What is a Transsexual ?

[youngboy4ts]

Re: What is a Transsexual ?

wow the age old question what is a transexual.transexualism comes in all forms and all shapes and sizes.its impossable for anyone to say who is and who isnt.it is an umbrella term for sure but like everything else in life do we all really wanna be painted with the same brush i dont think so.iknow some girls who have never even seen a horomone who live fulltime as girls does that make them a trannie well i had that arguement a couple of weeks ago with a friend .then i would have said no but i was wrong now i just think there smarter then me because there not killing themselves because of the deadly effects the mones are causing.the truth is only each individual knows who they are inside and really who the hell are we to judge them.we all have a plan an agenda to reach our destiny.as for me well i knew i was a girl from the time i was alittle child but for one reason or another things always got in my way it wasnt till i reached 40 that my bell went off and i knew it was now or never so i went to my doc went on mones and followed a plan that my chilldren and family and myself could follow.17 months later everything changed and evolved into the person who i always knew i was now the outside coulld finnally match the inside does it make me a trannie in everyones eyes no but like i always say im just a girl thats who iam

hi yu there some questions i would like to ask. answer them if you want.first of all, none of the questions are critisism, i happen to believe you are an extremely brave human being. when you first changed you took hormones, then you want breast to make you look like who, yourself or is there someone else you want to look like or is it you feel you will be more feminin or attractive to the males. do yu intend to go all the way and remove your penis. i do know you have a lot of passion in you , to get the understanding of your children and family is pritty amazing, again the questions are not meant to pick at you, just for myself to understand, even though i have never sean you i have allways found you very attractive especially when you look soft only because i find firm and soft together very attractive. i hope i havent affended you in anyway. your friend . the Curious one

np babe but damn where do i start first question why did i take the mones.well i listened to my doctor she listened to me and together we made a plan and a time table.the first time i went to see my new doctor i was still working as a service advisor.few people new what was going  on in my head and at that point i wasnt really sure myself i only knew my bell went off and it was my time.so i stayed at my job for the next 3 months while i started my transition.the mones plucking my eye brows slowely making the outside change but everyone noticed and i got teased mersifully even one of the regulars that rought there car in all the time notice and brought me in a purse an left it on my desk.wow was that embarracing i laughed it off but everyone knew i was really crying inside and wasnt ready to let my secret out.but then on a monday afternoon i got called into the office and was told that it was time to part ways and that devasted me.i was making 71 thousand a year and a demo and then it was gone.all my years of training gone out the window.for the record i was the 2nd highest csi rating in my regeon whitch spanned from london to toronto to kitchener to the falls csi stands for customer service index by the way.so ya my life went down hill for a very long time so with an uncertain future i desided i was going through with my transition come hell or high water.honesty when i was younger i dont think i could have made it but now at age 43 i look back and i know i did it my way; when i was ready and nobody was going to tell me when.as for the 2nd question why do i want breast' to be honest because in my mind it will complete me and for the record boobs dont make the girl its the mind body and soul together that makes who you are.if you dont have a strong mind it will kill you trust me on that;there isnt alot of glory being a trannie and changing the outside froma boy to a girl is the hardest thing anyone can do beleive me when i tell you that.i know im very rare not being a trannie but being a trannie who lays it out on the line for everyone to see and read thats what seperates me from the rest;i see no shame im who i am and especially who i was.i dont think im better then anyone else far from it but i know communication is everything and selling yourself is something you automatically do every day without even knowing it.k now back on track is there someone else i wanna look like yes and no id love to look good and i know ive came such a long way from when i first started 17 months ago from the shemale yum shoot to now is quite the change but my journey isnt over yet its really just the beginning.do i intend on losing my penis not likely so i hope i answered your questions and yes you are my friend as well for a very long time and always will be

I have respected all of your girls life style because I know u all girl have endured a lot of pain and derision over gender issues, and have spent a lot of money trying to correct a mistake by nature.
good luck lisa..



respect...

[curious]

Re: What is a Transsexual ?

hio yu run for mayer you would be the smartest and best looking Curious

[markerverse]

Re: What is a Transsexual ?

You commenced this thread back in February 2006, Shelby. I'm just now attempting to add some influence to the variety of complexities any response must consider . The question weighing heavily on the minds of 'women of the third gender' - In the balance of probabilities would I have entered the lifestyle or style of life, as the case may be, in the 18th century as quickly as today Sexual proclivity is much more diverse since the onset of our now liberally permissive society. The taboos of the past , especially surrounding sex ,have all but disappeared.
Mind you our new found freedoms come with a high price. HIV is a deadly and glaring example. I'm digressing.

A person who identifies strongly with the opposite sex is defined as a transsexual.( Man to woman or women to man) We could leave it there but the question is prefaced with "What is a Transsexual."? Psychologists and other professional expertise are divided on the question. The escape syndrome or over identification is held by many, while others advance the theory it's a 'functional unit of inheritance controlling the transmission and expression'. Both viewpoints, however, suggest the individual wishing to exercise a life style consistent with the gender of birth, is not prevented from doing so even though they may exhibit opposite sex traits.

Perhaps the above is an over simplification of an answer or a great distance from accuracy. But its mine and I accept responsibility for it.
Why do a segment of straight (?) males pursue , with vigor I might add , sexual gratification with a TS girl and/or a female ??

Thanks for making the brain work a little harder, Shelby.

[Madame Xual]

Re: What is a Transsexual ?

Myself I have always perceived Transexuals as persons with the deisre to change ones sexual identity..Sexual identity not to be confused with Gender Identity..Sexual Identity is defined as the sexual organs one is given at birth ie penis or vagina or in some cases both....Gender identity is defined more in as what role to which this sexual identity takes on...Hence we get transgendered women/shemales/tv/cd..The sexual identity does not match there gender identity..They are not the same to me...The majority of Shemales TV CD TG have no deisre to change there sexual organs but feel the need to change the gender under which they were classified....Being a TS isnt all about long hair hormones etc etc but that is a huge part in such a transition...Breasts do not define a woman as such but a vagina does...Traditonally anyway...SRS will never make women..Ever..It will more closeley match the sexual identity with the gender identity but no person as of yet can change basic genetic structure..TG TS CD TV women will never give birth,menstruate or go through other changes such as genetic females do but with SRS TG women change in TS women....

Thats just the way I see it based on what I have read in psych classes over the years and based on what I have lived in my years as a TG soon to be TS woman...

But truth of the matter everyone see's this differently and many do not beleive in psycho babble the way I do soo theres many more arguements about this whole topic yest to be had..

The worst people to ask on this topic is actually a good majority of TG TS etc etc women
Im soo shocked how delusional some are....I've heard over and over again about the miraculous benefits or HRT in TG women but the good majority of doctors will tell you HRT will do little if anything in many TG women..These little pink pills or whatever colour they may be are not "women in a Bottle pils" They do not miraculousley make you female...They are a small step along the way but the biggest step must be inbred in you...You do not learn to become a woman..You are..You do not take a pill to become a woman,You are.
Ive heard TG women going on about not being as strong as they once were due to hormones..Thats pure BS..if you dont use muscles you will lose them..Some get soo caught up in there"womaness" that they act overly delicate and dainty and over femme to compensate for what they perceive to be there masculine side...ie stockings garters short skirts high heels 24/7...Ok ok Im getting on a tangent here

But my point there is alot of arguements on what makes a TS TG TV CD woman
is It a Little Pink Pill?
Long Hair?
Large Breasts?
PeniS?
No Penis?

you will never get a conclusive answer from most in this forum on this..As men generally dont have a clue and are caught up in the TS myth portrayed in Porn etc etc and tooo many TG TS etc etc women have not a clue where they are or where they fit in

Just the way I see it..If I offended anyone great that just means if I did i hope to see intelligent responses defending themselves or others...
JMO is all