To All The Top Girls Out There I Dont Know How You Do It.

[Dita Dior]

To all of you girls who mostly top during your day of work, I dont know how you do it.

From being a bottom I used not understand what you all had to endour during a day but I have learned.
Since from the past week I have been topping almost as frequent as I have been bottoming and I have topped twice today and bottomed onced. Its painful! My dick wants to fall off or go inside out and never be used again, it cannot take it.

I want to give props to all of you out there becuase I finally learned that its not as easy as you all make it seem.

[sunshine]

Everybody is different

If you are a bottom, be a bottom! There is room for different specialties.

I'm strictly a top. Nobody is getting near my ass. I used to bottom but I have moved away from that. The way I see it is that clients like to experience being a bottom. If a guy wants to top, he can fuck his girlfriend. He doesn't need a shemale for that. Guys come to see me because they want to get fucked. That's what makes me different from a GG. I'm feminine but I have a hard cock between my legs. Where else can they find that but by calling up a shemale?

Do I fuck a dozen guys a day? - No. I only see a few clients a day. Otherwise, I might agree with you, Dita - it would be difficult to stay hard and cum if I saw too many clients.

There are exceptions. Some of my clients like oral, some don't even want to orgasm. A few get together with me just to chat. There's also the fetish guys - high heels, nails, feet, etc. I hardly ever get a call from a guy who wants to top exclusively. When guys mention they want to top and bottom, when we get down to it, they want to get fucked and they orgasm during that kind of action.

Calgary clients are mostly bottoms in my experience. They want a hard cock and cum. They love my cumshot.

Sunshine

[Shyla Wild]

I agree with you Sunshine. If you want to be a good escort, you have to enjoy what you do. If you are a bottom, then you might want to think twice before crossing the line. The entire session depends on the top. If the top cannot get hard...it's over. If you are not good at it...then you risk hurting someone. Topping is an art. There are little things that as a top I am used to feeling when I am inside someone. Things that tell me that my partner is enjoying himself, that I am going too deep, or that I am not exactly on the spot. To be able to get hard and perform each time and time again is not easy. A bottom can handle more clients per day and can make money based on volume. A top will charge more and do less clients.

Moreover, Dita you must be very careful topping people. Especially as you may not have the experience needed. Clients come to see you to experience new things. Not for to be your lab rat. If you are having issues topping, maybe experiment a bit in your personal life first.

As a top I can tell you that I never play with myself. EVER. I cannot risk cumming and not being able to perform later on. Being a top requires a lot of discipline.

But if you are willing to join the ranks of making people your bitch....then welcome to the club.

[JVlifeonstandby]

kudos to Dita for being the best tgirl she can be

[Alexis]

This is why I am versatile..

I'm a totally dominant top though..

So you better fuck me the right way.. lol..

Variety is key for me..

Some guys I like to top and others I don't

Girls and TGirls.. I'm totally a top..

The straight guys that want to fuck me good and hard are few and far between so they make me pretty happy..

[Dita Dior]

I agree with you Sunshine. If you want to be a good escort, you have to enjoy what you do. If you are a bottom, then you might want to think twice before crossing the line. The entire session depends on the top. If the top cannot get hard...it's over. If you are not good at it...then you risk hurting someone. Topping is an art. There are little things that as a top I am used to feeling when I am inside someone. Things that tell me that my partner is enjoying himself, that I am going too deep, or that I am not exactly on the spot. To be able to get hard and perform each time and time again is not easy. A bottom can handle more clients per day and can make money based on volume. A top will charge more and do less clients.

Moreover, Dita you must be very careful topping people. Especially as you may not have the experience needed. Clients come to see you to experience new things. Not for to be your lab rat. If you are having issues topping, maybe experiment a bit in your personal life first.

As a top I can tell you that I never play with myself. EVER. I cannot risk cumming and not being able to perform later on. Being a top requires a lot of discipline.

But if you are willing to join the ranks of making people your bitch....then welcome to the club.

well know i am not planning on doing it as a full thing i am only doing it to the ones i know i can to.
i can top, i know i can but the problem is afterwards my dick hurts really bad because its so sensitive and it wants to fall off.

i cant handle the afterward effect.

[Shyla Wild]

363525[/URL]]well know i am not planning on doing it as a full thing i am only doing it to the ones i know i can to.
i can top, i know i can but the problem is afterwards my dick hurts really bad because its so sensitive and it wants to fall off.

i cant handle the afterward effect.

The trick is Viagra, Redbull and a kickass song playing in your head

[Rockheart]

The trick is Viagra, Redbull and a kickass song playing in your head

A good breakfast is necessary too.

Most important meal of the day.

[Ray]

I'm curious Dita as to why your cock hurts after topping someone. This is the first time I have heard of such a thing. Does anyone out there want to speculate on what is causing this problem.

[Alexis]

The trick is Viagra, Redbull and a kickass song playing in your head

Viagra certainly helps.. I only need it if my head gets in the wrong space..

Generally I can cum numerous times a day..

Always have.. lol.. nympho..

I drink too much coffee to have redbull.. ewww..

I eat a really rounded mostly vegan diet and do not abuse my body with drugs and alcohol..

Since I quit smoking my stamina and endurance have gone through the roof too..

[Shyla Wild]

363561[/URL]]I'm curious Dita as to why your cock hurts after topping someone. This is the first time I have heard of such a thing. Does anyone out there want to speculate on what is causing this problem.

I was thinking exactly the same thing Ray....

I googled "Penis hurts after Sex". What I found was not .... well I don't even know how to say this.

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_does_...hurt_after_sex

That claims that you could be fucking too hard and to use a condom.

http://yohaap.wordpress.com/2008/01/...nis-after-sex/

This claims a possible...I don't know if I should say this but STD/STI.

Then I googled "Penis hurts after Anal Sex"

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/in...6232223AAUw8on

Their answer:
The pain you are experiencing may be as a result of multiple things: bruising to the penis, stool particles in the urethra of the penis, or even an STI/STD. As embarassing, or difficult as it may seem to go see a Doctor it is necessary to your health. Issues regarding your sexual health should always be of the utmost importance to you. If the issue with seeing a Doctor is your family finding out, or paying you may want to go to a clinic. If you say you do not have health insurance, they may help you out for free or at a discounted rate. This way, no one will find out and you will get the help you need.

It could be just bruising, but it could be very serious. Please understand, I am NOT pointing fingers and I am not a doctor. But that is the information that came up in the search. Don't shoot the messenger.

[toban]

Yes, she needs to see a Dr. asap

Dita?s explanation of the problem is lacking any concrete information that would enable even a doctor to diagnose the problem. He would have to ask things such as:

Exactly where does it hurt?
- Internally? If so, where does it hurt, near the head, inside the shaft or between the scrotum and the anus (the perineum)?
- Externally? If so, where exactly, on the top or bottom, near the glans or the base etc.

When does it hurt and how long does it last?
- Is it an aching or a burning feeling?
- Does it hurt when you pee?

- Is there any discharge?
- Is there any redness or swelling anywhere?

About this time most Drs. would say: "OK, drop your pants and let's have a look!"




If it?s external it could be a torn ligament that would be felt in the pelvic area or it could be a torn frenulum from forcing the skin back too far, too roughly if she was very rough and forceful.

[Dita Dior]

Im Std Free, since two weeks ago when Im in PEI I always go get checked up again since while in Windsor I got it done because of a scare I thought I had from some guy.. enough information.

lol. Anyway, my dick hurts because when i fuck ass it gets so tight and painful. and i find when someone is on top of me they come down to kiss me and they bend my dick, and .. its just so uncomfortable.

there is deffinatly a art to topping and im learning i dont think i have this talent.

and shyla i woudlnt shoot you for that information i was curious myself

[toban]

. . . they bend my dick, and .. its just so uncomfortable. . . . . .

If you ever hear a pop when they bend it like that you'll know it broke!

[Layla LegendZ]

If you ever hear a pop when they bend it like that you'll know it broke!

OUch ! THAT SHIT SOUNDS PAINFUL . ..eeeeeeeee.