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Layla...
Thanks....Originally posted by toban View PostWhen trying to experience a "relaxed" frame of mind as you are about to be poked by someone with a massive schlong here's something to think about. The anus is designed to be always tight except when we try to empty our bowels. Being naturally tight then, any penetration by a foreign object is going to be somewhat difficult and so this is where the initial pain comes from.
It is worth mention here too that while many guys seem to fear the girth of some girls cocks, that fear is really unfounded because if you have ever looked at your stool before flushing the toilet, sooner or later you are bound to see that you have dropped a log that is far larger in girth than any cock you could ever have imagined being thrust up your tight little butt.
Your anus and rectum (a temporary pussy if you are being topped) are both very expandable and will definitely be able to accommodate a lot more than you can imagine! e.g. Shyla reported recently on a client who had received both her and Layla in a DP scenario! Talk about being stuffed!
When we are about to empty our bowels we gently "push" backwards? thus relaxing that ever tight ring of sphincter muscles to initiate the outward flow. It is this "backward push" that relaxes the sphincter muscles to allow us to empty our bowels but we are going to have to trick it into allowing entry instead! I was once told by an anal loving girl(GG) that that is how she made the entry super easy for herself and for me.
Personally I find internal pain to be a problem associated with length rather than girth!
And it's noteworthy to point out that the anal cavity is expandable....Comment
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Layla...
Thanks Shyla.Originally posted by Shyla Wild View PostHe reviewed it...I was just the innocent bystander.
Psst...the trick is exhale or breath out when the top is going in. When people get nervous or scared, you naturally will shorten your breath and this causes the muscles to contract and constrict. Neither one is ideal as the sphincter is a muscle and not an organ. Often when I am topping someone I get to the sphincter and I can feel it much too tight to attempt to penetrate. I just ask the bottom to exhale...Problem solved.
BUT...as a top, there is a "feel" aspect to it. You just can't ask your bottom to exhale and drill them as it's kinda reckless. I usually prefer to start with fingers then once penetration starts...- Slide in as far as I can go without resistance.
- Work that depth until I feel the person is loose enough to handle deeper.
- Go deeper
- Go back to #1 if he didn't cum.
And, too, as you point out: "When people get nervous or scared, you naturally will shorten your breath and this causes the muscles to contract and constrict."
I guess we've a tendency to associate big penises -- yours and Layla's -- with pain.... Which we shouldn't do. It could be instinctual. I don't know.
Opening up and relaxing the anus with a finger or fingers seems the logical approach.... Every sex therapist, I think, would point that out. Or even, say, a fairly small dildo....Comment
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Mint...
Yeah, Mint is probably one of the most well known TG women.....Originally posted by brendan888 View PostComment
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