Goodhandys Advice

[maddplotter]

Sorry my lovers & friends i didnt make it out yesterday night!
i had a killer head ache throughout the day so i just took the night to rest!
=( we shall see each other another night when im closer to downtown as well.

Dam, another girl with a headache. The story of my love life. Ya I had a good time last night and got to chat with some people and watch some hot tgirls doing sultry dances on the stage. Unfortunately, we all had to wait until midnight for those. Also Jenllani flashed me her sexy red underwear. You little tease!

[tsKITANA]

Dam, another girl with a headache. The story of my love life. Ya I had a good time last night and got to chat with some people and watch some hot tgirls doing sultry dances on the stage. Unfortunately, we all had to wait until midnight for those. Also Jenllani flashed me her sexy red underwear. You little tease!

i knowwwww. sorry baby! But glad you had fun! And i wished also i was there to see miss Jenllani sexy red undies. mmmmmmm red undiiieees.

[Lani]

i knowwwww. sorry baby! But glad you had fun! And i wished also i was there to see miss Jenllani sexy red undies. mmmmmmm red undiiieees.

Dam, another girl with a headache. The story of my love life. Ya I had a good time last night and got to chat with some people and watch some hot tgirls doing sultry dances on the stage. Unfortunately, we all had to wait until midnight for those. Also Jenllani flashed me her sexy red underwear. You little tease!

What can I say...I'm a slut!

[unfortunate]

For the novice, especially one who tends toward shyness and who might still be uncertain about what drives this new interest in the transgendered, stepping into Goodhandy's can be an unsettling experience.

At a bar like the Brass Rail, the curious can turn in off the street, maybe nod to a doorman while quickly walking past, grab an out of the way table, order a drink and wait for the occasional dancer to stop by for a chat. No big deal.

At Goodhandy's, after a long climb up narrow steps, the newcomer needs to stop and pay a membership fee, plus fill out paperwork that asks for name and birthdate. After revealing those personal details and accepting the membership card, he now steps into the club, basically stepping out onto the extended stage/dancefloor. There are narrow benches along the walls but no where else to sit. He turns away from the stage to see where everyone has gathered around three or four tables at the bar area. It feels crowded up there, intimidating to the newcomer. Maybe he can order something from the bar and take a moment to catch his breath. In my handful of visits, I've immediately turned and headed up the stairs, to watch the stage area from above.

I went Monday last week. Stuck around for about three hours, but never talked to anyone. No one approached me. I stayed away from the bar area. I returned on Tuesday, intending to talk to a couple girls and maybe check out the booths, to see how I responded to everything, explore where my interests lie. For a few minutes I tried standing in the crowded bar area, in the vicinity of someone who looked cute to me, watching the activity. Over the night a couple women approached me to try to interest me in a private dance, but they hadn't been the women I'd been paying particular attention towards. I tried to catch the attention of someone I would have liked to take for dances, but I was unsuccessful. Maybe because I'm still uncertain about these interests, I avert my eyes when someone looks my way. That would make it my fault that I left on Tuesday still frustrated that over two nights I'd hardly spoken to anyone there. I was probably being too cautious. I don't know what the terms and conditions are for dances at Goodhandy's. Is it $20 a dance like at more traditional venues, or is it all private arrangements? And I didn't want to take this step with someone to find it an experience I regretted. That would probably make me feel bad about myself and my sexuality.

I had been at Goodhandy's about 15 minutes on Thursday when I saw someone I know step out of the booth area overhead. I don't think he noticed me. This probably isn't someone who I want to share a secret understanding with. So I left, and I don't know if it's a good idea for me to return. He's probably a regular. I'm still frustrated that I didn't manage to explore my interest here a little deeper by talking to someone and maybe seeing if she seemed like someone I'd like to have dance for me. If I hadn't recognized my acquaintance I probably would have returned this upcoming week, to try to push myself further along.

[greep]

For the novice, especially one who tends toward shyness and who might still be uncertain about what drives this new interest in the transgendered, stepping into Goodhandy's can be an unsettling experience.

At a bar like the Brass Rail, the curious can turn in off the street, maybe nod to a doorman while quickly walking past, grab an out of the way table, order a drink and wait for the occasional dancer to stop by for a chat. No big deal.

At Goodhandy's, after a long climb up narrow steps, the newcomer needs to stop and pay a membership fee, plus fill out paperwork that asks for name and birthdate. After revealing those personal details and accepting the membership card, he now steps into the club, basically stepping out onto the extended stage/dancefloor. There are narrow benches along the walls but no where else to sit. He turns away from the stage to see where everyone has gathered around three or four tables at the bar area. It feels crowded up there, intimidating to the newcomer. Maybe he can order something from the bar and take a moment to catch his breath. In my handful of visits, I've immediately turned and headed up the stairs, to watch the stage area from above.

I went Monday last week. Stuck around for about three hours, but never talked to anyone. No one approached me. I stayed away from the bar area. I returned on Tuesday, intending to talk to a couple girls and maybe check out the booths, to see how I responded to everything, explore where my interests lie. For a few minutes I tried standing in the crowded bar area, in the vicinity of someone who looked cute to me, watching the activity. Over the night a couple women approached me to try to interest me in a private dance, but they hadn't been the women I'd been paying particular attention towards. I tried to catch the attention of someone I would have liked to take for dances, but I was unsuccessful. Maybe because I'm still uncertain about these interests, I avert my eyes when someone looks my way. That would make it my fault that I left on Tuesday still frustrated that over two nights I'd hardly spoken to anyone there. I was probably being too cautious. I don't know what the terms and conditions are for dances at Goodhandy's. Is it $20 a dance like at more traditional venues, or is it all private arrangements? And I didn't want to take this step with someone to find it an experience I regretted. That would probably make me feel bad about myself and my sexuality.

I had been at Goodhandy's about 15 minutes on Thursday when I saw someone I know step out of the booth area overhead. I don't think he noticed me. This probably isn't someone who I want to share a secret understanding with. So I left, and I don't know if it's a good idea for me to return. He's probably a regular. I'm still frustrated that I didn't manage to explore my interest here a little deeper by talking to someone and maybe seeing if she seemed like someone I'd like to have dance for me. If I hadn't recognized my acquaintance I probably would have returned this upcoming week, to try to push myself further along.

What are the odds of that, seeing someone you know there. that Could of been massively embarrasing. Ive also worried about that.

[maddplotter]

What are the odds of that, seeing someone you know there. that Could of been massively embarrasing. Ive also worried about that.

Now that's an interesting subject to talk about. What to do/say if someone you know sees you at a tgirl club:

(1) "I thought it was a regular club"

(2) "I'm actually twin brother."

(3) For students, "Just doing research for a Sociology paper."

(4) "Well I heard about this place and had to check it out. We don't have anything like this back in "

(5) "Soooo, let's talk about that raise...."

(6) Smile, buy him tonnes of drinks so he's drunk and won't remember a thing tomorrow.

(7) Head for the exit quickly yelling "I'm in the wrong bar! I'm in the wrong bar!"

(8) "I'm just here driving home my sister, er, brother, um, transgendered sibling."

(9) Stare at floor every time he walks by and both of you just ignore each other all night long.

(10) Let out a sigh of relief, accept it, join your friend and bond over your mutual interest in tgirls. Then join tgirlforums.com

Anyone else got any good ones?

[Lani]

Yeah, find a cheapest and one way flight to 'TIMBUKTU'













LOL!

[sensual_lover20]

I have actually wanted to encounter someone I know there.

Once, I locked eyes with someone I had spoken to before somewhere and he ran out of there. It's too late at that point.

If you see someone you know, you obviously share the interest and there is no shame in that. Grab a drink, talk and enjoy your night.

If he is your boss and married, let's say your job is now recession proof.

[maddplotter]

I have actually wanted to encounter someone I know there.

Once, I locked eyes with someone I had spoken to before somewhere and he ran out of there. It's too late at that point.

If you see someone you know, you obviously share the interest and there is no shame in that. Grab a drink, talk and enjoy your night.

If he is your boss and married, let's say your job is now recession proof.

See number five. LOL

[unfortunate]

The man I saw isn't someone I know in a professional capacity. We share a social circle. I think of him as someone with boundary issues, who some regard as a bit creepy and who often stumbles into inappropriate comments. So I'd have concerns about him carelessly divulging secrets, or thinking we can be good buddies and constantly dropping nudge-nudges towards me about our shared interest when we're in other people's company. If it was someone more rational I might be able to rely on the reality that we're both in the same place and have the same need to maintain confidences. In that case he could be someone I could have used for info and to introduce me to a couple of the women, since I was new hanging around there.

[wellhungone]

Seems i missed out. I got called into work and ended up working some extra shifts as well.

I have to work next week as well, so I might not get back there till the 26th!

Hope to see Kitana, Lola and Beya there the next time ?

[Jizelle]

I'll be at goodhandys tonight!!!

[mr-kink]

How will we know you?

[Jizelle]

who's going to goodhandys tonight?

[greep]

Ive been twice, ,last fall and this past spring. Im dying to go again, Next time the delta chelsea has a special I'll be coming for 2 days (mon and tues) and Im gonna get my shemale freak on!!!!!

Also I notice the good folks at Goodhandys havn't been updating their galleries lately, what gives?