A rather delicate matter (warning, possibly inappropriate)

[alex99]

I don't know if this has any appropriate section, but I would like to talk about it, and I think this is a good place to. It's also really important to me, and has caused me quite a lot of grief over the years.

Out of curiosity, do any of you have problems with hemorrhoids or fissures or anything of that sort like me? I ask because I have had problems for years, and I just never seem to be able to heal fully. It basically began when I started using a 9 or 10 inch dildo around 7 years ago. Everything was fine for a while (literally months), but suddenly I just started bleeding profusely one time (perhaps it was hemorrhoid-related even then). Truth be told, I've never seen as much blood spill out of my body, and I actually thought I was going to die. But eventually it stopped up for the most part, and since then, I don't bleed excessively, but I've had hemorrhoid problems (although truth be told, I'm worried that if I ever experiment again, the same thing will happen, it was quite traumatizing). It just seems as if whenever I use the bathroom, I bleed, because it's too tight. I know this may seem weird, but the only exception is when I eat only sunflower seeds. I tried metamucil before, and strangely enough, sunflower seeds seem to work better (and I just found this out four months ago, I never ate many sunflower seeds before). I realize this is probably gross for some, but I'm wondering if anyone here might give advice. I ask because truth be told, I really enjoy anal play like so many tgirls on here (dildos, thought about anal sex a lot), but basically haven't been able to experiment much at all because of this. The times I've tried, I thought it felt really good, and understand why so many enjoy it.

I know this might sound a bit vulgar, but when I see some movies of tgirls receiving aggressive anal sex from well hung people, I really wish I could experiment like this, but I might never be able to do anything like that, and it's a bit depressing tbh.

edit: Btw, I saw a post by Shyla Wild, and she said she has to be careful because she can put someone in the hospital with her huge you-know-what. This is very true in the case of someone like me.

[dom r]

Are the wide dildoes or pooping causing the hemoroids or both? It is true when over stretching that doop hole a hemeroid can occur. How do i know this? I dont know. Try a slim dildo with alot of lube although I no longer use any and never analed either.....(anailed?).

I found when not being able to take a dump and you force it out that is when a hemoroid will occur. So to avoid this I actually wait until the doop is ready to come out all on its own just about, that way its almost 100% gauranteed I wont get a hemoroid. If I didnt doop in a day and a half or 2 days that is the time for a big fibre intake like a bowl of beans or fibre cereal which I do this once a week or every 2 weeks.

So how do you spell hemoroid? Theres like a 1000 ways, hemeroid, hemorrhoid hemerhoid, hemaroyd, hemaroid, hemorroid, hammeroyd,

[toban]

Haemorrhoids may be delicate or inapproprite but "piles" is much easier to spell!

Half the assholes in the world have 'em. There is an abundance of blood vessels normally in your rectal area that are help control or ease the passage of faeces. Sometimes, for many reasons (often unknown) they occasionally become inflamed, swell and may rupture and bleed internally or even bulge out externally in which case they can be excruciatingly painful! As my doctor put it - "It feels like you're shitting broken glass doesn't it!"

It is quite easily corrected surgically though so if it is really bothering you or messing up your shorts maybe you should see a doctor about getting it corrected. One newer method simply involves tightly wrapping the affected blood vessel with a rubber band which cuts off the blood supply causing it to shrivel up, die and fall off.

[tsKITANA]

you also need to watch your diet.
more veggies for soft poop! & eat alot of fiber foods !!!

[Dita Dior]

from experience in the prime of my teen years i had one.
in pei the 2nd time i had sex there was a guy that was bisexual and he was living with my friend at his place. they were supposably dating as my friend was saying but that wasn't the case.
my friend leaves to go somewhere one night and i was left in the house with him alone, him and i played around and then he put it in this was the 2nd time doing anal so i was tight as a button.

he is 9.5 and thick as hell. but i didnt know what go slow and steady ment and i just went right down on it ,ooooh did i feel what shiting a knife felt like that night, i jumped off that dick and walked back and forth through the room like a idiot. let's just say i was so tight that i tore myself apart from stupidity on the second attempt.

a bit later i was trying to use the washroom and then while im pushing this thing comes out and i litterally had to manually push it back in after..

anyway enough of my horror story.

all i can say is eat right, use lube, take your time, and i know i'm going to sound like a major hypocrite saying this but I am "take care of your hole you only have one so appricate it"

i learned from that lesson and have been clear from them ever since. what a embrassing topic to bring up to your parents late at night watching tv "Oh mom dad so I have this.." yeah lol.. you get my drift.

how it was removed well all i can say is i went to the doctor bent over and some elastic band thingy.. anyway yeah google it. it's not cute.

learn from dita's mistakes!

[merelypink]

I would use a smaller dildo and make sure to use lots of lube

[cobbler]

See your doctor. Piles are no joking matter.

[alex99]

Thanks a lot for the information and sharing your thoughts, I enjoyed reading.

a bit later i was trying to use the washroom and then while im pushing this thing comes out and i litterally had to manually push it back in after..

anyway enough of my horror story.

I know what you mean here. I've seen a few bad prolapses before and never could stomach them. Too gruesome for me personally. Anal can get pretty steamy, but you never want to see the person actually get hurt or develope problems from it.

Are the wide dildoes or pooping causing the hemoroids or both? It is true when over stretching that doop hole a hemeroid can occur. How do i know this? I dont know. Try a slim dildo with alot of lube although I no longer use any and never analed either.....(anailed?).

It's both, I think I need the rubber band, and will see if it works out like it did for Dita.

So how do you spell hemoroid? Theres like a 1000 ways, hemeroid, hemorrhoid hemerhoid, hemaroyd, hemaroid, hemorroid, hammeroyd,

To this day, nobody really knows. ^^

Take care all.

[Dita Dior]

Thanks a lot for the information and sharing your thoughts, I enjoyed reading.



I know what you mean here. I've seen a few bad prolapses before and never could stomach them. Too gruesome for me personally. Anal can get pretty steamy, but you never want to see the person actually get hurt or develope problems from it.



It's both, I think I need the rubber band, and will see if it works out like it did for Dita.



To this day, nobody really knows. ^^

Take care all.

Okay i'm going to tell you what I did since I lied about going to the doctor. I was 15 at the time why would someone go to the doctor for thaat it would be so embrassing. I did tell my parents though, and then my mom told me a gross story about my dad and yeah.. it was tramatizing. I tell my dad before my mother and she tells me.. "You tell your father and not me but then again your father cant tell you that he has more then one" HA my family is too honest.

Okay, so I did tell my parents that wasn't the lie. The lie is going to the doctor. I self examined myself and when I was a user of substance my mind wasn't always there. One night when I was out of it in Montreal at sugardaddy's house on Papineau at 16 and he left to go to Seatle to his fathers funeral I had the condo to myself for a week. I had a guy come over and fuck me and I realised that night why i wasn't getting pleasure from anal sex for some time because that stupid thing was making the pain. So I douched my ass and then douched again. And hand my hand under my ass while sitting on the pot (east coast term for toilet) and the thing popped out of my ass. At first before I knew it was a roid I thought it was a wart and I was so terrified I had genital warts. Thank god I didn't since my result papers and the doctor at the time told me it wasn't such and I was stupid to do what I did.

So what was the stupid thing that I did according to the Dr.Stewart? It popped out and then I kept my ass open and I grabbed ahold of it (which is hard to do) and then I got it by the tips of two of my nails and I popped it. It's not a fun feeling, but I was on the white stuff at the time and it gave me the confidence and the mind frame to do it.

Needless to say I didn't know a hemroid was a vien in your ass. So when I popped it fuck did I ever bleed. Woo, anyway so I cleaned that up and then the swelling went away, and I haven't had a issue ever since.

I take a Vitamin B12 a day, and another pill so that the valcrose viens in my ass stay strong or whatever it's supposed to do so that it's less chance of getting them. With having a lot of anal sex you are more likely to get them but at the same time I know how it feels .. litterally and I wouldnt want anyone to have to deal with that.

I delt with that thing for about a month and a half and I went off and couldn't take it anymore. It drove me retarded hence my story about my education for Self Done Surgery hahahaa.

Hope that was helpful, perhaps its more entertaining but still.. why I suggested a rubber band OR one of those rubber bands that orthodentists use for braces to connect the top set of teeth to the bottom set of teeth to two brackets and put that on, or a little hair elastic. The smaller and the tighter the better. I suggested the band since that what they do supposably to get it gone the professional way.

Since the rubber band cuts the circulation off and eventually it just dies and pops off on its own. And also with the band unlike my finger tips you don't feel any discomfort or pain. Go figure.

[thenicerguy]

This works

Annurex. You buy it at a drugstore. It lives in a small jar in your freezer. When you have 'roids, you take it out, lube it up and insert it, then go lie down for 10 minutes. Repeat several times a day and the problem goes away - actually it freezes to death. There is a freezable gel inside the tube. It's the size of your pinky, no bigger. It REALLY works.

[alex99]

Annurex. You buy it at a drugstore. It lives in a small jar in your freezer. When you have 'roids, you take it out, lube it up and insert it, then go lie down for 10 minutes. Repeat several times a day and the problem goes away - actually it freezes to death. There is a freezable gel inside the tube. It's the size of your pinky, no bigger. It REALLY works.

Thanks for this, I'd never heard of this product before today, but after doing a bit of research, it looks promising.

I take a Vitamin B12 a day, and another pill so that the valcrose viens in my ass stay strong or whatever it's supposed to do so that it's less chance of getting them. With having a lot of anal sex you are more likely to get them but at the same time I know how it feels .. litterally and I wouldnt want anyone to have to deal with that.

Just out of curiosity, what is the other pill? I might consider something like this too.

[Dita Dior]

Thanks for this, I'd never heard of this product before today, but after doing a bit of research, it looks promising.



Just out of curiosity, what is the other pill? I might consider something like this too.



I see what you're saying, that must have been pretty intense. That was a pretty epic story too, by the way. I wish I had a hung sugar daddy when I was 15. I think my earliest fantasy was when I was around 9 or 10, but obviously I was way too small, physiologically. At the time, I saw the music video of George Michael singing 'Wake Me Up Before You Go Go' and I thought he was very attractive. Still do, to be honest, and I always thought that he had an amazing voice. Sadly, I think he might actually have full blown AIDS now, which is heartbreaking...



You know, about two months ago, I had an interesting discussion with a tgirl, who told me that a lot of transgendered m2f tend to die young, because of the carcinogenic effects of hormone treatment, and because of drug use. This seems like a major problem. I don't know if you've seen pictures of people who have done crystal meth (I take it you meant cocaine), but in a few years of heavy use, a thirty year old can look to be around 50 to 60 years old, it's horrifying. Some of those designer drugs (bath salts) can apparently permanently alter the chemistry or physiology of your brain, so that you might continue halucinating years later. A lot of drugs out there aren't as devastating to your looks or brain, but there's always the danger of an overdose. One of my favourite tgirls Jezebel died not too long ago from a drug overdose I believe. I had considered meeting her for years, and now she's dead, and at a very young age. I don't mean to sound like a total prude, I just thought I'd put that out there. I realize that I'm not really saying anything new.










On a lighter note, here's Wham! ^^



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pIgZ7gMze7A

That was the past tense and what I did in the past and was helping you so you could help yourself if you had the similiar issue. I was trying to relate.
I'm sober, I am hemroid less and I don't need a sugar daddy anymore and can fend for myself thanks for completely offending me when I was actually one of the few that opened up and said the bloody honest truth so you could get the help you needed. Since I understood how it feels to experience one of those basterds.

[alex99]

That was the past tense and what I did in the past and was helping you so you could help yourself if you had the similiar issue. I was trying to relate.
I'm sober, I am hemroid less and I don't need a sugar daddy anymore and can fend for myself thanks for completely offending me when I was actually one of the few that opened up and said the bloody honest truth so you could get the help you needed. Since I understood how it feels to experience one of those basterds.

I know you were referring to the past, I also wasn't criticizing you or trying to be hurtful, and I'm sorry if I offended you. I seriously do appreciate everything that you shared, and I don't judge people, nor do I assume a high and mighty position. In fact, the lifestyle you described here and in another thread is very interesting to me. I'll delete what I said, but you can keep it up as a reminder if you want. I have a knak for ACCIDENTALLY pissing people off, so I should try to keep things shorter. I usually try to carefully word everything I write, but sometimes it's still not enough. I also tend to go back and forth, adding and deleting certain sections of what I write, because I usually don't see what I write as being set in stone or final, but rather a work in progress, which is why you'll usually see edits in a lot of my posts and sometimes long after the initial post.

[sensual_lover20]

Be a top. Problem solved.

[alex99]

Be a top. Problem solved.

Words of wisdom.