"Most SHEMALES Should Seek Serious Professional Help B4 They Hurt You Or Themselves!"

[Barbie_Swallows]

"Most SHEMALES Should Seek Serious Professional Help B4 They Hurt You... Or Themselves!"

Most transsexuals got mental problems, lets face it, we're all fucked up one way or another, i'm just open enough to admit it, lol. Most trannys have thought or attempted suicide before. And the sad part is, most shemales don't live a long life, they die young, from being murdered, suicide, drug overdose, ect... Anyways alot of m2f trans-women are very misunderstood by society. Even the guys that love us, don't really understand us 100% completley u know.

I just think shemales have more emotional problems then the average person and this is a fact due the fact there protraying themselves as false advertisement everywhere they go, lol. And also they get rejected alot by society if they try to get a normal job, and they realize ur transgender,, they may not hire u. And also the guys that get horny for us only treat us as a discrete sex toy and not as a girlfriend material cause there in the closet and ashamed. I noticed most shemales i talk too act very wierd and fucked up, and yes including myself too, lol. U can't blame us,, look how much bullshit we go through? lol

Anyways the reason why im writing all this was because i had an experience talking to this gay guy a few weeks ago at a porno store and he said to me he thinks all transsexuals should all see a thearpist and counselings and some serious professional help. I was curious and i asked him why? He replied back saying well u see it's kinda like having a divorce from ur x-husband but ur still living in the same house together and that will create some personal problems, lol. Do u get it or not? Let me explain for those of u who are slow or too high on drugs at the momment. And mind u i don't think he was kidding or joking about what he has told me about transsexuals.

Basically, being a shemale is kinda like getting a divorced by ur past male lifestyle but ur still living with ur past (ur dick) in the same body and u will have alot of personal problems and stress which he said being 2 in one male & female and he thinks they should all seek a professional phycologist cause alot of them he says they always act all fucked up and crazy and wild and always getting into stupid fights over nothing with each other shemales and others around them.

Basically there all drama queens, which is why i stay away from the majority of them including my x-friend Kim, lol. Crazy jealous old bitch! But anyways Transsexuals are very sensitive people,, we're like some sort of ticking time bomb just waiting to fucking explode like a valcano! lol. Anyways if u found this funny, please leave a comment, if u didn't then please leave some comments anyways and i'll get back to u as soon as i finish sucking this big monster cock over here, lol.

B@rbie Swallows
www.BarbieSwallows.com

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[tslisaparadise]

you seriously need to stop talking to gay guys,there the most fucked up people on earth period and you listen to there bullshit, i just dont get some of you girls. i may agree that theres alot of trannies who are fucked up only because they didnt think things through before transitioning and drugs pay a huge role now there are a select few i will actually talk to like dee and shelby and thats about it but when i talk to other girls all i hear is fighting and its brutal it got to a point last year where i had to block about 10 or so girls numbers because i just dont need to listen to it.there are very few girls who are mentally strong enough to keep all negativity aside and im one of them,i dont care who clocks me i actually enjoy the reactions lol its kinda like a game to me now and im very proud of who i am afterall being different is a really really cool thing and i love every minute of it.

[Toronto]

Quite interesting guess its time to go to the Clark institute. We are all messed up in one way or another but it's kind of hard to deny obvious conflict if you are a ts where other people can hid behind their problems and pretend they are not their. I have my own special breand of prolbems and i think their quite unique but no better or worse then someone elses. I also think that one has to be really strong to be true to themselves and undertake something like expressing their true self. mind you if you believe the pharmaceutical companies about 95% of the population should be on some form of medication or another lol.

[Fudgepacker]

With a good psychiatrist/psychologist a sexual gender confused being can learn to cope and function in society.

Maybe start here:

http://www.genderpsychology.org/

[Alexis]

Hmm..

Well professional advice isn't a bad thing. I had seen 3 professional when I was 18 and it really answered lots of questions for me. Being lost and confused, dating sexy girls and wanting to be just like them etc. Never really had any guys that were friends or lovers, just fuck buddies and clients now and then..

They told me I was transgendered and that which ever path I decided to take would leave me wanting to know what was down the other one. So in a sense they told me I was fucked and would be left confused a lot. All in all it did help me deal with the thoughts of suicide, violence and such so I would say it was a good thing.

One philosophy I have is that those of us who are brave enough and willing to be who we are 100% in the open are "REAL" and everyone else is stuck in the fucking closet..

[Toronto]

woo nothing wrong with some violence as long as you find the right person to take it out on lol

Hmm..

Well professional advice isn't a bad thing. I had seen 3 professional when I was 18 and it really answered lots of questions for me. Being lost and confused, dating sexy girls and wanting to be just like them etc. Never really had any guys that were friends or lovers, just fuck buddies and clients now and then..

They told me I was transgendered and that which ever path I decided to take would leave me wanting to know what was down the other one. So in a sense they told me I was fucked and would be left confused a lot. All in all it did help me deal with the thoughts of suicide, violence and such so I would say it was a good thing.

One philosophy I have is that those of us who are brave enough and willing to be who we are 100% in the open are "REAL" and everyone else is stuck in the fucking closet..

[Alexis]

The violence I was referring to was me wanting to kill the people that were harassing me verbally on a daily basis, calling me gay etc.. Meanwhile I was always around the hottest girls and I still am. I honestly think that they were doing it cuz they were intimidated and didn't want to think about those dark lil secrets they were all hiding..

Now I just smile and endure what ever comes my way.. happy happy

[Guest]

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Hi,

Well, i agree with every single comment in this thread, so far.
Every one has said something really meaningful and accurate.
Well, except for the comment about, "nothing wrong with violence so long as you find the right person to take it out on."
I say, no violence.

True. Every one needs some form of therapist but most people don't want that because it might mean they have to accept certain realities about themselves that they are not willing to accept.

What the gay guy said made sense to some degree. That's where we trannys need therapy.
Other people have other problems.
Gays need therapy, too, then, because they've experienced all sorts of scarring abuse from families, friends etc. So they are not off the hook just because they are gay.

I sort of agree with Lisa about not hanging out with gays, Barbie. We don't think on the same lines as gays - they're a different beast, altogether.
I won't say they are the most fucked up, though. Italians, Greeks, Jews, or Chinese adults might be more fucked up than gays and trans combined - LOL, talk about guilt!!

Barbie is correct, we trans are pretty screwed up individuals, and many of us have attempted or thought about committing suicide - i have.

When one reaches a certain point when all the trans-commotion dust has settled in life, a time when we can feel at ease with who we have become because now we look great and we are envied after all the feminine surgeries, then, it all gets easier to deal with. That's when the insults still fly at you but you don't give a crap any more because time has made you immune - happily immune. They couldn't insult you by that time, no matter how they might try. Doesn't mean the person couldn't benefit from therapy - it only means that the person is able to deal with what's going on at the moment.

And i agree with Lisa about all the drama.
Look up drama queen in an encyclopaedia and you see a scowling tranny.
(Kidding)
All kidding aside, i have seen some very vicious behavior demonstrated in t-girl sites or TG chat rooms.
They say children are the meanest when angry. Well, trannys are really the meanest - they make children look like, lol - like children.

My opinions,
Babe,
xoxo

P.S.
I feel better now that i am in therapy.

[bigmanc]

haha barbie i found it funny! you can see some humor in being fucked up, well everyone is a little fucked up in some way or another! The only really scary people out there are those that really believe they are "normal" and try to push their "normal" opinoins and beliefs on you!

[Alexis]

The only really scary people out there are those that really believe they are "normal" and try to push their "normal" opinoins and beliefs on you!

My guess is you're referring to politicians and religious fanatics..

And possibly some French Canadians..

[Tasha Jones RIP]

Oh I am sure this will rub some trannys butt plugs the wrong way!

But what I found so funny about this thread was who was posting in it and the nerve of trying to give advice! I mean really, Barbie & Lisa....sane...hahaha all we need is Soda to poop her thoughts in here and we can all get a free toaster! (Not sure if they did it anywhere else but back east when you committed someone you got a toaster)

I think everyone has issues to be honest. White/black, Gay/Straight, Trans/Lez or that green man looking down on us waiting to prob us. Just for everyone's record...I need a good probing and I will take Mr. Green dick if I must!

For me, I do not live my life as a transsexual to be honest. I do not hide it, but I do not wear a big sign telling the world "dick on board". Who cares what I have down there. What does that even have to be an issue.

I also disagree with rejection part of this as well. I went to Collage and worked at a hospital and no one knew nor cared. There are lots of Trans woman who live normal lives and no one even thinks about if they have a cock or not. Yes, I went to collage to get out of this line of work. I will one day do just that. But I have leant that I enjoy this line of work and enjoy my normal life. I am trying to be able to have both. So far it is working out good. But again it is my choice and is based off of my feelings not my sexuality.

Let me be really honest! Barbie, if you want to walk around with your tits hanging out and lips pumped up like they have been stick to a lamp post all winter....people might question if your normal or not. People might question what sex you are. You do not seem to want to hide it and are happy having a dick & tits. You do not hide or deny the fact that you do not look like a woman. So, your feelings/views are going to be different then most of us "Girls" who live a life outside of Tranny World. Also your mental state is/will be on a different level then the rest of the world. Take 5 minutes and read your past post. This has nothing to do with you being a Transsexual this is you as a person. This is your issues with life. Maybe being a Transsexual might heighten them and make those issues come to the surface. But I think your hatred for men is the real issue that you should maybe look into. But again, just my view point!

On the other hand I think everyone can use someone to talk to. But people make choices and being Trans does not make our choices any different or more advanced then Tom down the road who sees dead people. If you play a role people will not know any different. That man told you what he told you because all he has seen is crazy trannys. What he needs to understand is like the rest of the world non of us are cookie cutter crazy....were just crazy..lol

Anyways just my thoughts...
Fire away ladies!

[tslisaparadise]

Oh I am sure this will rub some trannys butt plugs the wrong way!

But what I found so funny about this thread was who was posting in it and the nerve of trying to give advice! I mean really, Barbie & Lisa....sane...hahaha all we need is Soda to poop her thoughts in here and we can all get a free toaster! (Not sure if they did it anywhere else but back east when you committed someone you got a toaster)

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well first off your no exactly the brightest person ive ever met and actually one of the most fucked up tranny by far,as every girl knows your a very negative and evil person i seriously doubt thats ever gonna change so you giving anybody advice is laughable period.

[Nadia Kox]

With me I found that all my problems just came from before I understood being trans. I didn't understand a large part of it and I thought it had to be wrong because it was so different, so I just tried to hide it from everyone. This lead to a bunch of self esteem issues because I felt like there was something wrong with me, and anxiety issues because I was always worried about anyone finding out. I had tons of friends, but it didn't really help because I always felt like they wouldn't like me if they knew the real me.

Now that I understand being trans and I'm out with it though, so much of that stuff has completely gone away. Now that I understand myself, I really like myself. I also no longer feel like I need to hide anything. I never try and hide the fact that I'm trans or try and blend as a cisgirl. I wear tight jeans, don't tuck, and I have a HUGE dick lol. I talk about being trans all the time, everybody I know knows about it, and nobody thinks it's a big deal. I mean, plenty of people think it's awesome lol, most people aren't really negative about it. Those that have a problem about it are generally retarded in many aspects of their lives, so I don't really give two fucks what they have to say about it.

I like being trans and I like being in peoples faces about it. Transpeople have been invisible way too long, and their lack of visibility in society was a huge driving force behind why I had so many problems before I came out and in realizing what was going on. I like being super out with it, because I want to make everyone in society confront the fact that there are transpeople everywhere and society can't just ignore them.

I think if you don't like that you're trans, and feel a need to hide it, you're going to have issues. If you don't like yourself, and you're always worried about people finding out who you are and hating you/judging you for it you're going to have a shit-ton of emotional and psychological issues from that. It's an extremely dangerous and harmful way to exist.

Love yourself, enjoy yourself, be yourself.

[tslisaparadise]

I like being trans and I like being in peoples faces about it. Transpeople have been invisible way too long, and their lack of visibility in society was a huge driving force behind why I had so many problems before I came out and in realizing what was going on. I like being super out with it, because I want to make everyone in society confront the fact that there are transpeople everywhere and society can't just ignore them.

I think if you don't like that you're trans, and feel a need to hide it, you're going to have issues. If you don't like yourself, and you're always worried about people finding out who you are and hating you/judging you for it you're going to have a shit-ton of emotional and psychological issues from that. It's an extremely dangerous and harmful way to exist.

Love yourself, enjoy yourself, be yourself.

maybe one of the best posts ive read in a long time,very well said thank you.