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Points for boths sides...but...
I have to agree on this topic and disagree as well.
The problem is that some girls will go as low as $60. How can any escort compete with that or want to for that matter. How could any guy who has respect for himself be willing to see someone with such low standards? The main problem is, once a guy pays that price he will never go back to paying the norm. I will admit my rates have stayed about the same over the years. Between $100- $200 (more when I am travelling). I think that is a fair rate and the guys always get the same service. But I will not lower myself to anything less.
When you get cheap guys calling it waste your time and your minutes and makes you feel dirty. It fucks up the rest of your day. If you take those type of guys they always expect the world for those food stamps and always seem to be more work then there worth. Agreed you might see more clients but in the end your doing more work for less pay and the clients are getting poor service! You get what you pay for!
10 Clients at $100 = $1000 and 10 hours of non stop work
5 Clients at $200 = $1000 and only 5 hours of work.
Plus more times then not it is with someone you can enjoy. You do not have to keep answering your phone and double booking just to make your $1000 for that day. Think about that. Anyone charging that little, think how many guys must lay on her bed to make enough to make it worth it? When would she be able to change the sheets or wash herself? Think if you are number 10 for that day, do you really think she is into it or how much dna must be on her and on the sheets, it is just nasty! In the end, paying a bit more is not only better for the escort but also for the client!
As for hotels. I think a girl should stay in a hotel that is not over run with hookers. A higher class hotel will save problems with the hotel staff and bring less attention to yourself and your clients. Also the clients that most of us girls wish to see would rather a classy hotel rather then a cheap room or a hotel known for escorts. Myself I prefer suits, a living room for talking and a bedroom for some naughty fun. I also bring my own sheets/face clothes and with a higher priced hotel they normally do not mind giving you extras.
Just my thoughts
TashaPeace, Love & Sex is how I am spending my days
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I think the recession has something to do with Ontario because there is such a huge manufacturing base that got hit hard out there.
Out west we are not seeing the same job losses or bad times.
Maybe people don't realize how good things are staying in the West.
However I have noticed GG's have advertised services for very cheap for years in Toronto papers. It also appears that the number of tgirl escorts continues to grow, so it only makes sense that fierce competition would break out in Toronto in the shemale genre eventually.
However in the end I think everyone can see the difference Holt Renfrew and Dollarama, and why you pay more for one over the other.
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Not too make this a political debate but I've found the provincial government has not done anything substantial to help out as well. Federally Ontario always seems to get the most of everything.
With the t girl situation this always brought about debate regarding donations.
With more selection of women it brings about more competition. In dark times guys will generally find a reasonable asking donation and of course as another lady said if word spread around about that it makes it harder for other ladies to earn.
A true word to the wise to those who are suffering from a money crunch is save and hold out on things that are not necessary so that in the long run youll have the ability to have the quality time with the lady you so dearly want.
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Originally posted by Crag Rockheart View PostI think the recession has something to do with Ontario because there is such a huge manufacturing base that got hit hard out there.
Out west we are not seeing the same job losses or bad times.
Maybe people don't realize how good things are staying in the West.
However I have noticed GG's have advertised services for very cheap for years in Toronto papers. It also appears that the number of tgirl escorts continues to grow, so it only makes sense that fierce competition would break out in Toronto in the shemale genre eventually.
However in the end I think everyone can see the difference Holt Renfrew and Dollarama, and why you pay more for one over the other.
coz, in make-up it is not what you put on, it is how you will put it. but! you should never buy cosmetics from Dollarama, I guess every girls knows why.
But joking aside, I know what you're trying to say Crag. As have been commented here again and again, there are some high end for hire who for some reasons or another failed or missed to deliver, and that's when the guy who pays alot had the biggest regrets and just wished they just put out their hibernating dildos + their hands for that lonely times where their fantasies could be fulfilled without paying a dime.
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i agree
I agree with sunshine ontario is usually very bad for me as well and thats why i have not stopped my tour and have continued to tour out of toronto.but even out west in the coast was bad for me especially in vancouver where guys were not willing to pay my rate.i will not return to vancouver with the exception of kelowna.Guys wake up you need to appreciate when high end ladies travel to ontario they have alot of expenses just to get there and as they say you get what you pay for.Just a fly on the wall
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How often will this same discussion have to take place? You'll get what you pay for!
A few weeks ago this surfaced once again in a slightly different context. The concern was over what was meant by GFE service and whether it should be priced at a higher level. If you are going to get more and better treatment and service, then of course it is worth more to the customer and costs the provider more too. Unfortunately some folks only think of dollars and not benefits.
During that previous thread’s duration I referred to an ad that I see frequently on American TV placed by Meineke Muffler shops. They offer three levels of service, Basic, Preferred and Supreme. Those who look for the $60 specials would be well advised to just contact the Palm sisters as Jenllani suggests for they can provide exactly the same satisfaction, and for free, without even leaving home!
Probably, Meineke’s Basic will get you a change of oil (low quality) and a cheapso low quality filter, whereas Preferred will probably get you name brand products like Premium oil and a quality manufacturers certified oil filter while Supreme Service will probably get you the full lubrication with premium products, and incl. lube of door hinges, seat rails, emergency brake cables, all fluids topped-up, tire pressures checked, windows cleaned, a paper floor mat to protect the carpet etc., etc..
Now regarding locations:
Garages:
On seeing a shop with a dirty floor, miscellaneous stuff littering the place and the service provider in greasy coveralls he has not changed in three months, would you expect to get a good lube job with respectable products? Not very likely eh? On the other hand a clean tidy shop with clean tidy operators will tell you a very different story!
Girls:
Is it reassuring if the girl asks to see her clients in a seedy, rundown hotel? If she frequents that type of establishment what does that tell you about her? Do you consider unwanted outcomes, not the least of which might be bedbugs?
If a girl sees her clients only in a quality establishment does that not speak well to her character? It would tell me that she too is of somewhat better stock. It should also signal that her expenses are likely to be significantly more than the girl at the hourly rated flop house had to lay out for her dirty room.
I agree with Tasha’s comments regarding accommodations, preferring a suite over a basic room myself because I always have preferred to get to know the girl a little better, probably sitting on a couch over a drink before retiring to the “workshop”. A basic room is cheaper but?
Rates of compensation:
It is normally pretty easy to get an idea of what you might be expected to pay for a service, as some girls post rates others do not, but if you check this forum reviews and comments it is not too difficult to get some idea of what it might be.
For a well known girl I generally do not ask over the phone but after a girl’s arrival simply ask what is expected and I pay whatever may be asked. On return visits, since we already know each other, I find that the donation usually never comes up but as she prepares to leave I ask what is required and pay it. Only once, seven years ago in Winnipeg was I beat at this game when a girl began to up-sell everything on the agenda when it was far too late to react. A few years later this girl moved to Toronto with her multiple identities and soon discovered her con tactics did not work there. She returned to her roots and has not re-appeared in Toronto for years.
I did run into a problem on my last trip to To. though when I had previously taken some large bills out of the safe and left them on the desk before my lady, who I had seen more than once before arrived, fully intending to make up the balance expected from my wallet reserves. As my lady of the afternoon was preparing to leave she spotted the bills laying there and her hackles were raised instantaneously as well as her eyebrows - she thought that was all that I was offering her and that I was trying to rip her off! That got straightened out but was not nice to have happen.
My conclusions after several years experience in Toronto:
The value received = exactly what you pay for it !!
The vast majority of girls in Toronto are honest !!
There will always be exceptions to the above statements.
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Not a static system
Originally posted by TashaJones View PostI have to agree on this topic and disagree as well.
The problem is that some girls will go as low as $60. How can any escort compete with that or want to for that matter. How could any guy who has respect for himself be willing to see someone with such low standards? The main problem is, once a guy pays that price he will never go back to paying the norm. I will admit my rates have stayed about the same over the years. Between $100- $200 (more when I am travelling). I think that is a fair rate and the guys always get the same service. But I will not lower myself to anything less.
When you get cheap guys calling it waste your time and your minutes and makes you feel dirty. It fucks up the rest of your day. If you take those type of guys they always expect the world for those food stamps and always seem to be more work then there worth. Agreed you might see more clients but in the end your doing more work for less pay and the clients are getting poor service! You get what you pay for!
10 Clients at $100 = $1000 and 10 hours of non stop work
5 Clients at $200 = $1000 and only 5 hours of work.
Plus more times then not it is with someone you can enjoy. You do not have to keep answering your phone and double booking just to make your $1000 for that day. Think about that. Anyone charging that little, think how many guys must lay on her bed to make enough to make it worth it? When would she be able to change the sheets or wash herself? Think if you are number 10 for that day, do you really think she is into it or how much dna must be on her and on the sheets, it is just nasty! In the end, paying a bit more is not only better for the escort but also for the client!
As for hotels. I think a girl should stay in a hotel that is not over run with hookers. A higher class hotel will save problems with the hotel staff and bring less attention to yourself and your clients. Also the clients that most of us girls wish to see would rather a classy hotel rather then a cheap room or a hotel known for escorts. Myself I prefer suits, a living room for talking and a bedroom for some naughty fun. I also bring my own sheets/face clothes and with a higher priced hotel they normally do not mind giving you extras.
Just my thoughts
Tasha
Rates
When a girl decides to adopt a lower rate as competitive strategy, she is probably thinking of the system as a static. That is to say that she considers that her new rate will not affect the rates that other girls charge. But in fact this is not true.
When the girl first drops her rate, she will benefit from an increase in traffic as clients rush to take advantage. This is as DomR suggests, a higher level of traffic and more money coming in. But these clients come from somewhere. In switching over to this girl with the lower rate, they cease seeing the girl who asks for more. Eventually, the girl with the higher charge, experiencing less traffic and realizing that the other girl has dropped her rate, will decide that she must also drop her rate. Once again, the clients will rush in to take advantage. Now both girls will experience the same traffic as they did before dropping their rates but at the lower rate.
Neither of the two girls will have an easy time in raising their rates back up because they would lose traffic again to other girls who, by then, have also dropped their rates. The only solution for the first girl is to drop the rates even further. Eventually, nobody is surprised to hear of rates such as I mentionned:50, 60, 80, 100. The few who hold on and try to maintain a reasonable rate can have a very hard time.
This is a poor way to compete. But once the price war begins, this is where it can end up. Now how does the business come back form that?
Makeup and attire
Jenllani, I am going to come over and do your makeup. I was also going to suggest that I stay at your place when I visit but then I thought: "She is never going to let me get any sleep at all" (LOL).
Different levels of service
Toban mentions the possibility of offering different tiers of service. This is already in common practice with girls quoting different rates for 1 hr, 1/2 hr and now, 15 minutes. But how enthousiastic is the girl with a 15 minute client who is number 10 that day. And how many clients must a girl see, day after day, without suffering from burnout or worse. This isn't a job and it cannot be treated like one.
I feel that when I see 2 to 4 clients in a day, that is all I want to do. I am tired after that. Seeing 10 clients in a day, every day, just to make enough money, is not reasonable.
The other problem is that some girls adopt a strategy of offering risky activities at a premium. This is the worst idea I have ever heard. Risky behavior is still risky behavior. It is not "worth" more. It exposes the client and the girl to possible diseases. Again, imagine being number 153 who has engaged in risky behavior with this girl (and paid a premium for it). There is a place for fantasies and then there is real life. If a fantasy involves risky behavior, it should remain a fantasy. It is not worth the risk. For the girls, this paints them into a corner form which they may not escape except perhaps when they get sick. By then, they may have infected many clients. No, this is not worth a premium.
At least I know with relative certainty that, when an epidemic breaks out, I will not be infected.
Sunshinewww.ts-sunshine.ca You may find many copies of my style around but I am proud to be an original. If you want a beautiful shemale, I'm your girl.
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im thinkin this is getting alittle silly ive been at 200 since ive started ive yet to drop my rate nor will i ever i dont need to i get as many clients as i want if your great at what you do then theres no problem period.i think that greed plays the biggerst factor in this just how much is enough?you should be able to survive on 3 or 4 clients per week thats 6 or 8 hundred clear more then most people make i owned my own house and raised 2 kids on less then that.SEMI-RETIRED 519-209-3058
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The thing that pissess me off is that i used to see this regular client since late of 2007 name Dave, and he was paying my escort rates at $250 per hour,, and 2 years later when i asked for a fucking raise (due to his extream fantasies, drinking my piss, getting high with him, ect..) for an extra $50 bucks on top, and pay me $300 an hour, he started bitching at me and wanted me to drop my fucking rate back down to $250, so i did, just to make him happy, cause he wasnt calling me as much, cause of his childish behaviour. And mind u this guy makes a million dollars a year, so whats an extra $50 bucks paying a shemale escort,, nothing. Then i find out from LUCY, that he pays her $350 an hour and when i confronted him that through a text message, he just ignored me like most men would do when u confront them with the truth. I was like listen, since u pay her an extra $100 bucks then u pay me then why were u making such a big deal paying me $300 an hour when u have no problem paying her $350 an hour. I'll tell u why cause most men are big fucking cheap skates period, thats why. This is another reason why i hate men so much, cause there fucking assholes is what they are!
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Originally posted by Barbie_Swallows View PostThe thing that pissess me off is that i used to see this regular client since late of 2007 name Dave, and he was paying my escort rates at $250 per hour,, and 2 years later when i asked for a fucking raise, for an extra $50 bucks on top, and pay me $300 an hour, he started bitching at me and wanted me to drop my fucking rate back down to $250, so i did, just to make him happy, cause he wasnt calling me as much, cause of his childish behaviour. And mind u this guy makes a million dollars a year, so whats an extra $50 bucks paying a shemale escort,, nothing. Then i find out from LUCY, that he pays her $350 an hour and when i confronted him that through a text message, he just ignored me like most men would do when u confront them with the truth. I was like listen, since u pay her that amount, why were u making such a big deal paying me $300 an hour when u have no problem paying her $350 an hour. I'll tell u why cause most men are big fucking cheap skates period, thats why. This is another reason why i hate men so much, cause there fucking assholes is what they are!
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Originally posted by sunshine View PostA few thoughts:
Makeup and attire
Jenllani, I am going to come over and do your makeup. I was also going to suggest that I stay at your place when I visit but then I thought: "She is never going to let me get any sleep at all" (LOL).
Sunshine
I would welcome you warmly to my place, but the equivalent of my simple abode to a 5 star hotel, could probably be just 1/2 star and yup! I do snore (and occasionally talk while sleeping, that's what I'm told hehehe!)
" To the world you maybe just one person, but to one person you maybe the world ."
"Never lie to someone who trusts you, and never trust someone who lies to you."
"Never wrestle with pigs. You both get dirty and the pig likes it."
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Sorry to break the news to you Sunshine, it only takes ONE (infected) client to get you infected.
Also, where are all these girls offering services for $50 and $60? The cheapest Ive ever seen $120/hr.
The thing that kills me listening to some of you shemales is; just because you pay a high rate your gonna have a great earth shattering, ankles behind your ears experience. Simply not true.
Ive heard and read dozens of reviews from guys who payed $300+ hr for a disappointing experience.
I think a fair price for the typical GFE should be $180/$200 hr. Anything over that is just obsurd.
And Sunshine (not trying to pick on you) but you constantly refer to your profession as a business,so... I assume your reporting all your escorting income on your taxes, right.I am Greep, hear me roar
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Toban you have made allot of good points..but you know me..
1) I agree about the garage for the most part. But I have had the better and more work in fact at a cheaper rate on my truck though one of those garages. When I go to Canadian Tire the work is not always good and it cost an arm and a leg. You just have to pick the right grease monkey.
(On a side note I had the hottest sex once with the owner of the place I took my truck to. I am not Barbie so I will not do full details, but enough to give you all a wake up call down below! Omg it/he was so hot! He is a total grease monkey with those overalls but he wears no undies under there and when I was there last time his cock got so hard he could not hide it. So at my request he closed up his shop, went to his room upstairs and took a hot shower of course (I like dirty sex but my stud better be clean). He came out and my mouth dropped. He had one of the best bodies and biggest cocks I have seen in awhile. His face was rough but pretty at the same time if you know what I mean, he was only 20 but his body was a total man, he had tanned skin, big huge baby blue eyes, and that ass/cock was enough that I could eat for the whole month..yummy. Anyways we spent 2 hours having the most intense sex, he was one kinky stud but even those he serviced me as well he remained in control. Of course he knew I had a cock and enjoyed every inch of it, that kind of shocked me how eager he was to try everything. Anyways my knees are shaking right now just thinking about it. So for me I like that dirty garage thought made me have to have a moment to myself while writing this..hehe..lol now back on topic)
2) I do not agree with different rates for different services. I like to charge for 1/2 hour & hour. I would never do 15 mins. Whats the point? I would waste my time and my make-up! Yes, for the 1/2 hour more times then not I will not offer full service, unless I know the person or I need to get off..lol. I like to talk & take my time and enjoy myself, 1/2 hour is just to rushed. But offering an extra $ for this and extra $ for that. Then your whole time you trying to make sure you have enough money at the end and the while thing becomes about money and not hot sex. I know us girls are not doing this for the church bake sale. But money should be dealt with before so there is no thought while you in the heat of the moment. Or after if your with someone like Toban who you know. My personal pet pev is answering phones, Alyssa will tell you, that is something I hate anyone doing while I am having fun, client or other escort. I just think it takes away from the fun and it is a bit rude.
3) Jenllani. I have always loved the way you do you make up and how you dress. It is sexy but you leave more for us to wonder whats under there. We both know you have your naughty side but your not as forward as some of us. It makes you stand out and to me...you can sleep walk in my 1/2 star home any day!
4) Sunshine is also very right. When I first moved to London I was seeing 4-6 clients a day max. I was charging $200 without question. London was a small town that did not have many t-girls travelling here. As well the guys in London were so thankful to have a real shemale living here they had no issue in spending the money. But once I moved here most girls took notice and this became the new Ottawa. The problem is there is not enough guys to go around. I got that many clients because I was new to some and well known to others, that only lasted for a couple of months. Once the other girls started coming most did good but then the trash started coming to town. With in one month the prices dropped to $150 then down to $100 and then some were only charging $60-$80. They were not getting repeats so they had no choice to drop there rates....but $200 or $60 there service sucked! Allot of guys felt so ripped off they will not even she a shemale again. That in the hurts does not only hurt us girls but the clients as well.
It is not just the price drop. It is how the guys now look & treat us. They think there going to get poor service, that we are using drugs or using fake pictures. That we are going to offer one thing but then charge more once they get there. Cheaper rates means cheaper service and more times then not girls that have low standards and no self respect and with that everyone looses. The girls also get nasty and start attacking each other online and with clients. It is like buying a nice condo and then having some woman on welfare move in with her 10 kids right next door. Your paying $1000 a month and she is paying $200. It lowers the value all around.
One funny thing that you said Toban. That girls that are higher class are living in places without bed bugs. I an not going to say names. But a couple of the “top” girls in Toronto live in a building invested with bed bugs. I mean in this building I think at one time there was 7-10 escorts that I knew lived there and when doing a random search when I was looking to move to Toronto, that address was the number 1 on the list for bed bugs...nasty!
TashaPeace, Love & Sex is how I am spending my days
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