Too interested in cock??

[Hotbott]

Re: Too interested in cock??

A real interesting question Madison.... and one that I don't think you'll ever get a straight answer to (no pun intended). I agree with you that a lot of the guys here have their focus on the "extra" package and not the looks, breasts, femininity and personality that they're saying is the attraction. I personally think that a lot of T-girl lovers do simply love cock but are afraid of or repulsed by societies traditional label of being gay and therefore think they're safe from the label if the cock is attached to a hot girl. As for me, well I enjoy being fucked or sucking a hot guy or hot T-girl but also enjoy sex with GG's. The only strange thing I find with me is that I tend to be a submissive bottom for guys but very versatile with T-girls - don't know why?.... and if I had to choose I would pick a T-girl over a guy or GG anyday, not just for the sex but the whole package, personality and everything that goes with it. So what does this make me... gay? bi? certainly not straight!!! Fact is there's too much preoccupation with labels in todays society and I say do what (or who) feels good to you regardless or gender or labels.

[themaxx]

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Honestly, if you have to start inventing reasons not to feel "gay" is when you've let someone else take away your right to good sex. Personally, I love the role-reversal in seeing a hot woman penetrate a man (as well, I like to watch a GG with a strapon using it on a man) but I feel that it simply looks and "feels" better and more natural when a t-girl does it. With a woman, it sometimes becomes a mechanical performance, whilst with a t-girl the pleasure is shared.

Then again, I'm a sub through and through, and role reversal and being dominated is something I enjoy. Denying yourself an experience because of fear would be a terrible thing.

J

If ur into TGIRLS you're gay. Period. It's just a matter of your degree of gayness. I agree with Jigaboo's post that it's better to learn to accept the situation and not deprive yourself of a very good thing.

Madison, I believe that most guys on this forum (and in your professional life experience) lay emphasis on the size of the cock because afterall most are paying for some type of service to be with a TGIRL. It's just a matter of the most bang for the buck.

I also believe that opportunities to genuinely meet a transgendered and to be able to clik on a personal level is extremely rare these days and usually happens by accident. The thing I'm saying is that if your personal experiences are with men that focus solely on the size and not the more important stuff, then I feel you unfortunately have been meeting the wrong type of guy.

B

[boblovescock]

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Hey Madison, shemales that look like women are the most of what guys want. Unless your gay, then you'll take anything you can get. What I'm trying to say is that I guy like me, for example, wants nothing to do with a ugly shemale or transsexual. I love women, but I also admirer shemale's that look like women 100%. I don't ever want to be topped, but licking the candy pole is just like licking the kitty box, although it just doesn't have that seafood after taste to it. I go through tons of shemale sites looking for the hottest trannies that look like women. You my friend, are in my top ten list!!! There's something about you that catches my eye!!! Everyone will agree that you ,Madison, You just rock!  lve  P.S. Excellent post by the way.

[oralboy]

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I don't think this is any different than guys talking about the size of a woman's tits, except with tits it's quite obvious how big they are and what they look like, so the questions about size and shape aren't needed (but often still happen anyway). Guys are very visual, and we do focus on specific aspects of a woman's anatomy all the time - tits, ass, legs, whatever. Why should cocks be any different for t-girl lovers?

And to the maxx, if you want to consider yourself gay, that's fine with me, but I know I'm not gay. I'm not attracted to men at all, but I'm very attracted to women, both GGs and TGs. To me, homosexuality is a love of the male form and all its parts, not just one of them. It also indicates a preference for male companionship in the context of an emotional relationship, and that doesn't work for me either.

[themaxx]

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I don't think this is any different than guys talking about the size of a woman's tits, except with tits it's quite obvious how big they are and what they look like, so the questions about size and shape aren't needed (but often still happen anyway). Guys are very visual, and we do focus on specific aspects of a woman's anatomy all the time - tits, ass, legs, whatever. Why should cocks be any different for t-girl lovers?

And to the maxx, if you want to consider yourself gay, that's fine with me, but I know I'm not gay. I'm not attracted to men at all, but I'm very attracted to women, both GGs and TGs. To me, homosexuality is a love of the male form and all its parts, not just one of them. It also indicates a preference for male companionship in the context of an emotional relationship, and that doesn't work for me either.

...we need to make a distinction here between sex and gender. there is implication that a relationship between a transexual person and a person of the same sex would been seen as heterosexual because of that person's transexual gender identity. although you may see this a heterosexual, the very fact that both parties are of the same sex does make it homosexual by lexical definition.

in hindsight my referring to gayness may not have been best suited to describe as it typically applies to homosexual males in the sense. as such i do not consider myself gay (as i am not attracted to the male form) but do consider myself homosexual.

i think the important thing here, argument aside, is for one to feel comfortable with their life choices.

tx for ur comments.

B.

[youngboy4ts]

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Through many conversations I've come to conclude that most true tranny lovers/admirers tend to have an affinity for women , I'll repeat that WOMEN, who just happen to have have 'something extra'.

Ok, so I know you can't stick everyone in the same bucket... but here's a question:

When a guy is just a little too into cock  (see some prior posts where tool size and the actual tool seems to supercede the woman's appearance behind it) Does this just means he's just gay and into cocks?  You all know what I mean:  when it seems like the only important thing is the cock. 

Discuss.  I'm curious about this one.  As interesting as it is to categorize us girls, I'd like to start understanding how people on the admiring end tick.

its depend oN what they LOOking 4? 


  mY question is>>> does size matter to U ?

[flick]

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The issue for me is not whether she has a big cock or can squirt a bucket load, rather, she has to have a definite sex appeal about her.  Looks, attitude, demeanor far outweigh the criteria of a huge schlong.  In fact, if there is the right chemistry between us, she can be a TV and I'll still do her, of course she'll have to look and smell 95% woman, the other 5% is for the suprise underneath her skirt 

Does this make me gay?  Even though I have no interest in banging men or would look at other men?  I have come to terms to accept the fact that this is who I am and admire the courage of the girls that fuels the fire for this fetish of mine.

As for Madison, her pics can make me cream my pants even without her being nude. 

[curious]

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hi yu flick you are so right on Curious

[super_dave]

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What if you're not turned on at all by the cock? I mean, I find tgirls to be quite the turn on, but I have no attraction to their cocks, have no urge to suck a cock or be bottomed, ever. Something about the hyper-femininity of ts' just turns me on, like pornstars+++, I can't really explain it

[boblovescock]

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Madison, what I think everyone is trying to say is that we all have a FETISH! If your gay then you like boys, on the other hand, if your straight and like ladymen, then you have a fetish. That's what I think most of us on this site think. Everyone, correct me if I'm wrong, but I myself don't like men. But my preference on Ladymen has to be 100% female look-a-like! Wheeew.

[Salvador]

My attraction to a woman like say. . . . Tia ?

I was born this way. It's not a choice.

I don't go out on hunting expeditions trying to fulfill the needs of my sexual orientation. If it happens it happens. But having this particular orientation means it's not likely to ever happen.

Them's is the breaks eh ?

[sensual_lover20]

Some guys like a girl with a big tits, some a big ass, some a big dick. How is one too say that one is more wrong, or more gay than the other. We all like the women stature. At the end of the day I like smooth skin and you like a big dick, same difference, move on!

[sensual_lover20]

its depend oN what they LOOking 4??*


?* mY question is>>> does size matter to U ?

Good to see your still around my friend.

[Tantin12]

Like it big?

I first got into shemales because I have a fetish for big cock. I wanted to see one. I wanted to suck one. Not just big, huge. So for me the cock is very important. When picking a shemale, ugly and a little masculine with a huge cock is preferable over feminine and pretty with a little cock. But...

I don't like men. I could never suck a cock on a man. I am completely turned off by men. So a shemale that isn't feminine at all, would not work for me.

I have never been topped, and have only topped one shemale. I don't have any interest in topping because anal sex isn't a turn on for me. Am I gay? If some one asked, I would say "no". Yet how can I say no if I want to see and suck cocks?

I love females. I am extremely attracted to women. I think that is why I am only able to suck the cock of a shemale. I also prefer to suck the cock of a dominant female where I feel like I am being forced to suck it.

Where the desires and fetishes come from for each person is hard to determine and very different for every individual.

[sas3443]

Gender and Sexuality are two different things. As for sexuality, you like T girls because they are sexy and feminine. If you were gay you would be attracted to masculine men.

As for gender that really doesn't matter does it? .. the cock just makes things more fun in my opinion. I still like pussy too ... sometimes I think I'm just kinky and over sexed.