Abstaining from masturbation

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[Wendy Summers]

babe is the webMD of this place, no doubts.

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[Wendy Summers]

Hi Wendy Summers,

Nah, i just read a lot about health issues, natural medicines, diet and nutrition and alternative therapies.
I'm sure a lot of t-girls, here, can talk and sound like doctors when they discuss what hormones do.

Babe,
xoxo

hahahaha so true.

I get asked often how guys can tell a fake webcam transwoman from a real one. My answer is ask what their HRTregiment is -- we all seem to love to recite it in detail.

[zeebo]

I think I've got something like a world record here. I once went for nine months without blowing a single load. I was a horny 27-year old at the time as well and that's no joke. In my twenties I literally had to release stress five or six times per diem.

I was jacking it every day, practicing chinese methods of sexual control. By means of meditation & visualisation, the practitioner attempts to draw the raw chi up the spine to the crown of the head, thereby completing the "Macrocosmic Orbit".

When this is achieved, all kinds of mystical shit is supposed to happen: your lifespan increases to 1000 years, lotus flowers bloom out the top of your cranium, you understand the speech of birds, etc etc.

I was mainly after complete orgasm control. I'd been a preemie in my teens and early twenties and never got over the shame of it. I'm also kind of a control freak, either with self or others, and this extends to my own reflexes and bodily functions. It pissed me off that my cock would just pop off without my say-so.

I was single for most of this period. Then towards the end, I hooked up with this yoga teacher.Being a student of yoga and tantra, she was understanding about my need to retain the seed while I was banging her. One day I got a little bit carried away, though. I was fucking her from behind, in a position that is very stimulating to me, and I got too close to the point of no return.

I managed to hold it in, so technically I didn't lose my load, but about two hours later, as we were having brunch with some boring friends of hers, I suddenly commenced to feel like someone had just stabbed me in the second chakra with an icepick.

I went staggering into the restroom all doubled over, thinking I'd just blown a seminal vesicle or some shit like that. I really thought I had damaged something important, it was that painful.

I was in the stall, massaging my lower abdomen and panting and thought fuck it, I better bleed off some of the pressure. Obviously all the raw chi wasn't circulating or whatever.

Long story short, I drained a nine month backup. I've got one word for you: chunky.

Now I don't go more than five or six days. I do that when I overdo it on the jacking, I really am an orgasm addict and sometimes I need to give it a rest.

Ya I read the book "multi-orgasmic man" and the methods can be dangerous. I tried it briefly too, helps with control. But I could never achieve teh big draw and developed some pain in the lower back.

[Rock Savage]

Ya I read the book "multi-orgasmic man" and the methods can be dangerous. I tried it briefly too, helps with control. But I could never achieve teh big draw and developed some pain in the lower back.

You nailed it zeebo. That's the book I was using.