help calling for advice

[brendan888]

ok im 30 i just meet a great 30yo tgirl, attractive and smart perfect but has told me she is going to post op very soon (6weeks)she has never been a working girl and has little sexual experience. we havent been in bed yet i dont want to commit to something knowing its all going to change. i know it sounds shallow but i just dont know what to do on i hand i wouldnt want to stop her from doing what she needs to. i just wish i could of meet her earlier or just get some more time. i guess im affraid without her dick i wont feel the same i know she wont be any different. maybe i just wait and persue her after the op. im probably more afraid i will chasing for dick behind her back.
what should i do? i do have genuine feelings this could be the one.
do you think it fair to ask her to wait or dont get it done?

thanks

[Rockheart]

I guess it depends how much u like the person.

You could just date her until after and wait for your first sexual encounter. Then you would miss the other genitalia, if that is a worry.

However if she is interested in using her current setup before she gets rid of it, you may want to get in on that too but u have to honest to yourself.

[brendan888]

I guess it depends how much u like the person.

You could just date her until after and wait for your first sexual encounter. Then you would miss the other genitalia, if that is a worry.

However if she is interested in using her current setup before she gets rid of it, you may want to get in on that too but u have to honest to yourself.

thanks
no her setup is not funtional but does get erect when sucked.

[brendan888]

lets face it we all love cock here dont we

[Jizelle]

personally the fact that you are already questioning the attraction you may have for her after the operation already shows you're more then uncertain you still will be.
ultimately this is something only really you and her should be discussing as for the obvious personal issue at hand.
we cannot undetermine our desire to be happy in this world. and if you know that a girl without a dick wont make you happy, as she already knows living without getting SRS will make her unhappy then dont pursue it. if she's only 6 weeks away from operation she's already made her mind so dont even bother trying to confuse her and talk her out of it for selfish reasons.
point blank, you either love her for her and all of the decisions she makes or admit the reality of your circumstance and keep looking elsewhere.
dont settle for anything less then what it is you want in life.
that is my life mantra

[Rockheart]

lets face it we all love cock here dont we

That's what you have to work out for yourself.

If you really like the person, then it shouldn't matter.

[brendan888]

personally the fact that you are already questioning the attraction you may have for her after the operation already shows you're more then uncertain you still will be.
ultimately this is something only really you and her should be discussing as for the obvious personal issue at hand.
we cannot undetermine our desire to be happy in this world. and if you know that a girl without a dick wont make you happy, as she already knows living without getting SRS will make her unhappy then dont pursue it. if she's only 6 weeks away from operation she's already made her mind so dont even bother trying to confuse her and talk her out of it for selfish reasons.
point blank, you either love her for her and all of the decisions she makes or admit the reality of your circumstance and keep looking elsewhere.
dont settle for anything less then what it is you want in life.
that is my life mantra

thanks i will duscuss this with her i think my feeling are strong anyway i will support her either way

[Jizelle]

shes a lucky girl if you mean what you say