What’s everyone’s opinion and experience with haggling?

[Drifter2024]

Imo thats asking for poor experience

[ladyluv]

That's not haggling that's arranging a different service expectation. And that might work with one but not another.

Sio, what? Who cares? It’s called negotiating

[EasyD]

Going out on a limb here but I am pretty sure SteveT is a man that is not an SP LOL

Sounds like Steve and Ladyluv should get a room.

[Ana_Jolie]

Sounds like Steve and Ladyluv should get a room.

Ladyluv is on her rag so she might not be a good option for Steve right now

[SteveT]

You simply “Cannot” negotiate a price in a grocery store (I suppose if a product is damaged/past due date, you can).

Who says you can't? According to your logic anything is negotiable. It's just you'll get blank stares or a smirk if you tried it.

It's the same thing with escorts. You can technically do it, but it's bad form and you're guaranteed to be laughed at or hated. To say people "do it all the time" is silly. Literally I don't know anyone who negotiates with escorts. It's loser stuff. Like truly low life behaviour. I guess you're ok with girls hating you? Part of the thrill? Either way only a dummy thinks he'll get good service at half off, lol.

[Ana_Jolie]

and to think I defended you on a different post yesterday.

Well I am sorry hun all the arguing is just a wee bit much. Go out touch grass

[ladyluv]

Well I am sorry hun all the arguing is just a wee bit much. Go out touch grass

Interesting advice, considering you’re here as well. You chose to comment on the thread instead of ignoring it. Also, where’s the drama? SteveT attacked me several times here for no reason, and you also tried to insult me. In your line of work, people are going to try and bargain with you whether you like it or not. There’s not a thing you can do about it, except ignore and block them. All that person will do is go to another provider, which I’m sure you are perfectly fine with that, so I don’t see any problem here. You have no control over how customers or other SPs chose to spend/earn their money or operate in this market.

[Ana_Jolie]

Interesting advice, considering you’re here as well. You chose to comment on the thread instead of ignoring it. Also, where’s the drama? SteveT attacked me several times here for no reason, and you also tried to insult me. In your line of work, people are going to try and bargain with you whether you like it or not. There’s not a thing you can do about it, except ignore and block them. All that person will do is go to another provider, which I’m sure you are perfectly fine with that, so I don’t see any problem here. You have no control over how customers or other SPs chose to spend/earn their money or operate in this market.

Is this supposed to bother me or something? lol

[JerseyPhil80]

Not really the point but an important observation I've found is that at the heart of so many "unsatisfied with service" stories is money. Either they booked someone outside of their comfort zone rate-wise and it didn't live up to the expectation or they haggled them down and weren't pleased with the service. There's a few in-waiting in this thread alone; "$X is fine for Y, but I wouldn't pay $50 more." Cool, so that's your wheelhouse. Find a price you can live with and book or don't, but don't complain about service when it doesn't line up with what you 'think' you should've paid.

The last thing I need to be thinking about when I'm gonna have my dick in someone, or theirs in me, is whether or not I'm getting their full attention and effort. I never haggle bc then I don't have to worry whether or not I made it worse by trying to save a couple bucks.

[justvisiting2016]

You know a great way to lower your escort costs? Become a regular at their posted rate. if you continue and things go nicely she is likely to organically extend the time you are together and offer you better financial considerations. This happens with most escorts and most guys who are regular can attest to this. People forget that a lot of these higher rates are gatekeeping tools to raise the quality of the men that come see them; and to lower how many men they see in a week in order to preserve their body and performance.

[EasyD]

You know a great way to lower your escort costs? Become a regular at their posted rate. if you continue and things go nicely she is likely to organically extend the time you are together and offer you better financial considerations. This happens with most escorts and most guys who are regular can attest to this. People forget that a lot of these higher rates are gatekeeping tools to raise the quality of the men that come see them; and to lower how many men they see in a week in order to preserve their body and performance.

Ding, ding, ding. We have a winner!

[dbagyang]

So I’ve read a lot of people saying they wouldn’t or that you shouldn’t, but the SP’s got a menu. Different add on’s. If she’s willing to change her pricing depending on the service she provides, why can’t we ask for a price for the service that we’d like? If she offers a different price for bottom, top, BBJ, etc.

Also SP’s should have the menu op front for all add on’s. Everyone here is white knighting, but there no bigger mood killer than paying $300 to get in and then having her say oh it’s and extra $100 for BBJ, an extra $50 to go topless etc. Like what!

So I guess my point is that I know it’s not all SP’s but ultimately it’s a business transaction. She’s gonna get you all hot n heavy and ask for add on’s, and our job is to find the best service to price ratio. Maybe haggling is bad for but so is discussing add on’s once someone is half naked.

[Kylie Storm]

In my case if you start haggling....I politely say " I do not think we are a match, please contact a SP that is more aligned with your budget" then i hover over the block button.😆