to talk down about me or others. I have also made mistakes in the past and I have appologized for them. So maybe its time people start respecting other people. I am no better than anyone nor is anyone better than me.
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Lexi, I think the topic of respect is going to be an ongoing topic of conversation in this Forum - or any Forum for that matter. With this type of Forum, we really open ourselves up to criticism, and it's unfortunate that some people out there don't understand the difference between a constructive review and pointless negative comments. Most of the people and most of the comments on the Forum are excellent - it's just that the bad ones really stick in our mind. I totally sympathize with you Lexi, as I'm sure every other escort does that's ever had anything sh**ty written about them. It's easy for people to talk sh*t about other people when they can hide behind their computers. Each person's experience and expectations with an escort are different, so negative comments should be taken with a grain of salt (easier said than done, I know). Hmmm...it's too bad we can't post reviews of our dates.....or can we?? I'm just kidding, of course. I'd never disclose any information about a date I've been on. I will say this though, Lexi. Try not to let it bother you too much - unless an individual actually means something to you, don't take it to heart.
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hi yu there this lady is amazing what a way with words in one lacey yu really are spcial CURIOUSComment
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Hi Lexi and all,
I could not agree with you more about respect, but on the other hand this is a forum, and if the experiance was good or bad it should be told. But i also think, if the experience was bad, that is all it should say. Should not go over board and be a jerk about it. Plain and simply, all that needs to be said, is not a good experience. I keep watching for my first experience, i get my nerve up, then cower away. But it is situations like this, attitudes, that keep me from taking that step. To the most part, it is all about RESPECT, we are looking for a service and should be nice about, ladies are providing a service.
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While what you say has some definate merit, there are many occasions where clients have been sold a bill of goods too.
How many of us have gone to see SP with good intention only to see someone who has decribed themselves completely false. I also understand that we may have over estimated thigs but I can personally say I have visited an SP and wondered such who they were describing over the phone...certainly not themself!
Honesty and perhaps a littel integritygoes a long way people...from both sides.Comment
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Hi Curious,
That's sweet of you to say.
I agree with you Caliente. If someone has a bad experience with an SP, I think it should be noted. If someone is not "as advertised" it should be noted. Respect should absolutely come from both sides. I just don't think that people should be writing negative or insulting comments about others if there's no substance to what they're saying. If I were to use an example of a movie review, for someone to say, "Star Wars sucked!" isn't very helpful to others. Whereas if someone were to say "Star Wars did not live up to expectation because...." wouldn't that be more useful. And I don't just mean from a client standpoint. If someone has truly constructive criticism, it may provide an opportunity for the SP to improve their level of service. Of course, you can't please everyone all the time, so one person may have had a horrible experience with an SP, while someone else had a fantastic experience with the same SP. I also think that sometimes people forget that there's a "human" element of being an escort. Sometimes a client may not make us feel comfortable, or any number of other factors that may cause the experience to be a negative one.
I'm starting to really ramble on. I guess it's a topic that really gets me going! So I'll summarize by simply saying that respect should absolutely come from both sides. Hopefully the instances of negativity that Lexi is referring to will diminish as the topic of respect continues to be discussed.
xoxoxo...Lacey
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hi yu i hope everybody is listening CHOW BABE CURIOUSComment
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you are very funny Lexi...the page is CANADIAN DISCUSSION.we discuss and share our experiences in this site.and It works very well....Comment
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I think you are lost. You might want to visit gterb and ter and you will see how well you are treated her.Comment
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I am speaking of random negative comments...Comment
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Once again random negative commentsOriginally posted by Knob GobblerComment
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whoa, someones a bitch
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Sportsboy....Why is Lexi a bitch for expressing her view which obviously differs from yours? I don't know Lexi but from my point of view...you nor I are in no position to be judgemental. What she says has merit.
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Originally posted by Lacey Luv
Very well said Lacey and exactly right.
There are some guys that believe because they are the ones paying for the services that they should get whatever has been posted in a review and refuse to acknowledge that chemistry plays an important role in what happens during the session between client and SP. They just seem to accept the term YMMV (Your Milage May Vary). Everyones talks about wanting to receive a GFE but don't stop to think that if they were to provide a BFE, there chances may increase drastically.
As has already been said respect is a two-way street, both sides need to show respect to others. Because for the most everyone is somewhat anonymous on the forums (with the exception of the ladies who can't obviously be anonymous and still garner business), respect is earned based on their posting styles. This goes for the gentlemen and the ladies equally.
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Originally posted by sportsboywhoa, someones a bitch
I am not speaking of reviews I am speaking about things like this...Comment
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