Why did u become a woman

[Meagan Nutwood]

Some body asked me a question in a pm not too long ago about my sexual preferences. Kinda questioned why I become a woman only to top men.
I know he didn't mean any disrespect but I was very annoyed with this in general because this is not the first time I've encountered this but people seem to think EVERYTHING we do is pretty much a choice. Who we are as people I don't believe to be a choice.. and that is why are come in many different shapes and sizes (physically & spiritually).

Now I don't know why I became a woman besides the fact that I was born this way. It had absolutely nothing to do with having sex. Wanting to be fucked like a woman to FEEL like a woman. What I do in the bedroom does not define who I am in walking. You know what I mean?

Some transsexuals desire to buy a pussy to feel complete and there is nothing wrong with that but I do believe that everything(everybody) works on a scale.
You also have your transsexuals that refuse to go under the knife. What I'm saying is that we all do not share the same ending goals.

Also he pointed out that I expressed somewhere that I don't like to suck dick or get fucked and compared me to biological females and said that's what they do.

Well my opinion on that is I am not a biological female. Biological females aren't born with cocks. So I believe their sexual desires might be slightly different.

I told him that my main reasons for not really offering my ass to everybody is because I find that to be a more personal part of my self. I don't feel like a whore fucking guys or even sucking guys but to let a guy fuck me is more personal TO ME & to have all of you in me IMO is a little on the degrading side. I am more open to getting fucked now than I was before but that is really not saying much as there needs to be some real attraction for that to partake.

I know i've went over some of this before but I mean fuck , i hate to be challenged over some general simple minded shit when this whole sexuality and sexual identity subject is no where close to that.


PS to the man I was referring to in this topic , I AM NOT ATTACKING YOU lol It just gave me fuel for something to talk about. & Also I am NOT knocking the bottom girls or the vers girls by saying I find getting fucked by a whole bunch of different men degrading. I am completely speaking of my self! & my expectations OF MY SELF.

[far2crazy]

Bravo!
Good response and tells your feelings on it.

Everybody has different views on their intimate life. If it is not you thing then so be it!

My 2cents
Far2

[bottomsissy73]

Some body asked me a question in a pm not too long ago about my sexual preferences. Kinda questioned why I become a woman only to top men.
I know he didn't mean any disrespect but I was very annoyed with this in general because this is not the first time I've encountered this but people seem to think EVERYTHING we do is pretty much a choice. Who we are as people I don't believe to be a choice.. and that is why are come in many different shapes and sizes (physically & spiritually).

Now I don't know why I became a woman besides the fact that I was born this way. It had absolutely nothing to do with having sex. Wanting to be fucked like a woman to FEEL like a woman. What I do in the bedroom does not define who I am in walking. You know what I mean?

Some transsexuals desire to buy a pussy to feel complete and there is nothing wrong with that but I do believe that everything(everybody) works on a scale.
You also have your transsexuals that refuse to go under the knife. What I'm saying is that we all do not share the same ending goals.

Also he pointed out that I expressed somewhere that I don't like to suck dick or get fucked and compared me to biological females and said that's what they do.

Well my opinion on that is I am not a biological female. Biological females aren't born with cocks. So I believe their sexual desires might be slightly different.

I told him that my main reasons for not really offering my ass to everybody is because I find that to be a more personal part of my self. I don't feel like a whore fucking guys or even sucking guys but to let a guy fuck me is more personal TO ME & to have all of you in me IMO is a little on the degrading side. I am more open to getting fucked now than I was before but that is really not saying much as there needs to be some real attraction for that to partake.

I know i've went over some of this before but I mean fuck , i hate to be challenged over some general simple minded shit when this whole sexuality and sexual identity subject is no where close to that.


PS to the man I was referring to in this topic , I AM NOT ATTACKING YOU lol It just gave me fuel for something to talk about. & Also I am NOT knocking the bottom girls or the vers girls by saying I find getting fucked by a whole bunch of different men degrading. I am completely speaking of my self! & my expectations OF MY SELF.

come again!!

[greep]

Some guys have some fucking nerve. He must feel pretty damn dumb after reading your response.

[Meagan Nutwood]

Some guys have some fucking nerve. He must feel pretty damn dumb after reading your response.

LOL! He shouldn't as I've sort of suggested that this is a common misconception ! If anything he should feel enlightened !

[sensual_lover20]

Simply put, society inherently categorizes people from birth due to the discourses surrounding gender and sexuality. Without rigid definitions which the world works so immensely hard to create in order to enable better indentification of persons, people would otherwise be free from its chain and make less pressured decisions. These defined expectations cause a myriad of complex issues. Be as you are, we are all truly pansexual in my belief.

[Raging Bob]

Simply put, society inherently categorizes people from birth due to the discourses surrounding gender and sexuality. Without rigid definitions which the world works so immensely hard to create in order to enable better indentification of persons, people would otherwise be free from its chain and make less pressured decisions. These defined expectations cause a myriad of complex issues. Be as you are, we are all truly pansexual in my belief.

I swear that's been said in 20 different forums 100 times in a million ways.....

...AND PEOPLE KEEP ASKING!!!.........

You guys are absolutely right and hopefully this time someone will read the posts and not just look at the pictures!!!

[tslisaparadise]

|I told him that my main reasons for not really offering my ass to everybody is because I find that to be a more personal part of my self. I don't feel like a whore fucking guys or even sucking guys but to let a guy fuck me is more personal TO ME & to have all of you in me IMO is a little on the degrading side. I am more open to getting fucked now than I was before but that is really not saying much as there needs to be some real attraction for that to partake.

you dont feel like a whore stickin your dick in a guys ass?your kidding right?so what your saying is that your ass is more personal then your dick lol

[Meagan Nutwood]

Yea thats exactly what I'm saying lol

[Meagan Nutwood]

And actually , I always had the impression that if i was a female I wouldn't let random (& when I say random I mean like a guy from the club) guys screw me. & I also think that it doesn't look as bad as fucking random people as opposed to getting fuck by random people (even though i dont care about what it looks like in a bigger picture). And that is probably why girls are always so quick to be labeled whores and sluts. But on the guys perspective its a little different... So as an advantage of having a cock .. and having an ass... I can save the most submissive part of me to one who deserves it.. which is what I pretty much do. & the funny thing about it is that when I let somebody fuck me ... its like.. much more emotional. Its just a different experience for me , totally ,lol .

[alwayshornyguy]

Some body asked me a question in a pm not too long ago about my sexual preferences. Kinda questioned why I become a woman only to top men.
I know he didn't mean any disrespect but I was very annoyed with this in general because this is not the first time I've encountered this but people seem to think EVERYTHING we do is pretty much a choice. Who we are as people I don't believe to be a choice.. and that is why are come in many different shapes and sizes (physically & spiritually).

Now I don't know why I became a woman besides the fact that I was born this way. It had absolutely nothing to do with having sex. Wanting to be fucked like a woman to FEEL like a woman. What I do in the bedroom does not define who I am in walking. You know what I mean?

Some transsexuals desire to buy a pussy to feel complete and there is nothing wrong with that but I do believe that everything(everybody) works on a scale.
You also have your transsexuals that refuse to go under the knife. What I'm saying is that we all do not share the same ending goals.

Also he pointed out that I expressed somewhere that I don't like to suck dick or get fucked and compared me to biological females and said that's what they do.

Well my opinion on that is I am not a biological female. Biological females aren't born with cocks. So I believe their sexual desires might be slightly different.

I told him that my main reasons for not really offering my ass to everybody is because I find that to be a more personal part of my self. I don't feel like a whore fucking guys or even sucking guys but to let a guy fuck me is more personal TO ME & to have all of you in me IMO is a little on the degrading side. I am more open to getting fucked now than I was before but that is really not saying much as there needs to be some real attraction for that to partake.

I know i've went over some of this before but I mean fuck , i hate to be challenged over some general simple minded shit when this whole sexuality and sexual identity subject is no where close to that.


PS to the man I was referring to in this topic , I AM NOT ATTACKING YOU lol It just gave me fuel for something to talk about. & Also I am NOT knocking the bottom girls or the vers girls by saying I find getting fucked by a whole bunch of different men degrading. I am completely speaking of my self! & my expectations OF MY SELF.

I definately understand your point, but I also understand his confusion. I to found this a foreign concept to understand until I opened my mind a little further and realized the infinite mental state/physical state combinations that were possible in the universe.

At a basic level one thinks of someone who is transgendered M to F as being a man that mentaly identifies as being female. Therefore the "assumption" is female=bottom. I have a TS acquaintance who strongly believes this.

On a much deeper level as you pointed out,(that may have been in a diff. thread) there is not just mental identity, but also sexual identity and physical identity. Tgirls when thought of as the third sex, like in Bhudism, are capable, just Luke men and GGs of being attracted to any of the sexes. Male, Female or TS. Thus the reason some top, some bottom and some are vers. Personally I consider myself a bisexual male who is not attracted to men. I like girls and girls with the bonus plan!

And as far as giving up your ass to strangers, that is a personal decision that only you can make. Some GG escorts and porn stars won't give it up for the same reasons. Some girls also wonk kiss for the same reasons. They feel they want to save that intimacy for their personal lives. It's expected in GFE for a reason!

I hope reading this will help other people understand the diversity in the transgender world a litte better.

Have a great night,

AHG