New Guy Complains... Like that really helps my image :)

[Winkie]

Okay i get it that alot of girls here are escorts and i understand that you have to pay the bills. But whatever happend to just a good girl that wants a sincer nice guy. Then again most guys like that dont have much luck so maybe thats what my problem is.. I just wanna get intouch with a seriously interesting girl, not the type that just wants to set up the next appointment. And again dont get me wrong i know its just business but sometimes business can interfere with pleasure..

[Jamie French]

Okay i get it that alot of girls here are escorts and i understand that you have to pay the bills. But whatever happend to just a good girl that wants a sincer nice guy. Then again most guys like that dont have much luck so maybe thats what my problem is.. I just wanna get intouch with a seriously interesting girl, not the type that just wants to set up the next appointment. And again dont get me wrong i know its just business but sometimes business can interfere with pleasure..

I think your first mistake (that's not meant to sound harsh, read on...) is that you're looking for that special person in a forum called Tgirl Chat - which is to say, most every trans person here is either a performer or an escort or both, that's why we go by the term tgirl, shemale, tranny, etc... these are porn terms meant to advertise sexual fantasy. If you're looking for someone who is interested in an actual relationship you'd be hard pressed as non-performs want to be known as anything but a shemale or tranny - they don't want to draw any attention to their former life as a male so you won't really find one in a board like this. The fantasies we sell carry with them the potential to screw with what your real life expectations can be. (Sorry for that!)

[Winkie]

I guess I am just that nieve person that thinks maybe just maybe there are people out there no matter what their status can convey interest with another person without it being a sexual thing.

[Jamie French]

I guess I am just that nieve person that thinks maybe just maybe there are people out there no matter what their status can convey interest with another person without it being a sexual thing.

You aren't naive, in fact after the IM exchange we just had I can say without a doubt that you are being purposefully obtuse. Look, snooping around porn forums is the wrong way to go about finding anybody who wants to be in a relationship with you. Life isn't a Penthouse Forum letter - it just doesn't work that way. Porn performers and escorts do have very real lives but when we want an actual romantic partner we'll find you not the other way around & believe you me, fans/clients are the last pool of people we'll go fishing in.

[Winkie]

Nor am i fan or a client of yours, and to say that I am looking for a relationship is an entire misunderstanding. And during our IM exchange I was nothing but polite and open to just about any sort of conversation that came my way. On the other hand I found that you had a clear goal and that was not something I was interested in from the jump.

What is wrong with us co exsisting in the same forum

[Jamie French]

"...But whatever happened to just a good girl that wants a sincere nice guy"

"...But sometimes business can interfere with pleasure.."

So you're not looking for romantic relationship and/or free sex?

We'll then your goal just got a whole lot easier to attain... simply start a thread about anything you find interesting and see who responds...

Instant interaction with a tranny sans payment or membership fees.

Anything else is pretty much gonna cost ya.

[Tonia Lee]

For one, these chicks have it so why not use it. If I was a bomb shell or sexy, I would do it.
That aside, these girl are just the same as any other chick. Just cause chicky makes some cash don't make her a trick. She has a heart and many have a great guy, a real relationship.

Shit, I admire these chicks.

As far as the girl you want, she's probably right near ya and you don't even know it. I don't get hit on, I don't fit the desire of most but guys find me pretty and funny so it becomes more than just sex.
I don't like a relationship that's just sex. I just dumped a guy for that very reason. It was just sex and I don't like that.

So, if your just a single guy, keep your eyes open for the four eyed geek that just spilled her drink on her blouse. She just may rock in bed.