Ever Date a Transsexual?

[Bill2Blackson]

How many of you guys have ever dated a transsexual? I don't mean hooking up online or seeing an escort. But a true 100% passable TS woman?

Just wondering the details and if you had any tips on how to do it, where to find them, etc?

[Neo]

why would I ever date a transsexual? one day i'd want kids, a transsexual can't help me with that.

[dan_calgary]

How many of you guys have ever dated a transsexual? I don't mean hooking up online or seeing an escort. But a true 100% passable TS woman?

Just wondering the details and if you had any tips on how to do it, where to find them, etc?

dated , not yet, definitely on my list of next things in life to do.

where to find, that is the million dollar ?, when you find out let us know

and as for 100% passable, no such thing, you have to accept the person for what they are, not whether or not they can fool your friends or family, as i have said before,
no such thing as passable (lots of obvious giveaways), but who YOU feel comfortable being with.

just my $.02

[AlexisTV]

I am dating one right now. She is great. I think my sister suspects something but the rest of my family has never brought up the subject. Either they know or they don't care.

How did I meet her? Well, funny thing. I have a yahoo profile, using the same photo as my avatar and she thought I was a TS transitioning. We met up a few weeks later and we have been dating ever since. Been almost five years now.

Is she passable, I would say around 85% to 90%.

[tslisaparadise]

dated , not yet, definitely on my list of next things in life to do.

where to find, that is the million dollar ?, when you find out let us know

and as for 100% passable, no such thing, you have to accept the person for what they are, not whether or not they can fool your friends or family, as i have said before,
no such thing as passable (lots of obvious giveaways), but who YOU feel comfortable being with.

just my $.02

dan you rock great post

[Rockheart]

dated , not yet, definitely on my list of next things in life to do.

where to find, that is the million dollar ?, when you find out let us know

and as for 100% passable, no such thing, you have to accept the person for what they are, not whether or not they can fool your friends or family, as i have said before,
no such thing as passable (lots of obvious giveaways), but who YOU feel comfortable being with.

just my $.02

I've dated a couple of TS.

I disagree that there is no passable TS, sure there is signs but u can never be sure. Girls have big feet, big hands, broad shoulders and big ears. Some women even have adams apple type bumps.
My girlfriend is 100% passable, however she is a girl plain and simple.

I do agree though, to be able to date TS you can't be worried if people notice and you can't be self conscious about it or it will not work.
Many tgirls have mentioned to me that i do not appear at all concerned about going anywhere with them, they say this is rare.

In our country it is very hard to find passable TS that are not escorts because they are passable and they want to fit in, and they do.
So to meet them you have to go the same places you meet genetic girls at. In my opinion dating a working escort is not really a good idea, you can try it but I think you will find only grief.

Recently I visited with a tgirl escort i know. I asked her how business was going and she replied: "I saw 10 clients in a row today". I said that's pretty good, but why do you seem unhappy? She said she thought her boyfriend back home was cheating on her. I bit my tongue.

There is also a difference between dating a Transsexual and a Shemale.
If you are dating a true transsexual, then you are probably dating someone who wants to get rid of their cock as soon as they are able.
If you are looking for a chick with a dick then you are probably not looking for a transsexual per se.

If you truly want to find a transsexual to date, Thailand is a good place.
There is a huge population of TS there and the majority of them are serious about getting a pussy. Many are looking for a good boyfriend from abroad partly because we have more money but also because we are much more accepting of ladyboys than men in Thailand. Men in thailand mainly visit ladyboys for sex only and dating them does not happen as often. In Thailand Ladyboys are out in the open and not afraid to identify as such because they are fully accepted. You find ladyboys living and working just about everywhere over there, with little discrimination.

Sure there is Ladyboys there that are only out for money, but if you know where to go you can meet many great girls.

I would say if you go out with the attitude that you want to meet a transsexual, that probably won't work. You just need to go out and meet girls with an open mind, if they happen to be TS then bob's your uncle.

If the girly part is secondary to the desire for cock, then you may want to examine your sexuality a little closer.

[markerverse]

Reply to Bill2Blackson

To your first question.....no..... never.

To your second. Treat all individuals the way you...yourself...wish to be treated. Can't go far wrong with that formula. The girls will love you for it.

[Einstein]

I would but haven't. it's hard enough to find a nice GG with me
being a single father so we'll see. I'm certainly open to it and I
would 4 sure. As far as caring what people may think I'm weird
like that I don't care & as far as what my family may think? I
don't have any family eccept 1 set of grandparents and a couple
uncles and cousins. My family is my daughter and as far as my
friends? who cares about them

[Python]

I just can't date someone who is having sex with multiple other guys a day..

And I cant find a beautiful tgirl thats not an escort

[Einstein]

I just can't date someone who is having sex with multiple other guys a day..

And I cant find a beautiful tgirl thats not an escort

Definitely wouldn't date a working girl or let me rephrase I would
not date a girl who is an escort I might date a girl who was once
an escort but that is doubtful. I'm resigned to the fact i'll bever be
in a relationship with a TS and that is fine with me as I love pussy
but I just want to have fun while I can.

[Bill2Blackson]

In our country it is very hard to find passable TS that are not escorts because they are passable and they want to fit in, and they do.

Sounds like the exact same thing that I am dealing with. Most of the girls I've talked to seem more interested in setting up "appointments", which is just a huge turn off for me I don't think I would enjoy it. I don't mind if a girl has sugardaddy type arrangement but thought of waiting inline with 10 others that day (and god knows where they come from) is just repulsive.

So to meet them you have to go the same places you meet genetic girls at.

Sounds like a bit more of luck than anything else. I've noticed that most of the girls online that are passable tend to not be as interested in chatting in what not. Most have their profiles inactive for weeks or months at a time.

I think I'm a pretty good looking dude, in my late 20's, in shape, etc. I was really shocked at first when I wasn't getting any responses on dating sites but have grown more used to it. Still got learning to do tho.

[Bill2Blackson]

dated , not yet, definitely on my list of next things in life to do.

where to find, that is the million dollar ?, when you find out let us know

and as for 100% passable, no such thing, you have to accept the person for what they are, not whether or not they can fool your friends or family, as i have said before,
no such thing as passable (lots of obvious giveaways), but who YOU feel comfortable being with.

just my $.02

Thanks. I agree actually. I more referencing to the more exotic and feminine girls you see. Mostly what I see on craigslist and stuff are just guys wearing wigs and stuff.

Not to disparage anyone or their lifesytyle, just not what I am looking for. TS girls seem to be highly exclusive (or elusive? lol)

[oddsodd]

I've looked through tones of dating sites and found that most of the so called transsexual or shemales are CDs. It's really hard to find one that's not an escort. Has anyone met one(two) at Goodhandys that isn't an escort?

[brendan888]

yes but it can be a headache

[Rockheart]

Well I find it odd that all you guys, especially those that live in Toronto, cannot find Tgirls to date that aren't escorts.
Over the years I've met many girls online and elsewhere that were not escorting but either looking for sex or dating.

Probably the most passable and hottest was a tgirl I met on adultfriendfinder.com , she was from Calgary. However I think that site is one of the best for meeting tgirls and probably has the most real ads online. Of course some tgirls on there are escorts but there is lots that are not.

Another great site where I have met and corresponded with many tgirls is tsdating.com. I have even had quite a few contact me here, and gotten a number of phone numbers quite fast and easily.

You may think that I have some advantage because I am involved shooting for Shemale Yum. However the great many tgirls I meet doing that are working girls.

My secret?
Put your real picture with your face up on these sites and you will be amazed what happens. Having no picture or a picture of your cock, won't get u too much even if you have a huge one.