New and Nervous as hell

[braxe009]

Hi everyone how are you? Well im new to this site and have taken a look around and well im excited and freaked out. I have been interested in T-Girls for 2 years but im freaked out well not freaked out more like nervous as fuck on how to go about this. Like I see the adds and profiles and there are some drop dead gorgeous women out there and everytime I want to to message one I back down because I get self conscious about my looks and body that I dont go through with it. Like am a bigger guy, 23 and still a virgin on all accounts and When I think about that I feel like Ijust cant go through with it or ill be judged any advice for someone like me? Like I know exactly what its just gettinth the courage to go for it.

[Dita Dior]

Sweetheart don't fret. Everyone takes their own time with coming to see a service provider. Even if a person has seen a genetic girl service provider they still don't know what to expect from transsexual service provider since we are a rarity but at the same time very exotic the other persons point of view.

Looking is great, you got that one to check of the list. But just pick up the phone but choose the right girl, some girls are made to help you along your journey for the first time and some aren't. You have to realise that some girls aren't made to make every colour of the rainbow happy, if you know what I mean.

Say you were to call me this is what I would tell you. "

1. Don't be nerovous and just feel free because you know you can be at ease with me.
2. I tell you a little about myself description wise, what my service entails and rate.
3. Then I ask for your limitations, and kind of help you towards what's best for you from how I gather you feel.

"
If you have questions dont be scared to ask the girl if she is a good provider she will be able to tell you all your questions answers via that phone call.

As for myself my service differs from others, and as for alot of things since we are all unique and different. I just like to get to know the person a little before anything not too much detail just a little to know about you but the majority of you learning about me (I have no problem talking) just becuase it takes 2 to tango/2 to make one. And if there is no communication then what the hell to you have needlesss to say.

You just have to go with the flow and know what time is right for you. It may take you a couple more years who knows. Just follow your dreams, smile and live your life to no regrets because baby you just have one and why regret something in the end.

Hope your search for the girl for you becomes a success and hopefully everything I said helps.

[braxe009]

What about looks as the client? And if I got up the courage what should I do to prepare for a very first encounter?

[Dita Dior]

What about looks as the client? And if I got up the courage what should I do to prepare for a very first encounter?

Looks don't matter as long as your showered/clean, friendly and respectful then it doesn't matter to me.
I'm here to make you happy not myself. If I'm happy at the same time then that's a bonus. But I like to say that as long as your happy I'm happy. Becuase when I see a smile on your face then I know I did a good job.

Well if your preparing for first encounter call the girl, prebook or book the appointment. Then go get cleaned up if your looking for the girl to top you then prepare yourself a enemia (dooche your ass) and if your looking to top a girl then just get cleaned up for your comfort and hers. And then just come at the time period and that take it as it goes.

It's kind of like riding a bycicle lol i know how cleechie but it's true. It's common sence and it should come to you instantly.

I find majority of people they say they are nervous they last two minutes in the room with me at start and it all runs away (being nervous that is).

[braxe009]

Thanks for all the advice. But I have to say after listening to the video you posted and reading your posts I have a big smile on my face but at the same time my nervousness has gone up a little bit dont know why buy i know it will pass. But thank you ^^.

[Dita Dior]

Thanks for all the advice. But I have to say after listening to the video you posted and reading your posts I have a big smile on my face but at the same time my nervousness has gone up a little bit dont know why buy i know it will pass. But thank you ^^.

Take your time its something you have to do it's finding yourself.
Same as anyone. We all have a different way in our quest to finding what we want.
Hopefully it all helped and don't be more nervous just remember pick the right girl because some girls won't give you that first time you are wanting.
You want your dreams and fantasies to come true, some girls cannot provide those special memories.

[braxe009]

do you know a good place for me to start my search im in Edmonton

[Dita Dior]

do you know a good place for me to start my search im in Edmonton

that i dont know since im not from the area.
i would suggest sunshine when she travels there, she is one of the best.
i will also be in edmoton in the summer.

[toban]

do you know a good place for me to start my search im in Edmonton

If you are not already aware of Shemale Canada this could be an excellent place for you to start your search. http://www.shemalealberta.com/index.php Read the ads very carefully and if you need more information than is provided in an ad, call her and ask for clarification.

When you find a girl(s) that you think might be of interest then check the Review Section here on Tgirlforums. The link for reviews is at the top right of the Official Review Section. Type her name in the box and select "threads" to see if there is any information there that others may have posted about her.

Don't be overly concerned about what you feel she might think about your physical appearance. This more like a business transaction, not like you are trying to set up a romantic date. Of course you are going to be well prepared, everything cleaned and polished as Dita has already mentioned. On arrival you are going to provide her with a pre-determined donation, and in return, she is going to provide some very enjoyable personal service for your pleasure.

Don't be intimidated - the "first time" was big event for every one of us and most have had some trepidation about setting up that meeting. Be sure to let whoever you see that you are a newcomer and you'll likely be better served.

Just do it!

You'll soon be back for seconds!

[bleh123]

Like Toban said, check the reviews and go for a girl that gets outstanding marks in personality, friendliness and charm. Skip the drop dead gorgeous hotties that get negative reviews on the personality/professionalism end. Definitely skip the ones that want to see a picture or list age restrictions or anything like that if you're overly self conscious, because they are probably picky. You will be nervous etc but if you pick a great girl, which there are plenty of out there, you will be quickly put at ease once you get there. They will be sweet and wonderful and take the initiative to make you comfortable and turned on. Spend the extra money to get either a 2 hour or GFE if you want the best experience. My first time i was a bit nervous as well, but i picked a girl that was more mature and had phenomenal reviews about personality etc, and the ice was broken pretty much immediately, and any nervous thoughts were replaced with pure passion and lust right away. Remember these girls are professionals, you don't have to worry about impressing them or saying the right things, you just need to be clean, well groomed, and well mannered, and they will do the rest. They are experienced and skilled and know all the right things to say and do, and you'll break out of your shell pretty quick and just enjoy a wonderful experience. The only thing you need to worry about is becoming addicted.