"Don't FUCK With "B@rbie Swallows" Or You Might Fucking Regret It!

[Barbie_Swallows]

"Don't FUCK With "B@rbie Swallows" Or You Might Fucking Regret It!

Last night i was riding my bike and i past by eglinton & don mills road in north york area, and this guy was waiting at the bus stop outside, with 20 other people. I recongnized him cause i've seen him a few times in the past when i used to take the bus and he would always act wierd around me whenever i would wait for the bus stop at yonge/finch area, he would wait for the bus across the street just to avoid me and he would constantly give me dirty looks & disgust, and i senced he had alot of insecurties & hate for me and he must have already knew about my transgender status ok, which i could careless, cause i'm open to everyone about who i am, and i'm not ashamed being a shemale, i am who i am, so either hate me or love me, i honestly don't give a fuck.

I would noticed he would talk to the bus driver about me, while im sitting at the back of the bus and talk about me non stop, about me being a dude. Like whatever, it's 2010 now, get over it, lol. Anyways, he never said nothing bad to me to my face in the past, till last night when i rode my bike past by him. Apparently he obviously recongnized me, and so he wanted to be a fucking smart ass, so he decided to embarressed me and mock me out in public by exposing my true idenity, by saying out loud,, "Oh that's a MAN!" then everybody started laughing at the bus stop when he announced that.

This guy is white in his early to mid 20's, dresses's like a wigger wannabe, cute good looking at 6'1, but obviously a total transphobic guy that has nothing better else to do with his own life, that he has to insult and put others down. Now normally i would ignore this type of rude behaviour, & i don't solve problems with violence, but i was so fucking pissed off, i was like naaa,, i'm not gonna allow him to get away with this, i'm gonna teach him a lesson, cause if i see him again he's gonna mock me again and again and again, and i gotta stop this now before it gets out of hand, so guess what i did?

I stopped my bike half way through, pulled out a pair of siccors out of my purse, and did a U-turn, and went back riding my bike slowly, while holding my pair of siccors with my right hand high up so everybody could see it, kinda like Michael Myers from the halloween movies, lol. Anyways, no i wasn't planing on stabbing him, i'm not that fucked up or crazy, i just wanted to teach him a lesson and show him not to fuck with me and that i was gonna have the last laugh. So he see's me coming towards him, so guess what he dose,, he runs inside the bus stop shelter and hides behinds a fat woman.

I'm still holding my pair of 7 inch siccors with me high up in the air so everybody would be able to see, including the closet self hating homosexual loser that enjoys mocking me,, and so i confront him at the bus stop shelter, and i am holding my pair of siccors, and he has fear in his eyes like he's scared shit less, probally never expected a tranny on her bike to be fighting back with a weapon, cause they always view us as sissy's.

But anyways so i confront him and i yell at him with an angry voice saying it very loud, i'm like "Come say this to my fucking face one more time and i swear to god i'm gonna fucking stab u right now, so don't fuck with me or you're gonna regret it! And he was totattly speechless & i could tell he was nervous, scared and wished he never said that to me, and then i left with in 10 seconds after i threatened him with a pair of siccors. At first he pretended he didn't heard me, so i had to repeat myself,, but he didn't say nothing cause he kept looking at my pair of siccors.

He looked scared as hell, no joke. Now he'll think twice next time he makes rude comments when he's see's another transgender person in public, lol. I am not proud of my actions, and i realized i could have went to jail for it, but i didn't care, i wanted to shut him the fuck up once and for all, and i had no intentions of stabbing him,, i just wanted to scare him and i achieved it. He will think twice next time what he says whenever he see's me or another shemale again. I had the last fucking laugh at the end, cause nobody laughed at me to my face at the bus stop including that motherfucker that mocked me!

B@rbie Swallows
www.BarbieSwallows.com

[tslisaparadise]

that guys a freak i remember about a month ago a prick mocked me when i was in my car waiting for the light to change so i put the car in park walked around my car i grabbed him by the throat and read him the riot act then he put it in park and i pulled him out of his drivers door window and with my hand on his throat i punched him like 4 or 5 times warning him if he ever opens his mouth around me i wont be this nice again.sometimes im alittle hot headed and if im in a bad mood im maybe the worst person you can piss off.

[Locomotion]

Good for you girls ... these people are nothing but bullies and when you call them on it, what do they do? Curl up in a ball and whine like little girls. We should have a national thump a bully day! lol

[tommygun]

Do either of you realize that your actions make it perfectly legal for those individuals to use weapons on you, in self defence? You give them the legal right to harm you, potentially even kill you, and they will not get convicted. All because you didn't ignore a complete stranger's stupid comments?

[tslisaparadise]

Do either of you realize that your actions make it perfectly legal for those individuals to use weapons on you, in self defence? You give them the legal right to harm you, potentially even kill you, and they will not get convicted. All because you didn't ignore a complete stranger's stupid comments?

`what are you stupid?this is canada dumbass not america learn the law,here in canada we have the right to use our hate crime bill unlike those fuck ups in america who have zero rights for the glbt

[Paris-Montreal]

tommygun your not right its not working like that anymore my boyfriend friend get attack at mcdonal by a guy with a metale thing and it his head .... my friend boyfriend jump on the guy puch him on the floor and then jump on his head the guy was at the hospital and was in sleeping for 1 mounth before he wake up


and he his now in jail for 3 years all he did was responding when the guy hit him but the law have chnage....

maybe not in ontario but quebec yes

[toban]

Do either of you realize that your actions make it perfectly legal for those individuals to use weapons on you, in self defence? You give them the legal right to harm you, potentially even kill you, and they will not get convicted. All because you didn't ignore a complete stranger's stupid comments?

The only persons legally permitted to carry and use weapons in Canada are our police officers. Unfortunately that means the girls are more correct than you are tommy!

Even carrying a weapon is absolutely against the law in Canada but I think fists might be acceptable in some cases. Yes, some might consider the girls justified in retaliating against such abuse but the law in Canada is very strict about the use of weapons (including even fists) here.

[wellhungone]

Dumb move Barbie, you parading a pair of scissors shows that you are just as stupid as the guy.

If the kids was a gang-banger wigger as you call him, what makes you think that he wouldn't pull out a gun or a bigger knife and let the air out of you bicycle tires or boobs

So there were 20 people witnessing that some crazy tranny on a bike waving scissors, hhhhmmmm yup, don't mess with me -LOL..................

[tommygun]

`what are you stupid?this is canada dumbass not america learn the law,here in canada we have the right to use our hate crime bill unlike those fuck ups in america who have zero rights for the glbt

Do you honestly think that you have the legal right to put your car into park, get out, walk over to somebody else, and put your hands on their neck... because somebody said something to you? This is assault. It is not self defence and you do not have any laws stating you can do this. The next time you speak with a lawyer or police officer, feel free to verify this.

Somebody saying something mean to you is not a hate crime. It is hate speech. In Canada hate speech is not a licence for vigilante justice. You must go through the courts to seek redress.

I know the law quite well, thank you. I have been a use of force instructor in Canada for nearly 10 years. The law states you must use the minimum level of force necessary to protect yourself from a threat. Legal precedent that has been established has determined that using an equivalent weapon can easily be argued as using minimal force. Scissors = knife. Where it gets tricky is when you escalate the level of force, such as bring a weapon into play. However if there is an extraordinary threat to your life (ie putting your hands on one's neck which contains multiple vital organs) that gives a lot of licence for a person to defend themselves.

You need to look not only at the laws on paper, but how they have been argued in court. Legal precedent is as relevent as the laws themselves. Please do your homework next time you feel inclined to call somebody stupid.

tommygun your not right its not working like that anymore my boyfriend friend get attack at mcdonal by a guy with a metale thing and it his head .... my friend boyfriend jump on the guy puch him on the floor and then jump on his head the guy was at the hospital and was in sleeping for 1 mounth before he wake up


and he his now in jail for 3 years all he did was responding when the guy hit him but the law have chnage....

maybe not in ontario but quebec yes

Read what I read about using minimal amount of force to neutralize a threat. If your boyfriend had been attacked and punched or knee'd this guy, in self defence, he'd have been ok. But he continued to use force after he had stopped the threat. Jumping on somebody's head when they are down is assault, not self defence. That is why he is in jail.

The only persons legally permitted to carry and use weapons in Canada are our police officers. Unfortunately that means the girls are more correct than you are tommy!

Even carrying a weapon is absolutely against the law in Canada but I think fists might be acceptable in some cases. Yes, some might consider the girls justified in retaliating against such abuse but the law in Canada is very strict about the use of weapons (including even fists) here.

It's not that black and white. In Canada, it's all about your intent to use, not about the devices themselves. You are right, police officers are the only people authorized to carry weapons. The devices they carry are intended to be used as weapons and it is their job function to use them as such. If you do not intend to use a device as a weapon, you'd be surprised what you are legally allowed to carry.

“weapon” means any thing used, designed to be used or intended for use

(a) in causing death or injury to any person, or
(b) for the purpose of threatening or intimidating any person
and, without restricting the generality of the foregoing, includes a firearm;

Pretty vague, isn't it? In other words you can carry a knife (to open packages when shopping) or a 26" collapsible baton (in case you lock your keys in your car). These items can be carried openly and lawfully. However it is illegal to carry a pen or set of keys if your intent is to use them as weapons. But if they are being carried for one purpose, and are within arms reach when you are attacked, then it's nothing more than an improvised weapon and is fair game. Intent is everything in Canada. The devices matter little.

[noob]

I know the law quite well, thank you. I have been a use of force instructor in Canada for nearly 10 years. The law states you must use the minimum level of force necessary to protect yourself from a threat. Legal precedent that has been established has determined that using an equivalent weapon can easily be argued as using minimal force. Scissors = knife. Where it gets tricky is when you escalate the level of force, such as bring a weapon into play. However if there is an extraordinary threat to your life (ie putting your hands on one's neck which contains multiple vital organs) that gives a lot of licence for a person to defend themselves.

You need to look not only at the laws on paper, but how they have been argued in court. Legal precedent is as relevent as the laws themselves. Please do your homework next time you feel inclined to call somebody stupid.

Tommygun is correct, one of the key words is "escalate". And the phrase "minimal amount of force to neutralize a threat".

my $0.02

[greep]

If B@rbie ever went to prison she'd be a very 'popular' inmate .

[tslisaparadise]

Do you honestly think that you have the legal right to put your car into park, get out, walk over to somebody else, and put your hands on their neck... because somebody said something to you? This is assault. It is not self defence and you do not have any laws stating you can do this. The next time you speak with a lawyer or police officer, feel free to verify this.

Somebody saying something mean to you is not a hate crime. It is hate speech. In Canada hate speech is not a licence for vigilante justice. You must go through the courts to seek redress.

I know the law quite well, thank you. I have been a use of force instructor in Canada for nearly 10 years. The law states you must use the minimum level of force necessary to protect yourself from a threat. Legal precedent that has been established has determined that using an equivalent weapon can easily be argued as using minimal force. Scissors = knife. Where it gets tricky is when you escalate the level of force, such as bring a weapon into play. However if there is an extraordinary threat to your life (ie putting your hands on one's neck which contains multiple vital organs) that gives a lot of licence for a person to defend themselves.

You need to look not only at the laws on paper, but how they have been argued in court. Legal precedent is as relevent as the laws themselves. Please do your homework next time you feel inclined to call somebody stupid.
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listen up do you really think any court of law in ontario would convict me for doing what i did?not a chance in hell,when i walked to his car he made a threat and a move towards me in a violent manner witch gives me the right to protect myself i come from a family of police officers and i hang out with one every one in awhile because we grew up together and remained friends,this isnt the first time i got into a fist fight over some asshole calling me names im thinkin i know alittle bit more about what the law is then you think when i comes to how far i can go when things escelate.i show no mercy when my pride is on the line and i have no problem defending it the fact is everything boils down to he said she said and reputation counts for alot of things and last time i checked mines flawless.

[bubbleboy]

Hey Barbie I empathize with what you go through, I really do. I don't know what it's like to be a TS, because I am not one myself. But, I have had lots of friends and girlfriends that are and I have a pretty good idea of the discrimination that you face.

Now that said I would encourage you to carefully consider what tommygun has posted here, he knows what he is talking about.

Just to add to what he said and to lay aside the legal talk for a moment here... it sounds like you read the guy right and you assumed that he would cower and run and you had no intention of stabbing him with scissors in front of a crowd. BUT big big BUT..... if you ever pull a weapon on someone you have to do it with the intent of using it. Period. Another way of thinking about it is this: if you pull a weapon on someone you had better follow through or you risk the person taking the weapon from you and turning it against you. Weapons should never be brandished like that - it is potentially very dangerous for you.

I have to say I am not trying to give you a hard time, I am just concerned that if you do something like this in the future it might end really badly for you.

Stay safe out there girls!

[tommygun]

listen up do you really think any court of law in ontario would convict me for doing what i did?not a chance in hell,when i walked to his car he made a threat and a move towards me in a violent manner witch gives me the right to protect myself i come from a family of police officers and i hang out with one every one in awhile because we grew up together and remained friends,this isnt the first time i got into a fist fight over some asshole calling me names im thinkin i know alittle bit more about what the law is then you think when i comes to how far i can go when things escelate.i show no mercy when my pride is on the line and i have no problem defending it the fact is everything boils down to he said she said and reputation counts for alot of things and last time i checked mines flawless.

Yes, I do think they would convict you. You walked over to his car. You put your hands on his neck. You were the aggressor. Aggressors can't make very good self defence arguments. Most people who come from a family of law enforcement are usually more knowledgable about the law. You claim to know the law but the content of your posts do not reflect that.

Show no mercy when pride is one the line. Translation; you are overly aggressive when somebody hurts your feelings.

Everybody has a flawless reputation until they are arrested for the first time. There is a relatively new trend among prosecutors/crowns. Many of them go online to see what kind of dirt they can dig up. There was an article in Police Magazine last year that documented it. I've seen some of your posts (prior to this thread) and have no doubt that a crown wold have no difficulty painting you as an aggressor. If the crown can use this to help obtain a conviction of a police officer (like 2 years ago with a Peel officer) then they could certainly do it to you. However there is one reality that will compromise your credibility in any court. Now keep in mind that this doesn't reflect my personal view, just what I know about the legal system. The second a court learns that you make money as an escort your credibility will take a very serious hit. You know better than most how sex workers are treated. Have you ever had a lawyer interrogate you, whose sole intention is to make you look bad?

Instead of putting up a fight, why don't you try and learn something that will help you out in life.

[tslisaparadise]

Yes, I do think they would convict you. You walked over to his car. You put your hands on his neck. You were the aggressor. Aggressors can't make very good self defence arguments. Most people who come from a family of law enforcement are usually more knowledgable about the law. You claim to know the law but the content of your posts do not reflect that.

Show no mercy when pride is one the line. Translation; you are overly aggressive when somebody hurts your feelings.

Everybody has a flawless reputation until they are arrested for the first time. There is a relatively new trend among prosecutors/crowns. Many of them go online to see what kind of dirt they can dig up. There was an article in Police Magazine last year that documented it. I've seen some of your posts (prior to this thread) and have no doubt that a crown wold have no difficulty painting you as an aggressor. If the crown can use this to help obtain a conviction of a police officer (like 2 years ago with a Peel officer) then they could certainly do it to you. However there is one reality that will compromise your credibility in any court. Now keep in mind that this doesn't reflect my personal view, just what I know about the legal system. The second a court learns that you make money as an escort your credibility will take a very serious hit. You know better than most how sex workers are treated. Have you ever had a lawyer interrogate you, whose sole intention is to make you look bad?

Instead of putting up a fight, why don't you try and learn something that will help you out in life.

i did learn something no matter how much you try and discredit me it only makes you look worse