Lots of questions

[milner32]

Hi, I am new to all of this and find it very exciting.

I have lots of questions about this, I hope someone here can help me out.
What does the term top/bottom mean?
Do Tgirls want to date straight men?
If I want a relationship with a tgirl does it mean I am gay?
Do tgirls live full time as tgirls?

I am really attracted to some of the tgirls I have seen on the net, I know I would like to try and have a relationship with a tgirl but how do I meet one and then what if it turns out I do not like the sex like I thought I would. In other words how do I know this is for me if I have never had sex with tgirl and want to but then decide I dont like it. I dont want a relationship that is doomed to start with.

Thanks!

[Ray]

I will try to answer some of your questions milner. First, a top does the fucking while a bottom receives. The type of tgirl I like is versatile which means they are both top and bottom depending on their partners preference. In some cases, because of hormones, some of the girls cannot top. Viagara or cialis works for many of the girls and of course old farts like me.

Most men who like tgirls are NOT considered gay. Gay men are attracted to men. Tgirls may have a penis but in all other aspects they are women and should be considered as and treated as women. Tgirls live their life fulltime as a woman unlike transvestites or cross dressers who like to dress up occassionally. Because they are in fact women born in a man's body, I believe most tgirls are attracted to straight men although like men or women, some are bi and some are even turned on by other tgirls.

I hope this answers your questions. Feel free to PM me if you like.

[Tonia Lee]

I have lots of questions about this, I hope someone here can help me out.
>What does the term top/bottom mean?
submissive/dominant. Those who give and those who receive for the most part.
>Do Tgirls want to date straight men?
Most do. I have yet to date a gay man nor has any of my closest friends.
>If I want a relationship with a tgirl does it mean I am gay?
No. If you want to have sex with a man you are gay. Your chick happens to have a penis... happens to be a genetic boy but is still clearly female now. You either like a trans girl or not. We're not for everybody.
>Do tgirls live full time as tgirls?
Depends. I do and obviously these girls do but some are just starting out and may have trouble passing. You need to know how a transsexual woman came about. At one point she began a medical transition. Some go stealth early on, others years before they can go full time.
I was one full year before I was regarded as female.

[WillEee]

Just do it!

Hi, I am new to all of this and find it very exciting.

I have lots of questions about this, I hope someone here can help me out.
What does the term top/bottom mean?
In the sense used here these terms refer to anal sex - a top means that that person wishes to do the penetration and conversely then, a bottom means that person prefers to receive from their sexual partner. Another term you will also find is "versatile" meaning that that person is comfortable either giving or receiving.

Do Tgirls want to date straight men?
Some T-girls undoubtedly do wish for a relationship with a straight male but unfortunately it is highly unlikely you will find such a girl from inquiries on this site. Essentially, most of the Tgirls on this forum are escorts and they will offer you companionship but they expect to be compensated for their time.

If I want a relationship with a tgirl does it mean I am gay?
Your relationship should only mean whatever you wish it to mean! There are some outside the community who will disagree with this BUT what you think is what should matter to you. If you were gay you would not be enticed by the pics of pretty girls despite the surprise they pack between their legs.

Do tgirls live full time as tgirls?
Many, probably the majority do, while those who do not are often described as being either Transvestites or Cross Dressers who only dress on occasion, but may live as males otherwise.

I am really attracted to some of the tgirls I have seen on the net, I know I would like to try and have a relationship with a tgirl but how do I meet one and then what if it turns out I do not like the sex like I thought I would. In other words how do I know this is for me if I have never had sex with tgirl and want to but then decide I dont like it. I dont want a relationship that is doomed to start with.
Of course you are attracted to these girls because many of them are very attractive indeed. You must remember too that real Tgirls consider themselves to be female first.
There are several alternative dating sites that cater to those who many would consider being out of the norm, so you should probably investigate those sites and see if there is any possibility of finding a transgendered girl who is to your liking and looking for the same kind of connection as you.

If you are fortunate enough to meet a Trans girl and find that this kind of sex is not for you, then that would certainly be no different than for example, meeting a genetic girl [GG] and deciding you do not care for her. Just chalk it up to an experimental adventure and move on. If you do not find out that curiousity will drive you insane until your dying day.

The only way you are going to find out is to actually experience it! Either way, like it or not, it will not change you in any way, but only then will you know!

I, just like you, was fascinated by the beautiful girls that I saw on the net and one day, to satisfy my own curiousity I decided to meet a TG escort. I found it a very rewarding experience and one that I have never regretted.

Thanks!

Good luck in your adventures Milner

[milner32]

Thanks

Thanks to all who answered, the next question I have is how is the best way to find the girls to date? I have never had problems in the past finding and dating females so the same should go for finding a tgirl right? I just need to know where and what to look for.

Many thanks!

milner32

[Rockheart]

Thanks to all who answered, the next question I have is how is the best way to find the girls to date? I have never had problems in the past finding and dating females so the same should go for finding a tgirl right? I just need to know where and what to look for.

Many thanks!

milner32

There is a lot less tgirls than genetically born girls in the ocean.
Then a percentage of those are possibly not passable or full-time.
So you may want to consider if you can handle doing all the same things and going to all the same places you normally would with a girl.

Most tgirls are just like any girl and would like to meet a nice guy out a at normal place. Rather than someone that is specifically on the hunt for a tgirl, you would be more desirable as someone that is out looking for a girl and if it happens to be a tgirl, that is just as good.

If you are not sure of your sexuality and are maybe just in this to test out the waters, then you should try the escort route first.
Finding out you are not into to tgirls with some nice girl u meet probably isn't the best situation.

You have to consider if there is more than a sexual attraction under the covers.
Or if u could truly date a tgirl for real.

[merelypink]

welcome im sure all your questions will be answered