I was just curious how the girls on this board feel about their "admirers"?
As I understand it a lot of girls resent the fact they have male equipment and other male characteristics while this is often the main focal point of a guys attraction to them. For example, if you are in a relationship with a guy and he knows of your transgendered status beforehand it is logical to conclude that this is a large part of his physical attraction to you. I also understand that there is much more to a relationship than physical attraction but it is seemingly problematic.
Many girls desire SRS as the ultimate goal while many others do not, but I have to assume that only some male partners would be supportive of SRS and continue a relationship with you if that is the path taken.
Furthermore, having a male genitalia is sometimes the centre of many girl's careers on this board, be it escorting, modeling, pornography or what have you. How do you feel about that fact that the men who desire you love your equipment so much when you might resent the fact you have it? Add to that the fact many of the guys here are in the closet (bad choice of words?) with regards to their attraction to transgendered women in real life.
There are plenty of girls who are entirely comfortable with who they are might even like the fact they are packing but I'm sure that isn't everybody. There are many dynamics.
All in all it is sort of a Catch 22 and I was just wondering what your opinions were.
As I understand it a lot of girls resent the fact they have male equipment and other male characteristics while this is often the main focal point of a guys attraction to them. For example, if you are in a relationship with a guy and he knows of your transgendered status beforehand it is logical to conclude that this is a large part of his physical attraction to you. I also understand that there is much more to a relationship than physical attraction but it is seemingly problematic.
Many girls desire SRS as the ultimate goal while many others do not, but I have to assume that only some male partners would be supportive of SRS and continue a relationship with you if that is the path taken.
Furthermore, having a male genitalia is sometimes the centre of many girl's careers on this board, be it escorting, modeling, pornography or what have you. How do you feel about that fact that the men who desire you love your equipment so much when you might resent the fact you have it? Add to that the fact many of the guys here are in the closet (bad choice of words?) with regards to their attraction to transgendered women in real life.
There are plenty of girls who are entirely comfortable with who they are might even like the fact they are packing but I'm sure that isn't everybody. There are many dynamics.
All in all it is sort of a Catch 22 and I was just wondering what your opinions were.
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