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[bobiee]

Hi all! Stumbled across this gem of a site and I can already tell ill rack up the post count!

I currently have a girlfriend of a few months who has no idea of my curiosity with tgirls. We try to tell the honest truth to each other, but this I hide. Generally we see withholding information the same as lying, yet I can't come out and tell her this.

Have any of you had similar experiences? I would really like to hear some ways to get this out to her. Or at least find a way to manage this.

Thanks!

[markerverse]

delicate but not impossible

May I assume your 'in love' with your girl and curious about your feeling for the beauty and attractiveness of a SheMale? If your uncertain which path you will eventually settle into, it would be prudent of you not to share your alternative interest with her at this time. After all, you may taste the wine and find it's not your satisfying brand. But once you venture into the world of the Tgirls and Tgirl lovers, and discover it satisfies you totally, tell her only if her delights no longer interest you. Don't burn the bridge you've crossed unless you're certain to not return.

Make an informed decision.

[Toecutter]

Hi all! Stumbled across this gem of a site and I can already tell ill rack up the post count!

I currently have a girlfriend of a few months who has no idea of my curiosity with tgirls. We try to tell the honest truth to each other, but this I hide. Generally we see withholding information the same as lying, yet I can't come out and tell her this.

Have any of you had similar experiences? I would really like to hear some ways to get this out to her. Or at least find a way to manage this.

Thanks!

Maybe she has some curiosities too? I don't see it as you withholding information ie., "lying". If you act on it while you're dating her, then dishonesty is what you have.
You could always try and drop subtle hints about TGs and see how she deals with it.
Good luck!

[bobiee]

Thanks for your well written replies. The main negative aspect of this is if i was to pursue my alternative interests while with her, that is being very dishonest. However this urge to explore that alternative interest is growing by the day.

[toban]

Here's a suggestion you might try - arrange an "accidental disclosure"!

Maybe she has some curiosities too? . . . . . . You could always try and drop subtle hints about TGs and see how she deals with it.
Good luck!

I agree with Toecutter - your girl may already have some curiousity about such things as girls with something extra!

If she enjoys any kind of risque movies/videos/porn you might arrange an evening where you both agree to stay home and watch some hot movies. Now you must be sure that you get to select the evenings fare and let her get the eats or something. You will have to have several movies on hand for her to choose from that evening. Make one of them a mild one featuring T-Girls and let her know that you were rushed and you picked up one in a hurry without checking it out too closely.

Let her check the covers to see which one she chooses to watch first. As she scans the covers you will soon be able to tell by her reaction if she is offended, or better yet, even curious enough to at least take a brief look at it. That should be enough for the first exposure - don't push it too hard or you may spook her. A few days later mention that you have been curious about what you saw that night and ask if she too might be interested in seeing more of that type. I suggest that will be your easiest way around a ticklish situation.

[brendan888]

Hi all! Stumbled across this gem of a site and I can already tell ill rack up the post count!

I currently have a girlfriend of a few months who has no idea of my curiosity with tgirls. We try to tell the honest truth to each other, but this I hide. Generally we see withholding information the same as lying, yet I can't come out and tell her this.

Have any of you had similar experiences? I would really like to hear some ways to get this out to her. Or at least find a way to manage this.

Thanks!

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