Straight but really turned on by T-girls

[Archaeologist1537]

Hey everyone, thought I'd introduce myself...

I've always considered myself straight, and have only dated girls. I'm a 23 year old university student doing my Master's degree in archaeology at the University of Toronto. Over the years though, I've found myself really drawn to shemale/T-girl porn...there's seriously nothing quite as arousing as a beautiful girl with a big hard cock...and yet I don't feel as if it makes me "not straight". Anyone else sort of in the same position?

So I've finally taken the plunge and subscribed on this forum. Has anyone actually had their fantasy come true through the internet, like through personals? I really don't know where to start with meeting T-girls, but I literally fantasize every day about hot sex with a beautiful T-girl. It'd be a dream come true if it actually happened one day.

Hope to meet some people on here!

[bleh123]

Get some experience with an escort or two first, that'll satiate your curiosity and help you decide if a TS is really what you want. If so, get an account on tsdating.com and/or some of the other tgirl dating sites out there. Girls on there are immediately turned off by this 'first timer/curious' type of posting and will rarely respond unless you present yourself as being serious and knowing what you want, they've pretty much all had enough of the bullshit with indecisive 'experimenters' etc.

[Archaeologist1537]

Get some experience with an escort or two first, that'll satiate your curiosity and help you decide if a TS is really what you want. If so, get an account on tsdating.com and/or some of the other tgirl dating sites out there. Girls on there are immediately turned off by this 'first timer/curious' type of posting and will rarely respond unless you present yourself as being serious and knowing what you want, they've pretty much all had enough of the bullshit with indecisive 'experimenters' etc.

Thanks for the tips. I wouldn't say I'm just "curious", as it's something I really want to do, and something for which I have lots of fantasies. But it's understandable. Is shemalecanada.com a good site? I've seen it posted around here a bit.

[Shyla Wild]

Get some experience with an escort or two first, that'll satiate your curiosity and help you decide if a TS is really what you want. If so, get an account on tsdating.com and/or some of the other tgirl dating sites out there. Girls on there are immediately turned off by this 'first timer/curious' type of posting and will rarely respond unless you present yourself as being serious and knowing what you want, they've pretty much all had enough of the bullshit with indecisive 'experimenters' etc.

It's not just that we are turned off but think about the situation. Most people don't want to be with someone that doesn't know what they want. Moreover, most tgirls don't want to be an experiment or the target of your experimenting. What happens if you decide that it's not for you? Simple, you move on and we are left holding our dicks. We are not here to help you discover who you really are. So your advice Bleh is dead on. Experiment with an escort. If you like it then move on to a possible relationship.

The other problem with experimenters is that normally they are not yet comfortable with their sexuality. Hence the need to experiment. Because of this, often this person is;

1. Not ready to be seen in public with you
2. Not ready to introduce you to friends and family
3. Constantly questioning themselves which shows lack of confidence which is very unsexy.

If one of any of these points is an issue then you will have problem with a relationship with a TS.

Oh lastly, if you are dating a TS to be topped you might be very very disappointed as most girls are bottoms. For example, I am known as a top. But I NEVER top anyone in my personal life. Professionally I am versatile but in my private life I am a strict bottom.

[Ray]

ShemaleCanada is the BEST place to find an escort. Find a few that you are attracted to, check this forum to see if there are any reviews, ask if you can't find a review and then have fun. As a first timer I would suggest that you not go with someone who has a really big dick unless of course you don't want to be topped.

[bleh123]

I don't really know, I've used TSDating.com for several years now and it's pretty good especially if you live in a major city. I live in NY so I've never used any of the Canadian sites, joined this site before realizing it is Canada-centric. Having a paying account on a legit site will definitely help your odds though. Like I said, girls want to know you're serious. BTW if you're looking to be submissive / get topped etc by a tgirl, you're probably barking up the wrong tree. None of them really want to do this. Most of us that actually date TS women successfully are in the camp that's attracted to their hyper-femininity and overtly strong sexuality, among other various factors, such as certain gripes with GGs etc, and more or less are still maintaining the traditional masculine role. The most successful approach is to present yourself as a normal guy looking for a normal type of relationship without any real emphasis on the differences between tg's and gg's, they want to be treated as normal girls. Talking about dicks and even sex in general isn't very wise. Approach it as you would any normal dating site with gg's. This emphasis on normalcy is certainly a comic irony given everyone in this subculture is eccentric and insane for the most part, girl and guy alike, but that's the game. Good luck

[Archaeologist1537]

It's not just that we are turned off but think about the situation. Most people don't want to be with someone that doesn't know what they want. Moreover, most tgirls don't want to be an experiment or the target of your experimenting. What happens if you decide that it's not for you? Simple, you move on and we are left holding our dicks. We are not here to help you discover who you really are. So your advice Bleh is dead on. Experiment with an escort. If you like it then move on to a possible relationship.

The other problem with experimenters is that normally they are not yet comfortable with their sexuality. Hence the need to experiment. Because of this, often this person is;

1. Not ready to be seen in public with you
2. Not ready to introduce you to friends and family
3. Constantly questioning themselves which shows lack of confidence which is very unsexy.

If one of any of these points is an issue then you will have problem with a relationship with a TS.

Oh lastly, if you are dating a TS to be topped you might be very very disappointed as most girls are bottoms. For example, I am known as a top. But I NEVER top anyone in my personal life. Professionally I am versatile but in my private life I am a strict bottom.

Oh lol I would never bottom, only top. So that's good to hear that most T-girls are bottoms. The "big dick" part might just be me being corrupted by shemale porn, but I think it's just hot anyways. I'd love to suck them off, lick their balls, etc. but I wouldn't ever want to bottom.

Not interested in being submissive or anything like that, but just like with sex with a girl, foreplay is the most important IMO. So I'd definitely rim a T-girls ass all day long, and suck them off etc.

[Shyla Wild]

Not interested in being submissive or anything like that, but just like with sex with a girl, foreplay is the most important IMO. So I'd definitely rim a T-girls ass all day long, and suck them off etc.

So are you looking for sex or a relationship? Straight up....it's cheaper to get an escort then it is to date. Oh another point I forgot. If all you are planning on doing is chilling at her place or yours without going out then you are going to find very quickly that she loses patience with you and you will be shown the door.

[tsKITANA]

Oh lol I would never bottom, only top. So that's good to hear that most T-girls are bottoms. The "big dick" part might just be me being corrupted by shemale porn, but I think it's just hot anyways. I'd love to suck them off, lick their balls, etc. but I wouldn't ever want to bottom.

Not interested in being submissive or anything like that, but just like with sex with a girl, foreplay is the most important IMO. So I'd definitely rim a T-girls ass all day long, and suck them off etc.

never say never.

So are you looking for sex or a relationship? Straight up....it's cheaper to get an escort then it is to date. Oh another point I forgot. If all you are planning on doing is chilling at her place or yours without going out then you are going to find very quickly that she loses patience with you and you will be shown the door.

I SAY THAT EVERYTIME ! they never listen.
So i order the most expensive thing on the table, and drive in my "princess spaceship", & invite them over to my dad's house in woodbridge.
99% THEY NEVER CALL BACK ! *sadface* =(

[sunshine]

Good advice

You've got some good advice here from the other posters. Get some actual experience and find out if you enjoy sex with a Tgirl. Explore this question until you are fully satisfied. Then, if you want to pursue a relationship with someone, proceed as you would with a GG.

There is one important difference between dating a GG and dating a Tgirl. The Tgirl is in transition, on her way to becoming a woman. Many of the Tgirls you encounter will have decided to transition to being a female. Many will be reluctant to embark on a relationship because they know that transition will become an issue. First you're dating a guy who wants to be a girl, later, a girl with a cock, later a girl with a cock that no longer functions, and later still, a woman by virtue of sex-reassignment surgery. How are you supposed to come to terms with that as a partner? That is one reason sex is a touchy subject with these girls. If you are to have any success dating a Tgirl, you'd better be open-minded enough to accept that she is in transition.

Escorts are a different matter. There is no issue concerning transition. It's a short-term encounter and it is a transaction - sex for money. It ends without any complications, without you having to adapt yourself to a girl in transition. You can enjoy the sex and keep it at that.

As Craig has mentioned in the past, if you do want a relationship, you may have better luck going to clubs frequented by Tgirls. Get active socially and, if the chemistry is right, something may develop, just like a relationship with GGs.

Good luck

Sunshine

[Rockheart]

He's straight, but he likes old bones.

[Archaeologist1537]

^ haha, well, thus far I haven't done anything with a T-girl, though porn/pics turn me on. Bi-curious maybe lol.

And thanks for the posts, clarifies a lot of things. Definitely personals and porn corrupted me on this issue. An escort sounds like a good idea now...