Proper Etiquette

[clarkkent724]

I have been exploring the boards for quite some time now, and in that time I have noticed that all sorts of good questions have been addressed. I have never been with a tgirl, and would very soon like to take that plunge, but I guess I have some questions of my own and was wondering if the regulars could give me some advice?

Is it rude or inconsiderate not to return the favor? By this I mean... is it ok to have the thought in my mind that I would top, but not bottom, I mean I guess I just can't see anything going near my o-ring.

And going along with that, I think there would only be a very select few I would bottom for.

I think ultimately, if I do choose to engage in this lifestyle and really find that it "has the best of both worlds," what does a young single guy do? I know a lot of tgirls probably do a lot of what they do for the money, but has anyone ever dated one? If you fall in love, do you get married?

I just don't know how this lifestyle works, I mean from what I read on here, the transgendered community has to put up with a lot of crap, and I admire these people. I mean I know some of the girls are more passible than others, but still it has got to be a hard life to lead. If anyone has got their 2 cents to share I would love to hear it. I am always willing to listen.

Thanks.

[Lacey]

Re: Proper Etiquette

Hi There, I don't post very often, but your topic caught my attention. I wonder how many other people wonder the same thing as you do. Please don't think that I'm speaking for all escorts - I'm just speaking for myself and wanted to give you my opinion on this.

Personally speaking, I wouldn't consider it rude if you didn't return the favour. If you're not comfortable with anything near your "o-ring" then you probably wouldn't enjoy your time with an escort who tries to coerce you to return the favour. Besides, not all escorts top, so it may be a moot point.

Hope that answers at least part of your question.
xoxoxo...Lacey

[clarkkent724]

Re: Proper Etiquette

Thanks for the reply Lacey.  I think I just need to make a trip to Cincinnati or Detroit (my two closest possibilites) and give this all a try.  I can only imagine how incredibly nervous I will be!  I know a lot of people on the board are from Canada, or visit there often to hook up with their favorites, but I am curious if there are any girls in the Midwest that anyone would recommend?  Thanks.