what should we say?

[seemoreme]

MONEY, MONEY TALKS,will get you anything you want.

[Modulus]

I'm still wondering how to find out if a girl is willing to do the things you want if you are looking for specifics. I.E., rimming, does she get hard, does she top, is she shaven, etc... without talking about sex over the phone. I have hooked up with a couple girls and one got hard as a rock but it was my new ass that was the problem and the others couldnt keep it up. I only asked one girl for a rimming and she said she doesn't do that. I still had a fun time but I want to feel new things. Do I just ask as I'm putting the money on the counter, which I always do first thing without saying anything about it. You know, make sure we are engaged and then pull it out and throw it down like it's my keys. As I pull the cash out do I say, "Derrrr...do you rim...?" If she says "Nope" I just put the money back in my pocket and head for the door? I mean I can do that but I don't want to feel like I just wasted her time.

Assuming the ad doesn't have it, I think that you can find out some information without crossing the line of being sexually explicit. For example : "do you prefer to top or bottom" will get you as much information as "I'd really like you to fuck me in the ass, will you do that?". "Are you open to fetishes" (if yes, ask if there are extra charges), "Are you fully functional", "Are you shaved everywhere" aren't explicit and you'll probably get an answer assuming the conversation is going smoothly. A conversation about rimming, you've probably crossed (way over) the line.

[pornfan83]

Cheers lass (you mention the lasses) I'm calling in reference to your add and would love schedule an appointment with you.
Listen to what the lass has to say and hopefully she give a time and place where meat.
Thank you lass I'll be over at time you have mentioned.
Cheers lass it's been wonderful talking to you and I truly look forward to meeting you.Good day lass.

[caligulakant]

I suppose that, if you have never called an escort before, it can be a little nerve-wracking. But it's not that complicated. The girls want you to call and they want you to be a client. If they don't want you to call, they won't advertise. So if you want to see a girl, go ahead and call.

Now that you have decided to call, here are a few useful tips:

1. Follow the girl's contact instructions. These are usually posted in the ad or on the website you used to find her in the first place - so read the instructions and follow them.
2. Don't be sexually explicit on the phone or on an e-mail. The right time to discuss specific requests is at the beginning of the session. There will be a time when you will pay the girl and she will invite you to follow her lead. It is at this moment when you should discuss what interrests you. Now this is a bit awkward because, as a client, you don't want to spend your money if you aren't going to enjoy the session. The truth is that some girls will be a good match and some won't. But you will only discover that by trial and error. If you get too explicit during the initial communication, it is likely to sour the girl's attitude or to worse.
3. Be polite and brief. Most girls answer calls from early in the morning until very late at night. Some girls take calls 24 hours a day. You can be sure the girl is not interrested in hearing your life story. You should already be fairly sure that you want to see this girl in particular and your call should be to introduce yourself and make an appointment.
4. Let the girl know where you found her - was it google, her website, an ad in the paper, a website. She really appreciates this information - it is useful. If you like something specific about her - her website, her appearance, the services she offers. Let her know what "sold" you. Again this is useful information - she will appreciate it but be brief. Then you should focus on the purpose of your call - when can we meet?, where can we meet?, how much is your rate? - The rest you will take care of face-to-face in the company of your favorite girl.

I'm trying to spell this out for new clients. Once you go through the process a few times, it becomes a fairly straightforward process.

There are people who call but have no intention of making an appointment but that is another topic, covered elsewhere.

Hope this helps,

Sunshine

LOL, I just called you for the first time..and hadn't read this beforehand.
Once I get myself past getting tongue tied, Ill follow your suggestions.
Having never experienced anything but hetero sex, it can be a bit unnerving, regardless how incredibly one wishes to experience it.