I'm Dreaming of a SPA CHRISTMAS

[chester]

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Amanda - what do you mean when you said that gay bars don't give a shit about tgirls and that you will find this out perhaps too late? Sounds kind of ominous to me.

[Shemale Amanda]

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Amanda - what do you mean when you said that gay bars don't give a shit about tgirls and that you will find this out perhaps too late? Sounds kind of ominous to me.

Look at this as similar to the book of "Revelations". Read into it as you will, but only those who are meant to understand will understand. But the ending will not be as "ominous" as "Revelations" predicts. But it will not be in the best interests of the T-Girls and their admirers, when it comes to benefiting from our own social situations.

Amanda

[Shemale Amanda]

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I will be in the area Boxing Day evening.  Is that a good night to visit the Spa?

I'd love to meet some of the girls for a bit of chat.

The Spa runs on Tuesday nights dear (So we are not open on "Boxing Day Evening"). And yes we will be open on Tuesday, December 27th and every Tuesday unless it is specifially advertised that we are not open.
Amanda

[Shemale Amanda]

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I’ve been to the spa nite before and had a great time.  I don’t really want to knock it.  It seems to be a hit or miss kinda thing.  I was really disappointed at the lack of t-girl representation as well.

But there was something that disappointed me even more.  There was a t-girl named Nancy who says she was denied entrance.  I’ve met her before at this event and she was terrific.  She says she attends fairly regularly.  We’ve struck up a friendship and we made arrangements to meet at the spa. 
She’s Thai and her English isn’t perfect.  I couldn’t quite understand her reason why she was turned away.  Maybe Amanda or someone else could explain it to me. 

Having a dearth of t-girls was bad enough, but having a favourite one who I was expecting to meet there turned away was really disappointing. 

You are correct that sometimes this tends to be a "hit or miss kinda thing", but isn't everything?

Regarding the Nancy situation though, this is not a wise topic to be airing publically, now is it? I am sure this can be answered with a little bit of reading of past posts, regarding rules of the Spa event. Or perhaps getting a translator to communicate the full story for you. Obviously the more T-Girls attending this event, the more business is accumulated for Lady...plus. So we certainly do not want to "deny entrance" to any T-Girls, without reason.

Just so you know, these are not my rules, they are the rules of the Central Spa and the legal authorities. They are the ones who make these desisions, but be assured that I am 100% behind these desicions. We do not own this establishment and therefore not resposible for all legal repercussions, but they are.

No T-Girl is banished perminently from the Spa, only asked to leave if complaints are brought to the attendant's attention (provided by Central Spa not Lady...plus). All the girl has to do is realize and admit to her faux pas and assure changes in her behavior. The unfortunate thing is the denial and victim factor that arrises. Admit your mistake, leave other people out of it, and come back and have fun.
Can it be any easier?

Thank you for your concern.
Amanda

[Chaude Lapin]

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Thanx Amanda for addressing this.

I’m familiar with the rules of the spa referred to in previous posts, specifically in regard to asking for or offering money for sex.

I can’t speak for the other guys in attendance but Nancy never asked me for money. In my opinion, she was clearly there for fun and to meet guys who appreciate she-males which I thought was the true spirit of the event. She claims she never asked anyone for money and I’m inclined to believe her.

However there are other ladies who have propositioned me. Some of these ladies attend the spa event often. There was one in attendance that night who has propositioned me then and in the past yet she seems to be always welcome in the spa.

There are only three possibilities which I can think of:

1. Nancy comes to this event and “gives it up” for free which is cutting into the other ladies’ business and they complained about her.

2. Nancy is really escorting but for some reason does me for free. In this case, there is a double standard because some other ladies are escorting unabated.

3. There is some other spa rule that she broke. In which case, I’m curious to know what that is.

I suspect that it’s option #1. If that’s the case, then I think that’s a problem and it needs to be addressed on the board. Personally, I have no problem with the situation at the spa. To each their own. I understand that Amanda wants to discourage escorting and disassociate herself and the spa from it, if or when it does happen. Personally, I don’t want to get anyone in trouble. I’m not discussing things here that Amanda hasn’t admitted herself.

I just wanted to know why she was turned away and I just don’t buy the, “cuz she was escorting,” explanation.

[jd1600]

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I will be in the area Boxing Day evening. Is that a good night to visit the Spa?

I'd love to meet some of the girls for a bit of chat.

The Spa runs on Tuesday nights dear (So we are not open on "Boxing Day Evening"). And yes we will be open on Tuesday, December 27th and every Tuesday unless it is specifially advertised that we are not open.
Amanda

Then I should try and be in the area on Tuesday I guess.

I think Samantha L asked in another thread "where are you from?" but I can't locate it at the moment. I'm from the Southern States and hope to visit the Spa the 27th. I'd love to meet all the girls there.

[ShelbyWylde]

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Thanx Amanda for addressing this.

I just wanted to know why she was turned away.

Amanda can obviously speak for herself, but my impression is this matter certainly should have been dealt with in private messages.

[Shemale Amanda]

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Thanx Amanda for addressing this.

I’m familiar with the rules of the spa referred to in previous posts, specifically in regard to asking for or offering money for sex. 

I can’t speak for the other guys in attendance but Nancy never asked me for money.  In my opinion, she was clearly there for fun and to meet guys who appreciate she-males which I thought was the true spirit of the event.  She claims she never asked anyone for money and I’m inclined to believe her. 

However there are other ladies who have propositioned me.  Some of these ladies attend the spa event often.  There was one in attendance that night who has propositioned me then and in the past yet she seems to be always welcome in the spa. 

There are only three possibilities which I can think of:

1.  Nancy comes to this event and “gives it up” for free which is cutting into the other ladies’ business and they complained about her.

2.  Nancy is really escorting but for some reason does me for free.  In this case, there is a double standard because some other ladies are escorting unabated. 

3.  There is some other spa rule that she broke.  In which case, I’m curious to know what that is. 

I suspect that it’s option #1.  If that’s the case, then I think that’s a problem and it needs to be addressed on the board.  Personally, I have no problem with the situation at the spa.  To each their own.  I understand that Amanda wants to discourage escorting and disassociate herself and the spa from it, if or when it does happen.  Personally, I don’t want to get anyone in trouble.  I’m not discussing things here that Amanda hasn’t admitted herself. 

I just wanted to know why she was turned away and I just don’t buy the, “cuz she was escorting,” explanation.     

"Thanx Amanda for addressing this."

You are Welcome.

[Tasha Jones RIP]

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O.k. is it just me or does Chaude Lapin sound alittle bitter & seems to want to start something here? Why are you doing this in an open forum? The things you are saying are really losing meaning by dealing with them in a public forum. Amanda did answer what you asked and really to be honest should “Nancy” not be dealing with this herself?

For your information, I am one of the trannys who is at this event most weeks. I am also very well known to not charge for my time and to have my fun with a number of men in one night. I can tell you, the other girls have no problems with me being at this event and not charging. Since Amanda has made things so clear they are see though, this is not a whore house so your reason for us girls not wanting her there is unfounded & untrue. We all know the rules “you ask for money you are asked to leave”

I can tell you this; she is just as pushy as you are being right now. She was also there to work. I know this because she not only asked for money right in front of me but I have very good relationships with most of the guys and they do get upset when a girl asks for money. So you maybe the “one guy” that she did not ask, but there were at least 5 that she did and she was not hiding what she was doing in front of us girls, in fact in one case that I spoke of she tried to pull the guy I was talking to aside to ask him. This is how I heard her ask for money and why I called her pushy.

You seem to want to make more out of this then there is, this makes me question your “realness” also, you only have 2 posts under your belt and both are about her not being able to go to the spa? Did you join this site just to help her? Why did you not do a review of your time at the spa, if she was so great you would think you would want to tell us about her? Also, you joined on December 07/2005 why wait almost 3 weeks to deal with this?

If you wish to answer my questions do so in a pm as I really think that this is something that anyone with any respect would deal with in a private manner. Unless you are looking to make this event and the girls who attend this event look bad.

Just my thoughts…

Tasha

[curious]

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hi yu, thanks Tasha & Amanda lve lve lve lve. These ladies and i emphasize the word ladies know what they are talking about, enough said, Curious

[daredevil1]

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How was this week's Spa night? Just curious to see how this week's went.