How do t-girl's feel about the men that desire them?

[bp2626]

I love my fans!!!! ultimately I want them to like me for the personality that makes the person I am and the fact I've got something extra special only makes me that much more interesting

I'm glad you have an entirely positive outlook.

I dont really know too much about my fans on a personal level. I feel they should be more willing to put themselves out there if this is something they genuinely feel for and love. But as I stated in my first answer, I love my fans! That's how I really do feel about them

That is a good point I've added it to the original post.

It is true that I have many admirers. I am not certain that "fan" is the right appellation.

I do not intend to have SRS. I love my equipment and it serves me well.

I think the poster is stating the obvious when he says that many guys are attracted to shemales because they have cocks. I think there is a certain amount of resentment because of that on several levels. Do I give it more thought than that? Not usually...

I am an escort and that is a business. Business is business, friendship is friendship. I don't mix the two except in the most exceptional circumstances.

So if an admirer wants to see me as an escort and they like that I have a cock and they like me because I have a cock, that's great. In a friend, I want to find a person who likes me for who I am and precisely not because I have a cock. I try to keep the two dynamics separate. In that way, there really is no conflict.

Sunshine

You're right, perhaps I didn't use the right combination of words. I am not as articulate as I'd like to be sometimes and I have updated the original post.

In your experience do you find love more often with those who know of [and like] the fact you're transgendered beforehand? Is it the opposite? Is it irrelevant?


To the off-topic people I just have to say I don't think the Leaf's have won a single game in 20 years and I'm not sure why they still have funs! Vive Les Habitants!
Actually, Go Canucks

[Raging Bob]

personally i think there all idiots,why would anybody be a fan of somebody they know nothing about?

Perhaps "fan" is just the wrong word Lisa. You can only admire what you know about a person. You can admire someone's accomplishments, beauty or talent without knowing anything else about them, but that's all you're admiring. Once you get to know the real person (for better or worse) you can either find more admirable qualities or discover that beauty, in that case, is in fact skin deep.

[tslisaparadise]

Perhaps "fan" is just the wrong word Lisa. You can only admire what you know about a person. You can admire someone's accomplishments, beauty or talent without knowing anything else about them, but that's all you're admiring. Once you get to know the real person (for better or worse) you can either find more admirable qualities or discover that beauty, in that case, is in fact skin deep.

very well put Bob.i used to love all the attention from my fans but honestly the past couple of years i got so bored of hearing the same stuff i couldnt deal with it anymore while i respect where there coming from i just feel im at a time in my life where im very comfortable in my own skin and i really dont need to be lifted up anymore.there was a time i needed to hear all the awesome words that lifted me up when the rest of the world let me down but all that has changed and i hear those awesome words every day i step outside my door and its so much better.i may not take good pix i may not be as pretty as most but trust me in real life somebody always comes up to me no matter where i am tell me that im stunning and that more then makes up for all the negativity that surrounds me in this forum.

[sunshine]

a long road

I'm glad you have an entirely positive outlook.



That is a good point I've added it to the original post.



You're right, perhaps I didn't use the right combination of words. I am not as articulate as I'd like to be sometimes and I have updated the original post.

In your experience do you find love more often with those who know of [and like] the fact you're transgendered beforehand? Is it the opposite? Is it irrelevant?


To the off-topic people I just have to say I don't think the Leaf's have won a single game in 20 years and I'm not sure why they still have funs! Vive Les Habitants!
Actually, Go Canucks

I suppose I am as guilty as any of using the term friend loosely. And in my opinion, there are different levels of friendship. So while I am quite open and friendly with clients and in certain social settings, this is not the same as being true friends. It takes common experience to forge a friendship, it takes facing trials and tribulations together, it takes a journey down a long road with only each other for support. These are the things that create bonds worthy of the term friendship.

My friends have known me for a long time, we have been through the looking glass together, sat in the shade on the other side of the mushroom, faced the angry Queen and lived to tell about it. The fact that I am transgendered is a minor detail and my friends have certainly kept me company as I walked down that road as well.

The basic ingredient in the brew that boils down into this thing we call friendship is shared experience. Time spent together is bound, in time, to begin to create a friendship. If you haven't guessed, I think that, before someone ever gets to be my friend, they have learned alot about me.

Now love... love is an entirely different egg from an entirely different genus of bird. And here, I don't consider that a particular recipe should be considered. Rather, you have to open yourself to the flavours of life until one day you discover a staple of which you should never tire.

I suppose that, at length, I am trying to say that yes, someone had better know that I am transgendered and much more before they even consider that I am a friend.

As for the man who falls in love with a Tgirl who plans on having SRS, he had better be prepared for this eventuality, be able to cross that boundary with his lover, or else there had better be an agreement that SRS will signal the end of the relationship. All things are possible. We are inventing this as we go along. The only rules are the ones we write ourselves. They are more like guidelines aren't they?

Sunshine

[xquietguy]

i agree with lisa admiring someone solely based on a pic is silly actually getting to know them and admiring them for who they are now thats something special

[phillyguy83]

LOL yeah riiight...

13 stanley cups

vs let's say canadiens

24


Not really god's team

Whenever the Leafs are mentioned I think back to this Kids in the Hall bit.

Although I should mention that I have been to a few Leafs games and have yet to have a homosexual experience. But there was a lot of "Leafs Blow" chants

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LNAXQ0fi8MM

[spyk]

Leaf Fans

Cobbler I like the way you think! Good one.

[tsKITANA]

Cobbler I like the way you think! Good one.

where have you been mister? errrr . xoxoxoxoox

[tslisaparadise]

Cobbler I like the way you think! Good one.

gods gonna punish you bitches for dishin her team

[Einstein]

I have one. He is having my baby and his name is Einstein.

I thought we were keeping this a secret?

[sadeh]

analyze this

I find a comfort and trust level with certain guys, some guys are more experienced than others, and some first timers are a little fun to charm.
I enjoy the company of the men that desire me, and only a tgirl and her lovers know this, there is a special bond and relationship that is spured,
exceptance with no judgements, i also feel lucky i live in a modern country in modern days.

On the phone your tone usually lets me know what im going to expect from you.

My sessions are worth your money, i start with a sensual massage and erotic conversation, i then start my movie featuring me, lol

i dont rush or watch the hour, just the minutes .. lol
i also like to really find out what you enjoy.

i've recently tried to eliminate analyzing a situation, because it totally takes the fun out the fun, feel me

when im not in the sex mode, i can usually accompany men to dinner, soiree, movies and private home appointments.

So im your sensual erotic playmate at all times !

I was just curious how the girls on this board feel about their "admirers"?

As I understand it a lot of girls resent the fact they have male equipment and other male characteristics while this is often the main focal point of a guys attraction to them. For example, if you are in a relationship with a guy and he knows of your transgendered status beforehand it is logical to conclude that this is a large part of his physical attraction to you. I also understand that there is much more to a relationship than physical attraction but it is seemingly problematic.

Many girls desire SRS as the ultimate goal while many others do not, but I have to assume that only some male partners would be supportive of SRS and continue a relationship with you if that is the path taken.

Furthermore, having a male genitalia is sometimes the centre of many girl's careers on this board, be it escorting, modeling, pornography or what have you. How do you feel about that fact that the men who desire you love your equipment so much when you might resent the fact you have it? Add to that the fact many of the guys here are in the closet (bad choice of words?) with regards to their attraction to transgendered women in real life.

There are plenty of girls who are entirely comfortable with who they are might even like the fact they are packing but I'm sure that isn't everybody. There are many dynamics.

All in all it is sort of a Catch 22 and I was just wondering what your opinions were.

[luvtgirldick]

personally i think there all idiots,why would anybody be a fan of somebody they know nothing about?

But aren't we forgetting that what draws us together, that attraction so to speak has nothing to do with a personality or inner strength or beauty, but rather it has everything to do with the erotic, the forbidden, the taboo. Does this attraction necessarily have to have knowledge behind it?

It is only later that admiration can develop between a tgirl and client, and then yes maybe a relationship can develop and there can be a certain amount of knowledge passed along in both directions.

The success of that relationship is always predicated on the fact that it is a business relationship. As long as that is kept in mind by both parties then I do think a certain level of intimacy can develop that can be enjoyed by all.

[lupo]

LOL yeah riiight...

13 stanley cups

vs let's say canadiens

24


Not really god's team

God said the meek shall inherit the earth
Leafs = meek therefore Leafs = gods team

[Raging Bob]

where have you been mister? errrr . xoxoxoxoox

I love the universe too Kitana.....but it only calls when it wants something and it's always at 3 am......and it never takes me anywhere!