Okay, I have been lurking for a long time, My wife is out of town for 10 days and I am ready to take the plunge or be plunged - maybe both 
I want someone who can be a bit dominant and lead the way as this is my first encounter outside of marriage in 15 years but I dont want someone who just trys to get me to blow my load and then kick me out. Looking for someone who can prolong the estacy and agony. I want to top and be topped ( I think)
So who would you go for, or is there someone else to suggest?

I want someone who can be a bit dominant and lead the way as this is my first encounter outside of marriage in 15 years but I dont want someone who just trys to get me to blow my load and then kick me out. Looking for someone who can prolong the estacy and agony. I want to top and be topped ( I think)
So who would you go for, or is there someone else to suggest?
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