"I Sent This Text Msg To a Few Of My Friends & Just Wanted 2 Share It With U Guys"

[Barbie_Swallows]

"I Sent This Text Msg To a Few Of My Friends & Just Wanted 2 Share It With U Guys"

Are u aware that the majority of gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transgendered people are ashamed of who they really are and are in the closet about it and are not proud at all ? They hide it and are very discrete and private, and whenever they see u in the gay community, it's all lovley dovley, but as soon as u caught them off guard in the straight world, with there friends, co-workers, family or even alone, they completley ignore u with embarresment and acts of homophobia/transphobia and pretend they don't know who u are.

Alot more so if u are a flamboyant visible gay/les/trans person. It's the year 2011 now and people are still very uptight and conservitive and very uncomfortable being open about there true status of there gender and sexuality. Sad but true, but thank god, i'm not like most people, cause i'm proud of being a shemale (even know i've tricked a few guys in the past, but that was more for fun, and to see how far i can go with a pure 100% straight guy, and so far i went third base, kissing, oral & anal, lol)

Anyways, like i said i'm proud of being a transsexual, and don't give a fuck what anyone thinks and enjoy talking openly in public of who i really am, which causes others with signs of insecurity and try to hush me and sometimes show jealousy cause they don't got the courage to be themseleves and open like me, but rather live there lives in private worried everyone will dislike them for who they really are. Unfortuantly most undercover faggots live a double life, trying to please society and straight people that dosen't give a shit. Love me or hate me, urs truly...

B@rbie Swallows
www.BarbieSwallows.com

[huge99999]

I love you B@rbie and glad to see you are still posting. You always have something interesting and/or fun to say...Thanks.

[ThisCharmingMan]

Yeah, you go girl. Hopefully you got more of a response from your offline friends.

I dont have many, if any, shy or closetted friends nowadays but they were activists from as far back as high school and chose careers where they could be themselves for the most part. I have known two people who were on the downlow and the secrecy caused them a lot of pain. They would act as you describe. They felt like they had to choose between their culture or their sexual identity but were adamant they could not fully participate in both. I felt for them a lot. I dont know whatever became of them. Hope they're cool.

Btw, i love the sparkly gun in your photos. It's totally you.

[sensual_lover20]

You continue to state the obvious repeatedly in every thread. You are right, happy now? As you said, be proud of yourself and deal with reality. In life, you play with the cards you are dealt.

[ThisCharmingMan]

Who was that addressed to?

[bleh123]

It's not a matter of self hate or shame as you like to say, it's a matter of convenience. Most people that like TG's are not flaming homosexuals who go to the bar talking about hair care products and are openly flamboyant. They're just open minded guys with a very misunderstood fetish. I'm a normal guy and don't need everyone in my life questioning the core of my personality. Until the prevailing mindset of society as a whole migrates to having an understanding of TG stuff, you're always going to suddenly be different and have to deal with a ton of shit from family, coworkers, and other people that you can't just 'cut off'. As of now if your average joe blow finds out you're into t-girls, you are instantly lumped in with the entire gay community and all it's bullshit, you're now a 'fag' and have all the connotations of it. Who needs that? I mean yeah if I was dating a t-girl in a real relationship, then it's just going to have to be dealt with and I would take on the burden and not give a shit, because It'd be worth it. But deal with all the bullshit when all I do is hire an escort every so often? Most 'normal' people don't want their colleagues, family, and friends even knowing that they hire prostitutes period, let alone transsexual ones. There's simply no reason to go there, so yeah guys are discreet and you need to get over it. Until it's widely viewed as a 'deviant but straight' activity, few people are going to want to be associated with it. Continually bitching about it on the internet isn't going to make your life any better. You should work on toning yourself down a bit and working on a more passable image if you want to fit in more and get more 'normal' behavior from guys you run into.

[Rockheart]

Who was that addressed to?

Not you i don't think,
he is just saying her commentary this is not a flashing newsbreak around here.