"Most SHEMALES Should Seek Serious Professional Help B4 They Hurt You Or Themselves!"

[Tasha Jones RIP]

Very well said Nadia.....

[Alexis]

With me I found that all my problems just came from before I understood being trans. I didn't understand a large part of it and I thought it had to be wrong because it was so different, so I just tried to hide it from everyone. This lead to a bunch of self esteem issues because I felt like there was something wrong with me, and anxiety issues because I was always worried about anyone finding out. I had tons of friends, but it didn't really help because I always felt like they wouldn't like me if they knew the real me.

I can relate to this more than you can imagine.. Although I had a few key people that really knew about me it wasn't until I was 18 that I really opened up about it and had a good understanding of why.. Thankfully I had a great circle of friends and some understanding from my family..

Being open and honest with yourself and everyone else has to be the best thing I would think. I wouldn't however forcefully cram it down someone's throat though, if they know they know and if the don't that's great I don't want others views imposed upon me and in turn I would not impose mine upon them. After all we all deserve and equal amount of freedom of expression and respect with our rights to choice..

[Fudgepacker]

Another component of this all is the prostitution some transsexuals engage themselves in. This in and of itself speaks volumes about a person and where they are at with themselves psychologically.

All I can say and recommend to Barbie and whoever is seek out proper professional counselling. Do it yourself therapies (drugs, alcohol, suicide, risky poor choices) or internet forums are not the place your going to get what you really need, and that is someone you can trust, who doesn't judge you and is trained to help you sort out everything before you CRASH. Awareness is everything in life and such a relief. You'll one day thank yourself for having done so.

Hell I also recommend everyone regardless of how well they think they got it together, at some time in their life, see a shrink. There are people out here on planet earth who are just as fucked up and some more than the people they are judging. Life is too short to be carrying pockets filled with stones.

I had the benefit earlier in my life while going through a personal crisis of seeking out a shrink. Without one pill prescribed that shrink (woman) helped me take all my pieces of my wrecked life and put myself back together again, stronger than ever before. It was the best thing I ever did for myself.

[Nadia Kox]

I wouldn't however forcefully cram it down someone's throat though, if they know they know and if the don't that's great I don't want others views imposed upon me and in turn I would not impose mine upon them. After all we all deserve and equal amount of freedom of expression and respect with our rights to choice..

It's not a viewpoint or anything like that though. It's an identity. It's not shoving ones views down peoples throats, it's just refusing to hide who you are and expressing yourself as an individual. They're two completely different things. You don't have a choice in your identity. I understand that some people don't like transpeople and find them offensive or whatever, but I don't think ignorance and hate is anything to be protected. If somebody has a problem with me being trans, than that's their problem and they're going to have to deal with it. It's not my responsibility to limit myself and my self expression just to avoid making some people feel uncomfortable.

Another component of this all is the prostitution some transsexuals engage themselves in. This in and of itself speaks volumes about a person and where they are at with themselves psychologically.

Just because somebody can enjoy sex doesn't make them crazy.

[Fudgepacker]

Just because somebody can enjoy sex doesn't make them crazy.

Enjoying sex and prostituting oneself are not one in the same IMO.

[Clone 0101]

Oh I am sure this will rub some trannys butt plugs the wrong way!

But what I found so funny about this thread was who was posting in it and the nerve of trying to give advice! I mean really, Barbie & Lisa....sane...hahaha all we need is Soda to poop her thoughts in here and we can all get a free toaster! (Not sure if they did it anywhere else but back east when you committed someone you got a toaster)

I think everyone has issues to be honest. White/black, Gay/Straight, Trans/Lez or that green man looking down on us waiting to prob us. Just for everyone's record...I need a good probing and I will take Mr. Green dick if I must!

For me, I do not live my life as a transsexual to be honest. I do not hide it, but I do not wear a big sign telling the world "dick on board". Who cares what I have down there. What does that even have to be an issue.

I also disagree with rejection part of this as well. I went to Collage and worked at a hospital and no one knew nor cared. There are lots of Trans woman who live normal lives and no one even thinks about if they have a cock or not. Yes, I went to collage to get out of this line of work. I will one day do just that. But I have leant that I enjoy this line of work and enjoy my normal life. I am trying to be able to have both. So far it is working out good. But again it is my choice and is based off of my feelings not my sexuality.

Let me be really honest! Barbie, if you want to walk around with your tits hanging out and lips pumped up like they have been stick to a lamp post all winter....people might question if your normal or not. People might question what sex you are. You do not seem to want to hide it and are happy having a dick & tits. You do not hide or deny the fact that you do not look like a woman. So, your feelings/views are going to be different then most of us "Girls" who live a life outside of Tranny World. Also your mental state is/will be on a different level then the rest of the world. Take 5 minutes and read your past post. This has nothing to do with you being a Transsexual this is you as a person. This is your issues with life. Maybe being a Transsexual might heighten them and make those issues come to the surface. But I think your hatred for men is the real issue that you should maybe look into. But again, just my view point!

On the other hand I think everyone can use someone to talk to. But people make choices and being Trans does not make our choices any different or more advanced then Tom down the road who sees dead people. If you play a role people will not know any different. That man told you what he told you because all he has seen is crazy trannys. What he needs to understand is like the rest of the world non of us are cookie cutter crazy....were just crazy..lol

Anyways just my thoughts...
Fire away ladies!

Point Proven LOL... Everyone please forgive the delay in my posts as the craziest tranny of them all has my posts to be supervised.

[Alexis]

Another component of this all is the prostitution some transsexuals engage themselves in. This in and of itself speaks volumes about a person and where they are at with themselves psychologically.

OK so what does this mean fudgepacker?

Nadia: I agree with you 100%

I've just met a few tgirls that are a bit over the top with letting people know they are trans and it's all they ever talk about..

[toban]

Aren't you being a little harsh here Fudge?

Another component of this all is the prostitution some transsexuals engage themselves in. This in and of itself speaks volumes about a person and where they are at with themselves psychologically. . . . . . . . . . .

Aren't you being a little harsh here Fudge?

I may have read your post with the wrong mindset because as I understand your writing, you are suggesting there is a harmful or damaging nature evident with respect to those who practice prostitution. My apologies if I am incorect!

If I did read your intentions correctly, then by applying your logic to the clients of these girls, these clients themselves must be in the same mixed-up state you are suggesting the girls are in. Can we all be in such an unsettled state?

Are we men not simply obeying our natural urge to procreate, to encourage diversity of the species by "inoculating" every receptacle we can? The spreading of the seed, so to speak, is part of the genetics of all species would you not agree?

Many girls, both trans and genetic are forced by circumstances beyond their control, to do whatever they must, no matter what their feelings about it, just to survive another day. When the opportunity to move on arises, they willingly leave that practice behind.

To my way of thinking, I see this as more of a strength than an indication of instability.

I continue to be amazed by the strengths and resiliency of these girls. They have had to give up so much and to struggle so hard each and every day to get this far in their lives.

I seriously doubt that their supporters, like myself and all of the guys here, could even contemplate making such extreme changes in their own lives. I know I could not!

But back to the topic.

I agree completly otherwise with your suggestions regarding counselling. Some years back when this same girl was having a difficult time and suggesting suicide I did correspond with her privately and suggested she do exactly that which you have suggested here. I know such treatment is not easy for most to arrange but its benefits can sometimes be miraculous.

[Alexis]

I dunno..

I genuinely enjoy sex a lot and I love the idea of getting paid for it. That and erotic massage and the like give me pleasure as well. Lastly there is the satisfaction of those who wish to be my sex slaves so that I can use them and torment them for my pleasure..

And I get paid 150-200+ an hour for this..

Explain to me where having tons of fun and getting that kind of coin is wrong?

Oh.. I forgot to mention I get to travel around and have all my expenses covered by those that admire and worship me..

Is this morally wrong? If so who is the one that says it is?

[Barbie_Swallows]

well first off your no exactly the brightest person ive ever met and actually one of the most fucked up tranny by far,as every girl knows your a very negative and evil person i seriously doubt thats ever gonna change so you giving anybody advice is laughable period.

co-sign with u girl

[Tasha Jones RIP]

co-sign with u girl

Hahahaha U 2 are like the blind leading the blind...u never can get enough of the stupidness that pours out of your pie holes! Please...keep it up I need a good laugh!!

[Fudgepacker]

I dunno..

I genuinely enjoy sex a lot and I love the idea of getting paid for it. That and erotic massage and the like give me pleasure as well. Lastly there is the satisfaction of those who wish to be my sex slaves so that I can use them and torment them for my pleasure..

And I get paid 150-200+ an hour for this..

Explain to me where having tons of fun and getting that kind of coin is wrong?

Oh.. I forgot to mention I get to travel around and have all my expenses covered by those that admire and worship me..

Is this morally wrong? If so who is the one that says it is?

Your into the lifestyle I can see, not everyone is though. It can be like a drug. You can glorify it all you want but I believe most if given a choice would walk away from prostitution in a heart beat. Kudos to Tasha Jones and what she is trying to accomplish for herself.

[Tasha Jones RIP]

Thanks Fudgepacker. Thank god someone here sees my funny side in topics like this!

[Fudgepacker]

Aren't you being a little harsh here Fudge?

I may have read your post with the wrong mindset because as I understand your writing, you are suggesting there is a harmful or damaging nature evident with respect to those who practice prostitution. My apologies if I am incorect!

If I did read your intentions correctly, then by applying your logic to the clients of these girls, these clients themselves must be in the same mixed-up state you are suggesting the girls are in. Can we all be in such an unsettled state?

Are we men not simply obeying our natural urge to procreate, to encourage diversity of the species by "inoculating" every receptacle we can? The spreading of the seed, so to speak, is part of the genetics of all species would you not agree?

Many girls, both trans and genetic are forced by circumstances beyond their control, to do whatever they must, no matter what their feelings about it, just to survive another day. When the opportunity to move on arises, they willingly leave that practice behind.

To my way of thinking, I see this as more of a strength than an indication of instability.

I continue to be amazed by the strengths and resiliency of these girls. They have had to give up so much and to struggle so hard each and every day to get this far in their lives.

I seriously doubt that their supporters, like myself and all of the guys here, could even contemplate making such extreme changes in their own lives. I know I could not!

But back to the topic.

I agree completly otherwise with your suggestions regarding counselling. Some years back when this same girl was having a difficult time and suggesting suicide I did correspond with her privately and suggested she do exactly that which you have suggested here. I know such treatment is not easy for most to arrange but its benefits can sometimes be miraculous.

Do you think turning tricks day in , day out is not in some way psychologically unhealthy. How does one deal with their feelings while doing all these things. One learns to detach themselves from those feelings and to shut them off. Not healthy cause when those feelings finally surface but you don't want to feel those feelings you turn to alternatives (booze, drugs, suicide).

I am not walking with stones in my pockets as previously stated. Counselling, psychotherapy is not a demon here and I highly recommend it to anyone who is feeling confused or out of control.

[Tasha Jones RIP]

I have to say you do make some points. But from my stand point, I think it is how you deal with your choices in life not the choices themselves. I choice to get paid to have sex. I have no issue with it and do not dislike it, try to hide it or have any guilt or regret about that choice.

I did not and will not turn to Booze, drugs or suicide because my body is being used by men. Because I deal with it in a healty way. We are using each other. I think it is more about how you view what your doing then the situation itself. The public has more guilt and feelings that this is wrong then the girls/guys who are doing this.

Again like any other situation some people are stronger and can deal with things in a better way. Others need other things to help them deal with life. This is there personal issue and not the fact they are escorts.