Guys at GoodH@ndys Night Club Won't Approach Us T-Girls to Say Hello... Like WTF!?!?

[tslisaparadise]

Lisa, I am far from "defensive" I am just stating my thoughts on this topic. I am just a customer like anyone else. But unlike others, I have worked at the clubs in many different positions. This gives me a little more insight and a different proscriptive on the situation.

Sorry, but your posts do come across as a bit jaded sometimes. The lounge comment is what I am referring to. You do not 100% know why Tuesday's were stopped. To suggest that you do and that there is more behind it then meets the eye. Nothing more needed to be said to make people wonder bad things. Really, it is not your place to make assumptions.

That is all I was meaning....not everything is about you Lisa, I could have been talking about 100 other girls. Interesting that you would take it so personal...& "untouchable" what does that even mean?

Tasha

lol im thinkin we both know im far from jaded and no i dont think everything is about me if you think everything i say is negative then maybe you have a problem reading black and white instead of trying to read between the lines?it seems to everyone that reads your posts that if we disagree with you were all wrong and your right aka opinions are like assholes comment we all cant like what you like most girls wouldnt ever think of giving it up for free like you seem to do so that makes us wrong?most girls make alot of money why would they wanna give it up for free?it makes no sence does it?if you felt the lounge comment was negative your wrong it was the truth plain and simple dont be so defensive for gods sake.

[Tasha Jones RIP]

I think your the one who can not read black & white. I do not expect or want everyone to agree with me. What fun would that be? Everyone has a right to express themselves and what they think or fell anyway they wish. But, sometimes, when you have nothing nice to say or do not 100% know all the facts, it is best to keep your mouth shut!

I am the first person who will admit when I am wrong. I have no problem admitting to anyone that I have made a mistake, or expressed something that was not correct. I also know that I am different then other girls with my thinking and the way I express myself.

This is not about money, it is about my personal choice to enjoy myself. Not everything has to be about money. Are you trying to say that everytime you have sex it has to be about money? You do not have sex unless your getting paid? Cause if that is the case, I feel sorry for you!

I am able to do both, get paid & still have a personal sex life. I also do not think you speak for the masses. I have seen/known many girls who are giving it up for free. They just chose to do it behind closed doors and keep it private. That is there choice just like this is mine!

[Jizelle]

now now ladies....

[Tasha Jones RIP]

O.k Mommy....you can spank me..lol

[Jizelle]

you better come bend over my knee then... i'm gunna welt your ass

[Tasha Jones RIP]

Tease....u know I love it rough

[Barbie_Swallows]

Tasha Jones u had a wild night last night at goodhandys with that cute guy u were sucking off & getting fucked hard live on stage while people were watching including myself too. I'm sorry to hear that u got in a little bit of trouble by the owner Amanda. I remember she wasn't 2 happy or pleased what she saw, and she approached u 2 love birds and said "this is why we have the diamond rooms upstairs". I hope she didn't spanked u as a punishment, lol. The only time ur allowed to have sex out in the open in the club is during the sex parties they have once a month, not on regular nights girl. Anyways did u enjoyed the FUCK in the private room upstairs? lol

B@rbie Swallows

[bubbleboy]

Yeah, as a guy I gotta agree; a lot of guys go and don't talk to anyone. I feel sorry for them. I have seen this at bars that used to have shemale nights as well - this dynamic didn't start with Goodhandy's. I think that the stage shows were fun that they used to have at Goodhandy's and I think it made it a little more social for some reason, not sure why exactly. I would like to say to all of the guys that are interested in meeting, talking to, making friends with, or hooking up with trans ladies that they are really approachable. You are much more likely to get attitude from straight women than shemales. In fact, I have never had a bad reaction from a lady that I just chatted with and wasn't crude to (at least not righ off the bat - crudeness has it's place). Treat people how you want to be treated, that goes a long way too. Yes ladies, I am saying there is a difference - you are a lot more approachable to new people and sweeter too. Like a couple of people here have said, you can just chat and see where it goes. Just think about as you are going there to hang out and talk to people a little.

Some guys are just awkward wherever they are, then you add to that the fact that most all of us are going alone. People in general are much more at ease when they go out with at least one other person to a place where they don't know anyone (or don't know anyone very well) and this is a factor too. I have met new girls there that were nervous at first, but they started to warm up to people once they started to make friends.

I do agree that a major factor in the guys being so shy is that a lot of them are closeted and it's hard for them to come out of their shells and I don't want to get in to saying which factor is more important than another.

I for one am cool with what turns me on and what I am in to. If guys were approaching the girls more, then I would have more competition! Remember guys, 100% of shots don't take don't get in (take this howevery you want )!

I would like to thank Amanda and Todd for starting the place and keeping it going. They have made a cool space for everyone to meet and chill. Very unique place - you can't find that in most cities. I am going tonight and I am looking forward to it.

Lisa - I live closer to Hamilton so I will keep an ear open for what you are up to. I want to check out some of the nights in Hamilton that are happening now that were mentioned here too.

[shemale_lover44]

Lesson Learned - nobody and speak for everybody

First I would like to thank Barbie for sharing her honest thoughts. As a guy who has only been to GoodHandy's once i am by no means an expert. Just a guy.

I have never been comfortable around girls. I was so nervous I was shaking like a kick start vibrator. I didn't know how anything worked - I didn't know if it was only pay or open or bottle service or .....

Now that you have shared I can now conduct myself like a MAN and get to know you all as people, maybe friends or ...

Ed.

[Python]

Most guys who are into tranny's are not alpha males. Approaching women in a foreign environment, where a bunch of random guys are all sitting around in a circle staring at everything, by yourself, is very intimidating to someone who has social fears.

Another problem is some people come from very conservative backgrounds where they aren't used to going up to a stranger and soliticing them for sex after talking to them for 30 seconds.. Some people just have it deeply embedded in their social behaviour not to do so.

Then you, who have just about the most intimidating personality there is, who goes off on mindless rants about stuff that is impossible to predict would bother someone (because its not reasonable).
Such as a guy wanting to wear a condom when getting a blowjob from someone who's probabily seen over a thousand cocks that month... Many of which probabily had an STD.

Most people dont like being judged, so when you create this aura via your "honesty" of a cold hearted judgemental, ignorant bitch (just being honest), it makes it so randoms wont aproach you.

But I can understand why it would be frustrating... Because you want to feel like a women, being hit on... While, the majority of people that go to the club are socially inept introverted perverts. (me!)

[Tasha Jones RIP]

Tasha Jones u had a wild night last night at goodhandys with that cute guy u were sucking off & getting fucked hard live on stage while people were watching including myself too. I'm sorry to hear that u got in a little bit of trouble by the owner Amanda. I remember she wasn't 2 happy or pleased what she saw, and she approached u 2 love birds and said "this is why we have the diamond rooms upstairs". I hope she didn't spanked u as a punishment, lol. The only time ur allowed to have sex out in the open in the club is during the sex parties they have once a month, not on regular nights girl. Anyways did u enjoyed the FUCK in the private room upstairs? lol

B@rbie Swallows

No No it was not like that at all. She wanted to close up and the longer we were public about our sex fest. The longer it would take for people to go home...lol.

I did enjoy my "fuck" it was hot as hell....

Tasha

[wellhungone]

okay, just spent the last 5 minutes reading this thread, I'm a little shocked!

First of all, do you think all these comments are going to make the guys that go to Goodhandys continue to go there Or the fact that if someone was thinking of going there has read this and now has decided not too ?

I've been to goodhandys on many occassions ( last night as well) and if there is a girl of interest I will approach. But come on, give your heads a shake !

I've approached Tasha, Lisa,Lucy, Karolina, Kayla and many other at this club. Alot of times the girls have guys around them and other guys don't want to approach. I've also seen were there is a group of girls and a guy does approach, he is ignored ( okay that was me ) !

Todd and Amanda have worked hard to get this club going and now everyone is talking trash about people not approaching people and that all the guys are "losers" ! If I've never been and I read this review, I would not be going there!

This is a new venture and progression, 4 yrs ago we wouldn't be having this conversation because there was no club like it. We had to wait to a "shemale nights" party. This club offers everyone a safe place to meet, have drinks and socialize. I know the thread is not intended to trash the club, but when you start talking that the guys are loser do you really think that it makes it appealing for some one new to visit?

Just my $0.02 worth, wheather it's valid or not !

[tslisaparadise]

okay, just spent the last 5 minutes reading this thread, I'm a little shocked!

First of all, do you think all these comments are going to make the guys that go to Goodhandys continue to go there Or the fact that if someone was thinking of going there has read this and now has decided not too ?

I've been to goodhandys on many occassions ( last night as well) and if there is a girl of interest I will approach. But come on, give your heads a shake !

I've approached Tasha, Lisa,Lucy, Karolina, Kayla and many other at this club. Alot of times the girls have guys around them and other guys don't want to approach. I've also seen were there is a group of girls and a guy does approach, he is ignored ( okay that was me ) !

Todd and Amanda have worked hard to get this club going and now everyone is talking trash about people not approaching people and that all the guys are "losers" ! If I've never been and I read this review, I would not be going there!

This is a new venture and progression, 4 yrs ago we wouldn't be having this conversation because there was no club like it. We had to wait to a "shemale nights" party. This club offers everyone a safe place to meet, have drinks and socialize. I know the thread is not intended to trash the club, but when you start talking that the guys are loser do you really think that it makes it appealing for some one new to visit?

Just my $0.02 worth, wheather it's valid or not !

very well said,for the record ive never trashed talked any guy who goes there without the guys it would be pretty boring to say the least.i once was a reguler who showed up almost every saturday night and pushed the club through my 20 000 members of my website and linked it to virtually everything i had my name stamped on for years so i did more then my part and to this day i still get asked about it and i push it in hopes they go and have a great time.as tasha thinks for some reason im being bitter because i miss those saturday nights when amanda would bring tears to my eyes with her awesome stage presance and personalitty honestly that was the best time of my life.the guys at the club are second to none they all have strenth and characture and alot of class.i refuse to dish the club simply because its a great club period and just because i miss the good ole days of saturday night stage shows doesnt mean for one minite its not a good club it just went in a different direction then i would have liked but thats just me im older then most and have a different outlook then the majoritty but the ownership is there to make money and they know more then me or anyone else what works and what doesnt so to those who are hesitant about going dont be just go and have a blast.

[Justcurious34]

No No it was not like that at all. She wanted to close up and the longer we were public about our sex fest. The longer it would take for people to go home...lol.

I did enjoy my "fuck" it was hot as hell....

Tasha

Tasha
I have been away,I just started reading all the postings. one topic Im curious about

all this wild sex, stagee and at bar ,is there time to use condoms or is it all wild abandon sex
I read no mention of condoms any where
Just curious
gald you had a wild time,reads real exciting for all that were present
I have not had the pleasure of visiting the club
duke
I believe that sex is one of the most beautiful, natural, wholesome things that money can buy.

[Justcurious34]

Sorry, I know I tend to write to long. I will try to learn the trade of saying so much in less words..lol

reads great, reaaly hot