why are s0o0o few girls into t girls

[BiankaBanks]

I have been wondering this for awhile now and decided it would be a good idea to put my question out there and see what people think.,.,. I find on forums, and dating sites, and even in my personal life, that guys are wayyy more into t girls then girls, it is reli wierd. Being a bisexuial who is into girls alott lolzz I find it imposable to find girls who are interested in me,, even on plenty of fish I would get tons of mesages from girls wanting to date or fool around but as soon as i told them I was trans they were totaly not intirested anymore. Also the girls at lesbian bars can be purley vicious to t girls and at the best of cases give us the coldest shoulder everr. So0o0o0 I am just super suprised like where are all the bi girls who should be going crazy for us lolzz or the lesbians who could fall in love with what is between our ears and our great bodies, insted of being s0o0o0o hung up on what is between our legs. Also I find FtM trans men get wayy more atention and acceptance at lesbian spaces (personal opinion ofcorse) and this reli puzzels me too

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[Alexis]

I consider myself very fortunate to be with the female partner I am with. She is an amazing woman who like me sees beyond the exterior and identifies with people in general on a much deeper level. There's so much perfect chemistry between us that even after 2+ years passion is still like the second day if not even deeper..

I hand out with mostly girl girls and lots of them hit n me and make passes at me cuz they all know I have a big cock and more than know how to use it. I also have friends that are lesbian and they hit on me even more than the straight girls do..

So if one surrounds themselves with the right types of friends and such these things do happen. I'll be doing an MC at a pride party for a bunch girls next Friday and I'm sure I'll meet more fun and wonderful girls that wanna grab my bum..

[BiankaBanks]

well I guess I just have to hang out with the rite crowd,.,. i never reli have been involved with the GLBT comunity cuzz I was kynda scared off by descrimination earlyer in my transition,,.,. and maby dating sites are not the best place lolzz but i am living in a small town after all,,.,.

Babe i totaly think that tons of ppl want to sleep with trans men ( that wasent reli what i was wondering) they can be prety damn hott but I was just wondering why lesbians ( not bi girls ofcorse) would cuzz trans men can be reli masculin,.,,.

Alexis tha is awsome that your partner is reli cool and accepting and i totaly hope more people will eventualy come around to it,.,,. I guess part of my problem is even though I am well endowed down there I am reli strictaly a bottom in my personal life, but I always was hoping to find a girl who dident reli like sex much and we could just cuddle and kiss exc cuzz im definatly a cuddel adict

[Toronto]

their scard
sexy woman .... big cock .... = boyfriend that will cheat men are pig sdont you know

[MaxwellJ]

I have been wondering this for awhile now and decided it would be a good idea to put my question out there and see what people think.,.,. I find on forums, and dating sites, and even in my personal life, that guys are wayyy more into t girls then girls, it is reli wierd. Being a bisexuial who is into girls alott lolzz I find it imposable to find girls who are interested in me,, even on plenty of fish I would get tons of mesages from girls wanting to date or fool around but as soon as i told them I was trans they were totaly not intirested anymore. Also the girls at lesbian bars can be purley vicious to t girls and at the best of cases give us the coldest shoulder everr. So0o0o0 I am just super suprised like where are all the bi girls who should be going crazy for us lolzz or the lesbians who could fall in love with what is between our ears and our great bodies, insted of being s0o0o0o hung up on what is between our legs. Also I find FtM trans men get wayy more atention and acceptance at lesbian spaces (personal opinion ofcorse) and this reli puzzels me too

Sounds like you're saying more guys are into trans women and trans men. Maybe there are just more men out looking for sex than women. Look at the escort market for example, female, male and t-girls all target their services primarily to men. There are very few male escorts who target women clients. Maybe part of the reason is that sex is generally more accessible for women who want it, so they don't have to think about it as much. I wonder if this leads women in general to be less adventurous?

Another reason might be cultural. Women are brought up with a less positive attitude to sex, good girls don't and all that stuff. So maybe (in general) they are less adventurous for that reason too.

But then, maybe I'm completely wrong too ...

[dom r]

I have been wondering this for awhile now and decided it would be a good idea to put my question out there and see what people think.,.,. I find on forums, and dating sites, and even in my personal life, that guys are wayyy more into t girls then girls, it is reli wierd. Being a bisexuial who is into girls alott lolzz I find it imposable to find girls who are interested in me,, even on plenty of fish I would get tons of mesages from girls wanting to date or fool around but as soon as i told them I was trans they were totaly not intirested anymore. Also the girls at lesbian bars can be purley vicious to t girls and at the best of cases give us the coldest shoulder everr. So0o0o0 I am just super suprised like where are all the bi girls who should be going crazy for us lolzz or the lesbians who could fall in love with what is between our ears and our great bodies, insted of being s0o0o0o hung up on what is between our legs. Also I find FtM trans men get wayy more atention and acceptance at lesbian spaces (personal opinion ofcorse) and this reli puzzels me too

THE REASON WHY most females are more interested in other females or female to male transgenders who still have a vagina than t-girls or men is because all females dont reach orgasm from cock in vagina as their clits need the proper contact which can only arrive from clit on clit sex, masturbation or oral. Imagine that a man can finally give a female an orgasm using his genitals only as long as he has a cunt.

Surveys indicate that 80% of females never reach orgasm during intercourse and the other 20% lie.

Next time your in a bar and you hear a female saying to another female "I wanna fuck you so bad" and you then see them leaving together holding hands, its 100% gauranteed they'll both score when they fuck each other and I dont mean with dildoes or cocks.

[BiankaBanks]

Toronto I reli dont understand your post at all :s

Max I se what your saying but there are tons of horny girls out there who do want me,,. untill I tell them I am trans, like I have had women who wanted to fukk me reli bad and then when I tell them I am trans they won't even have a coffie with me,.., and also alot of times I am not out looking for a casuial hook up I was looking for a partner or somone to date but still no intrest :s but I could totaly see culture maby playing a role In it too, like you said,.,.but most girls will be with a FtM no problem(from my expeariences) but with a MtF they are wayy against it,, like i amsome kind of undercover invader in their lesbian spaces or dating sites

I love giving oral and I have been told i am reli good,, but I gues most girls might judge me as being all about the penitration and bad oral cuzz i am trans and into girls (damn negitive starieotypes) so0o0 you could be totaly right too maby I should have a comercial put out or a yutube vid about my awsome oral skillz,,.. but i would need to give oral to girls first then they could tell everyone, and thats the problem in the first place,,,. Its a viscious cycle lolzz

[dom r]

Max I se what your saying but there are tons of horny girls out there who do want me,,. untill I tell them I am trans, like I have had women who wanted to fukk me reli bad and then when I tell them I am trans they won't even have a coffie with me

I love giving oral and I have been told i am reli good,, but I gues most girls might judge me as being all about the penitration and bad oral cuzz i am trans and into girls (damn negitive starieotypes lolzz

Thats what I mean, they wanted to hump your vagina that they thought you had where theres no risk of pregnancy and where they know for a fact they'll cum until you told them you had a penis. This doesn;t apply just to lesbians, this applies to all women and most people dont see this true light for some reason. Clits need clits to achieve orgasm as nature intended, especially to multiple orgasms not big cock hiding away from it in fear as its inside her vagina, unless its small but thats a subject I better not get into. Although im happy to say I do in fact make my service woman cum by oral, legs up and widely spreaded, thats the only way a male/shemale can make it happen unless our cocks get soft.....or small.

[BiankaBanks]

I think I get it now,.,. Its like I have a Taco Bell restraunt but I only sell sausages there s0o0o0 when people go in to get a soft shell taco and maby a fries supreme also,.,, they can only buy the spicy Italian sausage and a fries supreme s0o0o they are totaly disapointed lolzz damn.,, maby i would have a chance with Bi- curious girls cuzz they are cool with a sausage and a fries supreme (lolzz i love analogies)

[MaxwellJ]

I think I get it now,.,. Its like I have a Taco Bell restraunt but I only sell sausages there s0o0o0 when people go in to get a soft shell taco and maby a fries supreme also,.,, they can only buy the spicy Italian sausage and a fries supreme s0o0o they are totaly disapointed lolzz damn.,, maby i would have a chance with Bi- curious girls cuzz they are cool with a sausage and a fries supreme (lolzz i love analogies)

Bianka - wish I could get a sausage with my fries supreme at taco bell!

Isn't it right that a lot of gay men don't really accept m2f transexuals? Maybe its the same with lesbians.

Or maybe the lesbians you met are just intimidated by you. First they think you are a lesbian like them and then they find out you are a wolf in lesbian clothing. Maybe they are thinking that guys do a lot of things to get into a girl's pants, this guy is just pretending he is a girl! If so, that's stereotyping and prejudice on their part, but the male psyche is very dominant in our society and may be hard for some people to overcome. It might be hard for some women to comprehend that you have a dick but you're not a guy.

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[danilover]

I consider myself very fortunate to be with the female partner I am with. She is an amazing woman who like me sees beyond the exterior and identifies with people in general on a much deeper level. There's so much perfect chemistry between us that even after 2+ years passion is still like the second day if not even deeper..

I hand out with mostly girl girls and lots of them hit n me and make passes at me cuz they all know I have a big cock and more than know how to use it. I also have friends that are lesbian and they hit on me even more than the straight girls do..

So if one surrounds themselves with the right types of friends and such these things do happen. I'll be doing an MC at a pride party for a bunch girls next Friday and I'm sure I'll meet more fun and wonderful girls that wanna grab my bum..

Alexis, I was just wondering, are you a tgirl or a CD? You mentioned you live with a girl, I was curious if you live full time as a women, (do you have breasts) or are a CD who occasionally dresses up?

[danilover]

Hi BiankaBanks,

I've been hit on by a few women who knew i am trans. Some were bisexual, some were hetrosexual, and one was even a lesbian (but she didn't want me as soon as i told her i hadn't yet had top surgery).
I used to go into a chat room and talk dirty, saying what i wanted to do to all the guys, and then some girl wanted to meet me. When i met her in real life, she was quite a real hottie. We became good friends.

You probably just had bad luck.

On another note, however, i was in a mixed-trans-group with both TS's present, and when i asked if trans-men get hit on a lot by men, i was told a resounding "YES".

In my mind, i kept asking myself, "Men will want a man with hair on his boy-girl-ish face and legs and chest but still has a vagina, and no breasts?"
Then, i supposed, that there are just enough weird people in this world to make that work.

We have people who like sex with male to female TSs, midgets, deformed people, animals, children, and even dead people. So why not with a trans-man. It was a light bulb moment for me.

Babe,
xoxo

Interesting Babe...I am very open minded when it comes to sex. The funny thing, I'm attracted to men who are smooth and hairless and I don't mind women who have hair under their arms or on their pussy, kinda backwards I guess. it's funny that people who are into "abnormal" sex, i.e. Tgirls, midgets etc, actually have standards, "I'm into This but that is gross" doesn't really make sense, of course unless it is something that hurts another human being against their will, that I understand.

So that is a good point about WTM trans, I've never really thought about them and having an open sexual appetite, have never fantasized about that. I guess it's like I'm not attracted to a post op tgirl, I'd rather have sex with a real man and an honest to goodness cock, then a "man" made one...