Are you just a gay and just in denial?

[00Toni]

I like to get fucked hard in my ass as most of the people on this site enjoy.Only recently I decided to take the plunge from having a shemale behind me to a male escort. After 2 minutes I was hard as a rock and had him reach around and finish me off while he was in me. It was an exciting experience as he entered me first very softly and gently then fast and hard.I love how his balls squished inbetween my ass. While some of us in this community like to state that we are not gay and like very feminine looking guys. We would not like them if they didn't have big dicks and could not fuck us in our ass while holding our waist from behind and treating us like women. It feels like a great weight has been lifted of my shoulders and I hold no grudge against my conscious for proclaiming my coming out.

Now what do I tell the wife? She has used the word "fag" on numorus occasions when reffering to certain people in the downtown area. While she is a fun and playful spirit I worry her choice of words for humor show a side of her that may not be so accommodating.

[696969]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

I applaude you for your courage to start a rather serious discussion. Personally speaking I won't be able to
experience what you did with a male escort, it is not just the same. I know it sounds hypocritical but
the soft, smooth skin of "femenine guy" as you call them is much more pleasant and erotic, and satisfies my
fetish than getting it from a male escort. Perhaps I feel more of a dominant side of me than the submissive.
What ever turns you on as long as it doesn't harm anyone, is your choice and the people around you should
come to terms with it and respect your choice. Furthermore your sexuality is not by what is or not between
your legs but rather between your ears, most of the shemales that I've encountered are definitely more
female than male. I've asked the same question to myself many times and even started surfing the gay web sites
but it just doesn't have the same effect as going through the shemale web sites. who knows as no one can
predict the future, maybe one day I'll try it for myself to find out.Wish you the best of luck. Enjoy your life!

[delc]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

I feel sorry for you Tony.You have taken the plunge on the wrong side...in fact a majority of us here see the shemales as 'gals' and treat them so...the thing being we love women's bodies,and of course the look of our own cocks....how about one with both?? It is more of fetish fun...and in my case I have never had a girl holding my waist and can't imagine getting myself getting into that...and the only reason im into this shemale thing is because im single,not been in a serious relationship for quite a while...Hope to completely get out of the shemale world once I find the lady of my dreams.
I have actually noticed that the guys who describe themselves as bisexual are not purely 50-50 male/female,but tend to lean more towards men,like 70% and in a few years end up being 100% gay.This is confirmed by your experience...I am sure you will never look back towards females or shemales...

[00Toni]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

I feel sorry for you Tony.You have taken the plunge on the wrong side...in fact a majority of us here see the shemales as 'gals' and treat them so...the thing being we love women's bodies,and of course the look of our own cocks....how about one with both?? It is more of fetish fun...and in my case I have never had a girl holding my waist and can't imagine getting myself getting into that...and the only reason im into this shemale thing is because im single,not been in a serious relationship for quite a while...Hope to completely get out of the shemale world once I find the lady of my dreams.
I have actually noticed that the guys who describe themselves as bisexual are not purely 50-50 male/female,but tend to lean more towards men,like 70% and in a few years end up being 100% gay.This is confirmed by your experience...I am sure you will never look back towards females or shemales...

Where did you get these statistics delc, were they from the lastest study? The majority of us on here do enjoy shemales as women and do like to bottom. If your statistics were correct they would show that the majority of us "shemale lovers" love to get fucked slow and deep or hard and fast by these "femenine guys". This is a simple concept and you can find this evidence on any shemale mesage board in the world. Have you ever noticed how we praise pictures of very masculine looking shemales with big dicks on this website? Do we love them because they are shemales or do we really just love those big dicks. Would we want to be with them if they didn't have a big dick that we could caress and lick the cum off? Would we want to be with them if we couldn't slide their shaft into our asses and feel their balls slap up against our bodies? Why are most of us on this site? It can't be because of all the beauty because a large majority of them are far from beautiful.Delc we are here because we like big dick and the bigger the better.Evidence of that can be seen in any ad on the internet with measurements taken from the back of the balls in order to bid for the clients 8", 9",10"12!!!! As posted by you Delc you agree that shemales are not women and you can't wait to get out of this world to find the right lady.You are even so brave to give an excuse as to why you see shemales and that is because you are single.

Please do not feel sorry for me. I feel sorry for you as you were probaly one of those guys who thought the whole concept of liking shemales was a injustice to your manhood the first time you laid eyes on a chick with a dick. Do not feel sorry for me because you have not opened your mind and soul to what I experienced, yet. Thank you 696969 for the reply.

[Hotbott]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

Enough with the labels, gay, bi, straight (which, incidently delc certainly isn't!) who cares. I like being topped by a guy, TV or shemale and love topping shemales and GG's it's whatever turns you on. Maybe I'm pansexual.... but that's a label isn't it!

[00Toni]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

Enough with the labels

Hotbott, civil discussion doesn't have to hurt like a big dick without lube. Lets use our anonymity on the internet to express our feelings without guilt or hate towards each other

[Hotbott]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

My apologies if I caused offense I can assure you none was intended, I'll have to apply some lube to my scarcasm in future.... but I stand by my point. In my opinion too many t-girl lovers get their heckles up when someone suggests that they're gay because they like cock... albeit attached to a hot T-girl body. Whether you're gay, bi-sexual, straight or pansexual is a matter for you and not a label to be applied by someone on the outside looking in.... and you shouldn't really loose too much sleep over what other people think of you or label you as as long as you are comfortable with your own decisons in life.

[00Toni]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

Hotbott I got your drift in your first post no need for apologies

[Andrew69]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

Toni, I think if you have visited a male escort and enjoyed it, the kindess thing you can do for your wife is to leave her. I realize that sexuality is panoramic and Kinsey was correct in his assesment of human sexuality being a scale with totally gay on one side and totally straight on the other and a whole lotof grey in the middle. That said I doubt very much, if you enjoy having sex with men, that you can continue to have a full, open, honest and fulfilling life with your wife. Please note I am not judging you just probably voicing you what already know.

Personally I guess I am in the middle of the panorama. I enjoying being with a transsexual, I haven't and don't want to bottom. I also am very attracted to, date and sleep with regular woman. I am not attracted to men, no denial just fact. I am old enough that if I was attracted to men I would pursue it, I am too old and life is too short to lie to oneself. I am sure the guys who visit transsexuals fall in all areas of the Kinsey scale, for some I guess it is a door to their homosexuality, for others to their bisexuality, for others a fetish, and for others a woman with the sex drive of a man.

[Tony M]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

I dont think guys that like shemales are gay, even though some might be, and theres nothing wrong with that. Me, for example, i love women, i find sexy feminine looking tgirls attractive, and i have never been attracted to men. Im not in denial, as im on the internet and aninomous, but its the truth.

so whatever you are out there, just be happy, i know i have struggled with the fact that i like to look at shemale videos. well, not all of them, only the good looking ones, the ugly ones are a big turn-off, and quite frankly they disgust me. But ive gotten over it because its not something i do all the time, only when im bored. and ive come to terms with the fact that im not gay but rather its just a fetish for me. and if you dont believe me, i dont give a f**k.

I also appreciate beauty and some of these tgirls are just so friggen beautiful.

[crisis]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

Tgirls are attractive because they really want to be feminine, it's in their essence, their soul. I can appreciate those qualities that say this is me and how they desire to live their lives. I love those feminine qualities that tgirls so most want to possess. They love being women. I find that is what draws me to them. The one aspect that you get w/them is that they enjoy their sexual orientation. No confusion just the real deal. It takes a lot of courage to choose their way of life, so no bullshit, you know where you stand. The physical beauty of many of these ladies is amazing, but without their feminine essence they wouldn't be that appealing to me. In many ways you're assured that you're in fact with a women who desires to be feminine, not a confused GG trying to get everything that a man has. So what is it gay, bisexual, or straight? Why put a label on it? Labels just make it more difficult to accept others for who they really are. Let people be who they want to be.   

[youngboy4ts]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

I dont think guys that like shemales are gay, even though some might be, and theres nothing wrong with that. Me, for example, i love women, i find sexy feminine looking tgirls attractive, and i have never been attracted to men. Im not in denial, as im on the internet and aninomous, but its the truth.

so whatever you are out there, just be happy, i know i have struggled with the fact that i like to look at shemale videos. well, not all of them, only the good looking ones, the ugly ones are a big turn-off, and quite frankly they disgust me. But ive gotten over it because its not something i do all the time, only when im bored. and ive come to terms with the fact that im not gay but rather its just a fetish for me. and if you dont believe me, i dont give a f**k.

I also appreciate beauty and some of these tgirls are just so friggen beautiful.

guys we usually uncovers the fact that we were very attracted to the TS's femininity. Her look, her voice, her movement, her laugh, her smile, her scent, and all those other feminine cues that trigger interest and a masculine response from a guy. Gay guys are not attracted to those attributes.
Therefore, if a straight man finds himself interested in a pre-op transsexual andis experiencing some confusion as a result, then he needs to consider exactly what it is about her that is attracting him. If it's her femininity, then he's not responding like a gay man would, and thus shouldn't worry about whether he's "turning gay." If the guy can accept that he is attracted to a somewhat different kind of woman and still wants to pursue it, take it just one step at a time.
Take her out to dinner or a movie. Talk to her about whatever, listen to her words. Look into her eyes. Can he get lost in her eyes, as he can with a GG? Can he relax around her and just enjoy being with her, as if she were a GG? If so, take one more step. Hold hands, kiss her good-night. In other words, treat her like he would any GG date, at a pace that he can handle, given his concerns. Easy! hope this hints will help every one out ..





and now if othere think that we are bi or gay then what ever makes them happy but we know that we LIKE special girlsssssssssssssssssssss. thats all. we dont care what othere say. we live our life by our self. what ever we like it we just do that we dont care about otheres///


respect all..

[animuszaphodius]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

I don't need to define my sexuality as straight, gay or bi. I couldn't even if I wanted to. I'm not attracted to Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise or any other dudes but I like to suck a shemales cock and have fun with her. I like women just as much as any t-girl, probably more because t-girls rarely look as good in person as they do in their photos. I saw Kim once and that was a horrid experience for me. She looked like a fucking male bodybuilder, or a Polish woman, take your pick.

[sportsboy]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

Lets put it this way, a lot of tgirls are in fact much better looking than regular girls on average.

[just4you]

Re: Are you just a gay and just in denial?

Hey sportsboy...I second you on that...

Cheers