Being topped...the first time....

[sadeh]

play time

If you wish to be topped for the first time,
I suggest a few points to exercise.

Make sure you have no internal or external signs of disease around your anus.
Put a condom on your finger and gently slip it in your bum, feel for any abnormalities, usually there would none.

Your prostate is a small organ in your anal passage just under your balls, if you rub it with your finger in massage sequence you will feel extreme pleasure.
It increases stimulation and circulates blood around, there are a lot of nerves attached to your prostate.


Another zone is your sphincter, located on the outside of your ass, it could increase stimulation when rubbed well.


If you feel bump like pimples in there do not practice anal play, rather seek professional examination from a doctor.

1. Finger your self with a condom, practice your anal massage, gently repeat this with two and three fingers once you have enjoyed this you are ready to receive the pleasure of a cock inside you.

2. Clean your inside anal passage by douche, a small water bottle squeezed up your anul hole twice or three times is best, you may also buy a douche from the local drugmart pharmacy, say your girlfriend needs a douche if your to embarrassed.

3. Buy a water based lubricant and toys if necessary, for play.

4. Choose good condoms and lubricate well before seeking a good fuck

[Avidan]

Practice

I have had a lot of practice before plunging into seeing SP's. I used various toys from butt plugs to dildos. If you've never anything up there before, definitely start small and work your way up. Depending who you are planning on seeing of course. I don't care about size, so if the SP has a smaller tool, I usually just need to use my fingers to get relaxed. Otherwise, I do the same, but also work in a larger toy in there to prepare for a larger tool. Always remember to clean out properly. I use a douche (If anyone is reading this, would there be a better way to clean up? I find using a douche can be rather difficult at times. Thanks).

[brendan888]

Prepare, clean have your partner put there finger in you with heaps of lube relax then go slow to start with in two minutes you'll want more and harder .
dont put it in to quick you will run to the toilet feeling like you need to shit
how something that can hurt so much feel so good
but remember once you start you won't stop may take several times to enjoy

[Michael-X]

Before you will bottom with a shemale, make sure that you have some experience playing with your ass using your fingers or a dildo. It will help you a lot. You will learn to relax your sphincter through assplay. Otherwise, getting a hard dick with no experience might cause some discomfort. This article should give you a lot of useful information - The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex with a Shemale

[big-gun]

Relax Relax Relax, Massage your hole first or have your partner massage it, plus what everyone else is saying.

[gamblor]

Lots of foreplay. You need to find a girl who is very patient. Lots of rimming, lube and patience to go slow. Also, you should start with a girl with a smaller penis. Don't get greedy and start out as a size queen.

[tek1234]

Great advice sadeh