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Is being Transgender the same as being Gay or Lesbian?
No. Not only is "gender" and "sex" two separate entities, so is "gender" and "sexual orientation." Like all other people, transgender people can be gay, straight, lesbian, bisexual, or anything in between. How each person defines and experiences their own sexuality is a highly individual process. Sexual orientation should not be assumed about anyone, transgender or otherwise!
Is being Transgender the same as being Gay or Lesbian?
No. Not only is "gender" and "sex" two separate entities, so is "gender" and "sexual orientation." Like all other people, transgender people can be gay, straight, lesbian, bisexual, or anything in between. How each person defines and experiences their own sexuality is a highly individual process. Sexual orientation should not be assumed about anyone, transgender or otherwise!
I think we are saying the something.
Back to my point, sex and gender are not the same. Your sex is describing your biology; what you were born with as far as male or female genitalia and reproductive organs. Your gender identity is what you chose to identify yourself as. Gender is feeling masculine, or feminine, neither, or even a mix of both. For many people, your sex and gender match up (male/masculine, female/feminine), and this is known as cisgender. That means the way you feel and express yourself matches up with the biological sex you were born with. Some people are born with Gender Identity Disorder, which means that their biological sex does not match up with the gender they identify with.
Many people also get confused with sexuality. Sexuality is a whole separate category on its own. A person?s sexuality does not have to be determined by their sex or their gender. Sexuality is who you are attracted to sexually. That is where lesbian, gay, straight, and bisexual come from. Many people get very confused, especially when it comes to transgender people and their partners. If there is a person who was born biologically a man (sex), and feels and acts as a woman (gender identity), but is in a relationship with a man (sexuality), many would say that he is gay. This however, may not be the case. Because the individual feels and identifies as a woman, they would be considered heterosexual. It can get very confusing, but once you understand the basics and realize that sex, gender and sexuality are not the same, you can better understand LGBTQ individuals and be able to and speak of them without sounding ignorant or offending them.
i can understand for escorting reasons but why come a girl to be the man?
But just because they top a man does not make them a man. If they prefer to top a man then there is nothing about it that makes them less of a woman. The women out there who are very dominant or who prefer to top men are still ALL WOMAN to me!
Topping men is a kind of service that is requested by many clients. You can probably say also it is a big fantasy for the majority of them. Now, if a gurl can provide it then it would be unwise for her not to provide it, even if the gurl is mainly a bottom.
Escorting is a profession and people commonly, as professionals, do things that doesn't not reflect their own preferences but rather their own capabilities. I wonder why escorts would be different.
I personally TOP only but I see it a norm that gurls who are bottoms in their real life provide topping services when they are capable of doing it.
Finally, I don't think that being a top or bottom defines a person in anyway. It is a matter of preference and taste.
Topping men is a kind of service that is requested by many clients. You can probably say also it is a big fantasy for the majority of them. Now, if a gurl can provide it then it would be unwise for her not to provide it, even if the gurl is mainly a bottom.
Escorting is a profession and people commonly, as professionals, do things that doesn't not reflect their own preferences but rather their own capabilities. I wonder why escorts would be different.
I personally TOP only but I see it a norm that gurls who are bottoms in their real life provide topping services when they are capable of doing it.
Finally, I don't think that being a top or bottom defines a person in anyway. It is a matter of preference and taste.
well said. And one of the girls who are bottom in real life BUT can be a top and can top well if i may add, is me.
That's why i need to go to Turkey or North Africa or Cyprus or Paris or Athens just in order to satisfy my needs of being a bottom after fucking thousands of men while working LOL
Ok Dita, since both of us are whore, let's ask Lola to take us to Istanbul together next time
PART OF MY JOB, TO KNOW WHERE I PLACE MY HANDS, MY LIPS , MY TONGUE , MY LEGS EVEN MY THOUGHTS...I CAN BECOME YOUR FIRST KISS OR ANY IMAGE YOU DREAM IN A PLAYBOY MAGAZINE...AM I YOUR SECRETARY , STUDENT, TEACHER, GF, SEX SLAVE, OR MISTRESS...??
PART OF MY JOB, TO KNOW WHERE I PLACE MY HANDS, MY LIPS , MY TONGUE , MY LEGS EVEN MY THOUGHTS...I CAN BECOME YOUR FIRST KISS OR ANY IMAGE YOU DREAM IN A PLAYBOY MAGAZINE...AM I YOUR SECRETARY , STUDENT, TEACHER, GF, SEX SLAVE, OR MISTRESS...??
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