I has a question

[[K]]

Let's say I, like most other closet Tranny chasers, have spent almost the entirety of transsexual obsession stage hiding behind a computer screen. This has lasted the better part of a decade for me however, I've spent the past 5 years in a relationship that ended last month so as to remain faithful I did not divulge into something I've always wanted to try... becoming a part of the Toronto transsexual scene.

When I say scene, I don't really know what that means so please, take no offence. I simply noticed that there are clubs such as Goodhandy's where beautiful tgirls visit.

I also don't know if I have a full grasp on what this forum is about and I'm not sure f you guys and girls speak in code or if it is just a forum for chat. I do see that a lot of the girls on here are working girls. Are all of the girls on here working girls or just the majority?

Anyways, I could go on but I'll get to my point of this topic. How would I guy like myself, one who would not be afraid to be sen in public with a transsexual go about meeting, or for that matter, hooking up with a transsexual? Do I just have to go balls out and attend an evening at Goodhandy's or would I be better served frequenting this forum a little longer to get an idea of client/worker protocol?

[dan_calgary]

don't get discouraged, it's a long process

How would I guy like myself, one who would not be afraid to be seen in public with a transsexual go about meeting, or for that matter, hooking up with a transsexual? Do I just have to go balls out and attend an evening at Goodhandy's or would I be better served frequenting this forum a little longer to get an idea of client/worker protocol?

It's like trying to win a lottery, very few do, not saying it can't happen, you will find most, but not all t-girls are working girls, the surgeries etc. run into thousands and thousands, most of the girls i have met, either have a boyfriend/girlfriend or are married already, that's just the way it is, kinda makes you wonder, why are they working then, maybe their significant other should get off their ass and look after them better, as for Goodhandy's if you not paying for services, they don't really want to talk with you, even some of the working girls don't like going there, I am surprised between Toronto & Vancouver there are not any GOOD t-girl clubs/bars (not dives) where you can meet up have a few drinks as you would at a nightclub, and money doesn't dominate the conversation, but some people have tried and the business just wasn't there, Calgary had a couple good clubs back in the 1990's but just didn't last. The USA and Europe have so many, but not here in Canada, yet, one day I'd love to give it a try.

give www.urnotalone.com a look, lots of girls with profiles, and 50/50 are not working girls,

good luck, it's a long process, so you must have patience, you will meet some great girls, but you will meet a lot of trash as well, if you find the magic formula, please let us know.

later

[[K]]

It's like trying to win a lottery, very few do, not saying it can't happen, you will find most, but not all t-girls are working girls, the surgeries etc. run into thousands and thousands, most of the girls i have met, either have a boyfriend/girlfriend or are married already, that's just the way it is, kinda makes you wonder, why are they working then, maybe their significant other should get off their ass and look after them better, as for Goodhandy's if you not paying for services, they don't really want to talk with you, even some of the working girls don't like going there, I am surprised between Toronto & Vancouver there are not any GOOD t-girl clubs/bars (not dives) where you can meet up have a few drinks as you would at a nightclub, and money doesn't dominate the conversation, but some people have tried and the business just wasn't there, Calgary had a couple good clubs back in the 1990's but just didn't last. The USA and Europe have so many, but not here in Canada, yet, one day I'd love to give it a try.

give www.urnotalone.com a look, lots of girls with profiles, and 50/50 are not working girls,

good luck, it's a long process, so you must have patience, you will meet some great girls, but you will meet a lot of trash as well, if you find the magic formula, please let us know.

later

Thanks for the fast reply.

Assuming I've exhausted almost all possible avenues to meeting a non-working tgirl, plus I feel as though this is something I really, really want to try (almost something I feel I NEED to try) NOW, and it is quiet possible that once I entered into the Toronto tgirl scene I would not like what I see.... how much would a fun night at Goodhandy's run me?

That is a serious question, and I apologize if it is taboo to discuss such things in public like this, but I would hate to show up (it's a 2 hour drive) and find out I'm a few bucks shy of having the time I envisioned.

[prettyboy]

The chances of you finding a 'hot' non-working TGirl are slim to none, not at Goodhandys and definitely not at your computer.
Prostitution is the primary industry of the Shemale world, if you want to be part of 'the scene' you must fulfill a role within it. Unless you are the proverbial 'hot- hung -hunk' get over it, bring your wallet [about $200] for a
fun filled evening. Thursday night around 11 o'clock will give you a plethora of beauties to choose from.
It is fundamentally an interior 'Red Light District', on a superficial level the place is friendly, you will not be intimidated by anyone and you get the chance to talk to the girls before committing to any expenditure. I f you don't fancy any of them their is very little pressure, the girls move on pretty fast if you are a 'tyre kicker.'
If you are interested in TGirls and live in Southern Ontario you should definitely check it out. It will be worth the drive.

[smile004]

I have always found George's Play to be a place where Tgirls are just out to have a nice evening with drinks and good friendly conversation. They don't wear the working hat so much there.
Give it a try

[prettyboy]

I have always found George's Play to be a place where Tgirls are just out to have a nice evening with drinks and good friendly conversation. They don't wear the working hat so much there.
Give it a try

That is true, you can meet some off duty girls there, but be aware that Georges play is a Gay bar frequented by a few TGirls and drag queens and not a 'shemale' bar. So expect to get your bum cheeks squeezed by a man or two.
If you are comfortable with that you can have a good time there

[merelypink]

i would start by going to the clubs and see what happens

[[K]]

i would start by going to the clubs and see what happens

That is a bold first move I have to take, you're right.

I want to thank everyone for their kind replies. I wasn't expecting as much help but forgive me while I keep probing for answers.

Is Goodhandy's set up like a strip club? I've seen some pictures and I saw a stage. So do some girls dance and other walk the floor and solicit costumers for lap/private dances? Or are we supposed to be more forward and solicit the girls for a dance as per Barbie's post up top (the one about men not approaching the girls)?

So how far would 200 bucks go? Would you get to see a few girls in private for that?