Sexually confused

[tek1234]

2 years ago i started having sex with shemales up until then i considered myself straight.When i watched porn i would fantise about the woman now i fantise about the man.I am now attracted to men from the waist down and was wondering if others feel the same way

[Rockheart]

Doesn't sound like you are that confused.
Seems you like the cock.

Whether this means you are bisexual, gay or whatever, the only sure thing is that you are human.
You should do what feels right.
Labels are for others, not yourself.

I go by what turns me on at the time, not what I think I should be doing.
So far that has never been with a man but only girls and tgirls.

[wantitss63]

I think Crag has nailed it (sorry for the pun....) - do what feels right for you, regardless of labels. I went through a similar process of self-questioning: always considered myself straight, then had a GF who introduced me to the pleasure of ass-play. She was actively bi, which further expanded my horizons (as well as creating some epic memories). I am not attracted to men, but have experimented in the past. I still love sex with women, but have come to enjoy a hard cock. Logically (in my mind anyway....) t-girls are the way to go - all the right female 'softness' and curves, great asses and a hot cock. What's not to like?

My 2 cents......

[tek1234]

I think Crag has nailed it (sorry for the pun....) - do what feels right for you, regardless of labels. I went through a similar process of self-questioning: always considered myself straight, then had a GF who introduced me to the pleasure of ass-play. She was actively bi, which further expanded my horizons (as well as creating some epic memories). I am not attracted to men, but have experimented in the past. I still love sex with women, but have come to enjoy a hard cock. Logically (in my mind anyway....) t-girls are the way to go - all the right female 'softness' and curves, great asses and a hot cock. What's not to like?

My 2 cents......

wantitss63 u are right tgirls are very attractive.Thanks for your reply

[wantitss63]

You're welcome, Tek 1234. I suspect lots of people on this forum have asked themselves similar questions. One last point - in my case, I feel there are no 'rules' - attraction and preference are totally situational - what turns me on varies according to mood, etc. I don't fight it (why would I? That would just deprive me of potential fun).
Cheers,
Steve

[tek1234]

Thanks again

[Mike72]

Hot...

2 years ago i started having sex with shemales up until then i considered myself straight.When i watched porn i would fantise about the woman now i fantise about the man.I am now attracted to men from the waist down and was wondering if others feel the same way

I wouldn't worry about it.... Sexual orientation is kinda meaningless.
You're sexual. End of story.
I mean, the overt homophobia in our society/culture makes one fearful/worried about sexual orientation.
Anyway, as Freud made clear: Everyone is bisexual.
If everyone acknowledged that, well, the world would be a much better place, a more peaceful and mirthful place.

[wantitss63]

Well put, Mike. I totally agree, the world would be much better without all the issues resulting from people forcing themselves to conform to other's expectations and so-called moralities.

I guess that means that our community here is smarter than the average.....
Steve

I wouldn't worry about it.... Sexual orientation is kinda meaningless.
You're sexual. End of story.
I mean, the overt homophobia in our society/culture makes one fearful/worried about sexual orientation.
Anyway, as Freud made clear: Everyone is bisexual.
If everyone acknowledged that, well, the world would be a much better place, a more peaceful and mirthful place.

[tek1234]

Thanks for your replies guys

[aguyoutthere1]

Thanks for your replies guys

Tek we have all gone through the, "what does this make me" question. I always quote good old Howard Stern, "You either suck cock, or you don't suck cock."

Now you decide what it makes you. With my recent inability to say no and walk away, I guess it just makes me really damn horny.



KC

[xoxJanexox]

In principle, it is correct to say that all of these are labels and what really matters is whether you enjoy the action or not. If you are a man of principles then sticking to this one, in my view, would be the ideal.

The reality which is far from the ideal, however, is a bit different given the impact of the society on some individuals. It is for this reason that I provide the following explanation that might be of help:

As long as you are interested in the external feminine attributes then I would not say that you are Gay, regardless of any affairs with T-Girls. I would say that you are still heterosexual.

To say someone is Gay they must be interested in the external masculine attributes. Bisexuals are interested in both and by that I mean they can have sexual affairs with both females and males in their natural physical forms.

The choice is yours whether to stick to the labels created by the society or your own desires as a liberated individual from the constraints of the society. Sounds like an easy task to do, but trust me it is a very difficult one and commonly distinguish leaders from followers.

This is how SEX can be philosophical and political at times..!!

[tek1234]

In principle, it is correct to say that all of these are labels and what really matters is whether you enjoy the action or not. If you are a man of principles then sticking to this one, in my view, would be the ideal.

The reality which is far from the ideal, however, is a bit different given the impact of the society on some individuals. It is for this reason that I provide the following explanation that might be of help:

As long as you are interested in the external feminine attributes then I would not say that you are Gay, regardless of any affairs with T-Girls. I would say that you are still heterosexual.

To say someone is Gay they must be interested in the external masculine attributes. Bisexuals are interested in both and by that I mean they can have sexual affairs with both females and males in their natural physical forms.

The choice is yours whether to stick to the labels created by the society or your own desires as a liberated individual from the constraints of the society. Sounds like an easy task to do, but trust me it is a very difficult one and commonly distinguish leaders from followers.

This is how SEX can be philosophical and political at times..!!

Thanks , u gave me alot to think about

[Raging Bob]

Tek we have all gone through the, "what does this make me" question. I always quote good old Howard Stern, "You either suck cock, or you don't suck cock."

Now you decide what it makes you. With my recent inability to say no and walk away, I guess it just makes me really damn horny.



KC

Lol...amen to that. I'm betting no matter what a person calls themselves, you get them horny enough and everything is on the table!!

[aguyoutthere1]

Lol...amen to that. I'm betting no matter what a person calls themselves, you get them horny enough and everything is on the table!!

I've crossed many lines I never thought possible since I started this "hobby". Lola recently suggested we get together with a hot guy and have a threesome. I have never been attracted to men at all, but always wanted to tag team a hot girl. I am definitely attracted to cock. I'd even love to be in a gang bang, or 4some. So if this happens, and Lola tells me to suck that guys cock, I have to admit, I am going to suck.

I've completely lost it. LOL


KC

[LOLA_]

I think that if a man meets a man by himself and has sex with him then that would probably indicate of him being gay.But in our situation this is completely different since you are with a beautiful shemale and in the company of another man but it is in a different context since it is a 3some and the dynamics are different.I have to say i do love the idea and i also enjoy a kinky time with different partners.Kinkely yours, Lola

I've crossed many lines I never thought possible since I started this "hobby". Lola recently suggested we get together with a hot guy and have a threesome. I have never been attracted to men at all, but always wanted to tag team a hot girl. I am definitely attracted to cock. I'd even love to be in a gang bang, or 4some. So if this happens, and Lola tells me to suck that guys cock, I have to admit, I am going to suck.

I've completely lost it. LOL


KC