What is Straight?

[alwayshornyguy]

OK folks,

let's discuss sexuality. Straight, Gay, Bi-sexual, what does it mean to you?

For the ladies, what does it mean if a Tgirl says she's straight? Does that mean she prefers Tgirls, guys or girls? What are your preferences? I'm sure there will be many different opinions.

For the guys, we're obviously here because we like Tgirls, so how do you define your sexuality? Do you consider yourself straight, bi, or gay and why? Personally I think any straight guy who was confident and comfortable with his sexuality would be attracted to a Tgirl, at least a little bit, if he was honest with himself. Tgirls to me define femininity.

Personally I used to consider myself a straight guy who liked girls and girls with a bonus option. My views of myself have changed a little over the years. I like the Bhuddist view of Tgirls as a third sex. I used to be pretty rigid/unilateral in my understanding of Tgirls. My basic understanding was that a transgendered girl was a girl "trapped" in a mans body and that they all wanted to just be girls. I never understood why someone identified as a girl would want to top and not be a bottom. I have since learned that the reality is as varied as the snow flakes that fall in winter. There are many girls who are happy living as a woman, who are equally happy to keep their penis and enjoy using it. That being the case, the Bhuddist belief of three sexes makes a lot of sense. So I now consider myself a bi-sexual who has no interest in men. I like girls and Tgirls.

Discuss,

AHG

[greep]

There should be an extra category of sexuality called 'Tgirl Straight'

'Tgirl straight' - means you are straight (love GG's) but also are attracted to transgendered girls and shemales.

Guys ask yourself this question:

If u had a choice to spend a secret night of wild sex with Zach Efron (one of hollywoods hottest hunks) or Lisa Paradise, who would you pick?

As good looking as Zach Efron is, I would pick Lisa, Why? because I'm not gay! (even though I would suck Lisa all night!!!) Human sexuality is unexplainable, yet people keep on trying.

That above question is a good test. If you picked Zach your gay!

If you picked the beautiful Lisa you're not gay but are Tgirl straight.


Ps: So Lisa , Do I get $50 off my next session,lol....

[Ray]

I have coined a new term to describe myself because of my love for TGirls. I consider myself straight with a twist. I have no interest in being with a guy so I do not think of myself as bi. I do like greeps idea of
"TGirl Straight"

As far as TGirls go, some say they are straight, some gay and some bi. To me straight means they are attracted to men, gay to women and bi to both. I am confused by those escorts who say they are gay yet still top and have sex with men.

[smile004]

Labels can be a bad idea...I just like sex regardless of who its with.....str8,gay,bi whatever makes you comfy

[dom r]

OK folks,

let's discuss sexuality. Straight, Gay, Bi-sexual, what does it mean to you?

For the ladies, what does it mean if a Tgirl says she's straight? Does that mean she prefers Tgirls, guys or girls? What are your preferences? I'm sure there will be many different opinions.

For the guys, we're obviously here because we like Tgirls, so how do you define your sexuality? Do you consider yourself straight, bi, or gay and why? Personally I think any straight guy who was confident and comfortable with his sexuality would be attracted to a Tgirl, at least a little bit, if he was honest with himself. Tgirls to me define femininity.

Personally I used to consider myself a straight guy who liked girls and girls with a bonus option. My views of myself have changed a little over the years. I like the Bhuddist view of Tgirls as a third sex. I used to be pretty rigid/unilateral in my understanding of Tgirls. My basic understanding was that a transgendered girl was a girl "trapped" in a mans body and that they all wanted to just be girls. I never understood why someone identified as a girl would want to top and not be a bottom. I have since learned that the reality is as varied as the snow flakes that fall in winter. There are many girls who are happy living as a woman, who are equally happy to keep their penis and enjoy using it. That being the case, the Bhuddist belief of three sexes makes a lot of sense. So I now consider myself a bi-sexual who has no interest in men. I like girls and Tgirls.

Discuss,

AHG

Actually theres still no word to describe a person's sexuality when having sex with a t-girl. Such a word has not been invented yet. Bi-sexual describes having sex with the same sex and the opposite, and gay means having sex only with the same. A transsexual is not a male or a female, they are a trans-gender thus you are not bi-sexual or gay for having sex with them. Maby you are trans-heterosexual for doing t-girls and heterosexual for doing females. Did I just invent the word trans-heterosexual to describe one's sexuality who does a t-girl? I think so. Lets call it trans-hetero and write it in some law book of sexual preferences and leave my name as a credit, thanks.(i'm serious).

[TGirl Beauty]

A great thread...

This is really interesting, and I have to throw my two cents in, because I feel like I am definitely in the minority here...though still here for all the same reasons you are...I am interested to hear if any of you guys have a similar experience to mine, because most of you seem to have come out of the "straight" side of things...

I have technically lived a bisexual life and have actually been "gay" most of the time (though I hate this classification for me). But the thing is, I have only been attracted to femboys?the more feminine the better. There was just always something about a girlyboy with a cock acting like a girl and wearing girls things...and still not being a female. I was always attracted to females on some level?always thinking they were amazingly sexy and beautiful?but not feeling turned on by their genitalia...at all...At the same time, I am 100% top and masculine and have zero attraction to masculine males...

As I've gotten older I have been turned on more and more by femininity to the point where it's basically all I think about...I still like very beautiful, very feminine femboys, but they, too, don't have all the parts and attitudes I seek. Ultimately, TGirls have it all?the pure femininity, beauty, elegance (and breasts and cock, of course) that I need and want...

So what I'm saying is, if you are attracted to femininity?whether it is associated with a GG, TGirl or femboy?then it is a very different thing than being attracted by masculinity...

In the end, I love cock, but I want it to be attached to a beautiful girl with beautiful breasts and a feminine being...and second to that would be a femboy, who also sees himself as a feminine being...third is a GG, because in spite of the femininity they are missing something...haha, and we know what that is...but really, it's probably something else, too...

Thoughts?

[tslisaparadise]

This is really interesting, and I have to throw my two cents in, because I feel like I am definitely in the minority here...though still here for all the same reasons you are...I am interested to hear if any of you guys have a similar experience to mine, because most of you seem to have come out of the "straight" side of things...

I have technically lived a bisexual life and have actually been "gay" most of the time (though I hate this classification for me). But the thing is, I have only been attracted to femboys?the more feminine the better. There was just always something about a girlyboy with a cock acting like a girl and wearing girls things...and still not being a female. I was always attracted to females on some level?always thinking they were amazingly sexy and beautiful?but not feeling turned on by their genitalia...at all...At the same time, I am 100% top and masculine and have zero attraction to masculine males...

As I've gotten older I have been turned on more and more by femininity to the point where it's basically all I think about...I still like very beautiful, very feminine femboys, but they, too, don't have all the parts and attitudes I seek. Ultimately, TGirls have it all?the pure femininity, beauty, elegance (and breasts and cock, of course) that I need and want...

So what I'm saying is, if you are attracted to femininity?whether it is associated with a GG, TGirl or femboy?then it is a very different thing than being attracted by masculinity...

In the end, I love cock, but I want it to be attached to a beautiful girl with beautiful breasts and a feminine being...and second to that would be a femboy, who also sees himself as a feminine being...third is a GG, because in spite of the femininity they are missing something...haha, and we know what that is...but really, it's probably something else, too...

Thoughts?

im thinkin your probably just gay period,you should be honest withyourself and go visit a bath house and full fill your true desires why pretend you like tgirls?theres a huge difference between gay femboys and tgirls ya know.

[TGirl Beauty]

I agree

Thanks for the response, but I think you're misunderstanding me...I have been with GGs...I have been with femboys...and I have been with TGirls...

TGirls are the only one of that group that matches what I want...and I don't just mean the parts...it's about the femininity and specialness and balance...

I would never visit a bathhouseit's not me?but I don't need anyway. I've already experienced all kinds of sex...

The fact is, I spend ALL day looking, thinking about and wanting to meet TGirls...and no time on anything else...

So, I know what attracts me. You shouldn't be so judgmental. I'm a masculine guy who knows how to treat a woman?with respect...

[alwayshornyguy]

As Smile004 said I don't know if you can really define sexuality. You are attracted to whatever you are attracted to and sometimes that just defies definition. I liked the "Trans-hetero" definition. I think that maycome pretty close to a lot of us.

In the end I don't think that people who are secure with their sexuality really need a definition. It is what it is. I think definitions are for people who need a frame of reference to define themselves or others. But I bet you any "straight" redneck who met anyone of the beautiful women on this forum would be attracted to them and would probably never guess they are Tgirls! It's amazing how a nice set of boobs, a nice pair of legs and a pretty face can keep a guy focused! LOL!

AHG

[Admin007]

Thanks for the response, but I think you're misunderstanding me...I have been with GGs...I have been with femboys...and I have been with TGirls...

TGirls are the only one of that group that matches what I want...and I don't just mean the parts...it's about the femininity and specialness and balance...

I would never visit a bathhouseit's not me—but I don't need anyway. I've already experienced all kinds of sex...

The fact is, I spend ALL day looking, thinking about and wanting to meet TGirls...and no time on anything else...

So, I know what attracts me. You shouldn't be so judgmental. I'm a masculine guy who knows how to treat a woman—with respect...

i wasnt judging you i was pointing you in the right direction but i may have read it wrong and any guy that would pick a femboy over is gay period.

[TGirl Beauty]

Umm, no...

I respect everyone's opinion, and you're entitled to yours...but I'm not going to argue with you about what's in my heart (and mind)...I'm telling you what I feel, not asking you to classify me...I wouldn't be here if I wasn't looking for something that I had already found...

There is no reason to draw lines where none exist...

[MissLucille]

People confuse gender Identity with sexual identity and that is confusing for Tgirls as much as cis-gendered folks. I call a sexual attraction to Tgirls, "andro-sexual" as that androgyny of between the genders is what alot of men and women are attracted to in Tgirls or T-men. Imo anyway

[tslisaparadise]

I respect everyone's opinion, and you're entitled to yours...but I'm not going to argue with you about what's in my heart (and mind)...I'm telling you what I feel, not asking you to classify me...I wouldn't be here if I wasn't looking for something that I had already found...

There is no reason to draw lines where none exist...

I have technically lived a bisexual life and have actually been "gay" most of the time ....there your words buddy once a fag always a fag get used to it.

[TGirl Beauty]

Wow...

You are a very bitter woman...I'm sorry for you. You think I'm embarrassed about my sexuality? Wow. Sorry to disappoint you. I am not at all. I am not embarrassed about any of my attractions. They are what they are. I'm simply telling you. And how sad that you, of all people, would use a gay epithet. It shows you've learned nothing from your struggle...

As I said, you're entitled to your opinion. But I'm here to tell you as a fact what my attractions are. In addition, I have talked to MANY "femboys", and the fact is, they all love being feminine: some are boys who dress like girls, some want hormones and breasts and others want to go all the way?they are all different shades of the same color. So saying that they are not related is ludicrous.

And once again?and this is the last time I'm going to mention this (because I really couldn't care less what fantasyland you live)?I have been attracted to femininity. ALWAYS. Never masculinity. Not that it matters...Everyone is equal.

Whether you approve of it or not, I will continue to post in here and enjoy the beauty of the kinds of girls I find alluring, scintillating and amazing?and you'll notice that I am always respectful and positive in what I say. I will not, however, have anything to do with you. You are mean-spirited, and I stay away from people like you. I've had a lot of ups and downs and struggles in my life?personally, professionally and financially?but I've always maintained optimism and respect for all people. And I'll continue to do so.

Thanks

[sunshine]

Revisiting the topic again?

This has to be the single most repeated topic in the forum. But here goes:

A word is not the thing it represent. In the case of sexual identity, you are attracted to what attracts you and this is a very personal thing that applies only to you. When you say straight or gay or bi or any other made up word, this refers to a classification, to a group of people. But there is no such group. The only real use for the word is for other people to classify you so that they can claim to understand you. In fact, attaching a label to you prevents them from understanding you.

So resist labels, resist being classified. Just enjoy what you enjoy and be brave enough to accept that you are unique.

Enjoying tgirls does not make you gay, straight, or bi. Even if you admitted the validity of such classifications, you would have to claim to belong to the category of "none of the above". So there - now you are a N.O.T.A. - do you feel better? Probably not. You might want to attend more group functions such as the NOTA Sunday brunch or the NOTA social dance... you get the idea.

Sunshine