Christmas conundrum

[lodi225]

Most of the male members on this forum regard themselves as straight but with an attraction for Tgirls as well as genetic
females. I myself became attracted to Tgirls many years ago, long before the internet at age 14. In those days there was little
outlet for this attraction and all my significant relationships have been with genetic women until recently. Over the past ten
years or so my attraction to Tgirls has increased to the point where I now regard myself as being primarily attracted to Tgirls. I still find women (some at any rate) attractive but nothing pushes my buttons more than a Tgirl. It is not just the genital aspect of Tgirls but the whole package - personality, intelligence, how they relate to men, their sexuality?.. I've never met a Tgirl I
didn't like. Sadly, I cannot say the same about genetic women.

So here is my question: Imagine a perfect Christmas day and Santa has brought you two delightful people to play with. You are equally attracted to both of them in every aspect. One is a genetic female and the other a Tgirl. Who would you choose to
spend your time with?

[toban]

I see no conundrum

Most of the male members on this forum regard themselves as straight but with an attraction for Tgirls as well as genetic
females. I myself became attracted to Tgirls many years ago, long before the internet at age 14. In those days there was little
outlet for this attraction and all my significant relationships have been with genetic women until recently. Over the past ten
years or so my attraction to Tgirls has increased to the point where I now regard myself as being primarily attracted to Tgirls. I still find women (some at any rate) attractive but nothing pushes my buttons more than a Tgirl. It is not just the genital aspect of Tgirls but the whole package - personality, intelligence, how they relate to men, their sexuality….. I've never met a Tgirl I
didn't like. Sadly, I cannot say the same about genetic women.

So here is my question: Imagine a perfect Christmas day and Santa has brought you two delightful people to play with. You are equally attracted to both of them in every aspect. One is a genetic female and the other a Tgirl. Who would you choose to
spend your time with?

Lodi, 'tis a joyous time of the year, the season where we are encouraged to share love, kindness and happiness with all!

So, if you were to choose one girl to play with over the other, the one that has been left out would be left feeling forlorn and dejected. That would be a particularly distressing situation to be responsible for causing at any time, but would be particularly unfortunate at this time of the year.

The solution then, is obvious Lodi! - You must play with them both lest one be left, dejected and lonely on Christmas day! Santa would be very pleased with compassion you had shown.

[lodi225]

An eminently sensible, though if you don't mind my saying so somewhat predictable solution Mr. Toban. The problem is that no gift comes without conditions. Santa, being of the Christian persuasion, is a strong believer in family values and as such does not believe in threesomes, or indeed serial pleasure. He feels so strongly about this that he has made monogamy a condition of his gift. Try again Mr. Toban!

[Rockheart]

I wouldn't be able to decide until I met them.
Just because they are one sex or another is not the most important.
It is the "person" i am most attracted to.

[toban]

Yes, you really are facing a conundrum!

An eminently sensible, though if you don't mind my saying so somewhat predictable solution Mr. Toban. The problem is that no gift comes without conditions. Santa, being of the Christian persuasion, is a strong believer in family values and as such does not believe in threesomes, or indeed serial pleasure. He feels so strongly about this that he has made monogamy a condition of his gift. Try again Mr. Toban!

Oh oh! You really do have a situation there. I feel so sorry for you.

Santa seldom gives gifts with conditions that strict! What have you done to deserve such harsh treatment by Santa this year?

Now, I have heard that Santa must stop in Toronto to add one yourof the gifts to his sleigh, (and a mighty fine package that would be to unwrap). While you are going to have these two delightful gifts at hand this year, my half-hearted advice would be that you play for real with the one that you know will be the one you are most likely to end up being with over the long term.

I realize that re-gifting is usually thought of as being kind of tacky, but if you'd be willing to re-gift that sweet little package you're expecting from Toronto, I'd love to have Santa drop her off here so as to relieve you of the many potential troubles you're surely going to face if you try playing with both.

[lodi225]

Oh oh! You really do have a situation there. I feel so sorry for you.

Santa seldom gives gifts with conditions that strict! What have you done to deserve such harsh treatment by Santa this year?

Now, I have heard that Santa must stop in Toronto to add one yourof the gifts to his sleigh, (and a mighty fine package that would be to unwrap). While you are going to have these two delightful gifts at hand this year, my half-hearted advice would be that you play for real with the one that you know will be the one you are most likely to end up being with over the long term.

I realize that re-gifting is usually thought of as being kind of tacky, but if you'd be willing to re-gift that sweet little package you're expecting from Toronto, I'd love to have Santa drop her off here so as to relieve you of the many potential troubles you're surely going to face if you try playing with both.

I thank you for your sympathy Mr. Toban. The conundrum is not mine fortunately, as there will be only one present for me this year and as you point out it is a very nice present indeed. So my conundrum is not who, if or when but rather how often. As far as re-gifting is concerned: the gift is not mine to dispose of, the lady in question makes up her own mind in these matters as she should. But she is sweet and lovely and I will put in a good word for you. Merry Christmas!

[toban]

Thanks, but I'll need more than a good word.

I thank you for your sympathy Mr. Toban. The conundrum is not mine fortunately, as there will be only one present for me this year and as you point out it is a very nice present indeed. So my conundrum is not who, if or when but rather how often. As far as re-gifting is concerned: the gift is not mine to dispose of, the lady in question makes up her own mind in these matters as she should. But she is sweet and lovely and I will put in a good word for you. Merry Christmas!

Damn, here I thought you were referring to your own personal conundrum. Apparently I didn't read your original post quite carefully enough.

You lucky son of a gun you!

If she's still in a travelling mood I'm only about three hundred clicks down the road from you!

[mranonymousjoe10]

I honestly don't know what I'd do.