Top or bottom

[xoxJanexox]

In sex someone must play the dominant role and, the majority of the time the girl wants the guy do be the dominant partner. If a guy is taking hormones in order to physically transform his body into a girl, he is going to receive the same emotional traits of a girl as well.

I think that you are mixing several terminologies, gender, sexual preferences, dominance etc. These are different variable that could lead to completely "countless" different possibilities! To limit all those possibilities into one which fits your own understanding of the girls mentality is not only wrong but overtly arrogant!

Being a bottom for example doesn't necessarily mean being submissive. Taking this example into a genetic girls, there are girls who would still maintain the dominant role in bed while being at the receptive end.

There are plenty of genetic girls who are not into penetrative sex all! Have you every heard about this!

There are girls who achieve orgasm while doing a guy with a strapon!

So, if you enjoy being a top, that is your choice and you should respect others choices as well. They are not less of a man compared to any bragging macho type of man!

[Kisa]

xoxJanexox
IMHO ow sis i guess we were speak about majority. When I say Canadians are more polite then Russians for example, it doesn't mean i speak about every Canadian but about most. Bottom and submissive in most cases are same/similar. Genetic girls and t-girls mostly take passive role because of nature.

[xoxJanexox]

xoxJanexox
IMHO ow sis i guess we were speak about majority. When I say Canadians are more polite then Russians for example, it doesn't mean i speak about every Canadian but about most. Bottom and submissive in most cases are same/similar. Genetic girls and t-girls mostly take passive role because of nature.

Nature is premised on diversity. If one race constitutes the majority of human beings this doesn't mean that nature is defined by that race and the other races unnatural! All the races are part of the nature and constitute its mosaic! The same applies to sexual preferences, gender identities etc.

It is still natural for a genetic girl not to be interested in insertion sex. It is still natural for a t-girl to be more into topping! It is still natural for a man to prefer to be topped! It is still natural for a girl/t-girl to play an active or dominant role!

If being natural is gauged by the majority and minority standards, the we (t-girls) are the most unnatural human beings on earth!

[56k]

xoxJanexoxIMHO ow sis i guess we were speak about majority. When I say Canadians are more polite then Russians for example, it doesn't mean i speak about every Canadian but about most. Bottom and submissive in most cases are same/similar. Genetic girls and t-girls mostly take passive role because of nature.

Exactly!

[56k]

Nature is premised on diversity. If one race constitutes the majority of human beings this doesn't mean that nature is defined by that race and the other races unnatural! All the races are part of the nature and constitute its mosaic! The same applies to sexual preferences, gender identities etc.It is still natural for a genetic girl not to be interested in insertion sex. It is still natural for a t-girl to be more into topping! It is still natural for a man to prefer to be topped! It is still natural for a girl/t-girl to play an active or dominant role! If being natural is gauged by the majority and minority standards, the we (t-girls) are the most unnatural human beings on earth!

It appears you do not understand what is being said. Being a bottom is allowing your partner to be in full control in which, you are at the mercy of the partner. That is being submissive. I know a lot of bottom guys may not like hearing that but…As far as generic girls are concerned, from a ratio standpoint how many generic girls have you encountered that were dominant versus submissive that were not an escort?

[anat89]

thank you, at least there is one real man who responds.

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A man is still a man. He has to be able to fuck and spoil me and fix something around the house..at least that.

Help me understand before I take offense, are you saying I'm not a real man if I like to bottom?
Because I do like to bottom but I also "...fuck and spoil... and fix something around the house." I'm not sure how those conflict.

[xoxJanexox]

It appears you do not understand what is being said. Being a bottom is allowing your partner to be in full control in which, you are at the mercy of the partner. That is being submissive. I know a lot of bottom guys may not like hearing that but?As far as generic girls are concerned, from a ratio standpoint how many generic girls have you encountered that were dominant versus submissive that were not an escort?

If you want to have a meaningful debate then you better maintain the principles of a respectful dialogue!

You better go back and read my post at which time you might realize that your reply is irrelevant!

Please don't give me a lesson about the dynamics of the top/bottom encounter, I am a Top provider and probably top in a month your entire record for years!

As for genetic girls, trust me there are plenty of girls who are just sick of men who are so proud of their testosterone levels! There are also plenty of t-girls like that as well, but I am afraid that you are affected by Craigslist ads!

Being a majority or minority is not the question as i have alluded, so you better read before you jump and get an erection!

[Paul Smith]

Nature is premised on diversity. If one race constitutes the majority of human beings this doesn't mean that nature is defined by that race and the other races unnatural! All the races are part of the nature and constitute its mosaic! The same applies to sexual preferences, gender identities etc.

It is still natural for a genetic girl not to be interested in insertion sex. It is still natural for a t-girl to be more into topping! It is still natural for a man to prefer to be topped! It is still natural for a girl/t-girl to play an active or dominant role!

If being natural is gauged by the majority and minority standards, the we (t-girls) are the most unnatural human beings on earth!

This time I have to agree with Jane. If we kept with the narrow minded outdated thought process here then women would not have the vote and they would still stay home barefoot and pregnant. As society and human beings evolve social roles change. Once there would be no such thing as gay marriage or once there would be no dominant women who top men with strap ons. What was once a social norm today will gradually change as society changes. So even if the majority of women like to bottom more and more women and trans women will grow to love topping men. There is nothing wrong with that.

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[Kisa]

ok i guess i misunderstood or missed something. ^^ sorry
good for me to wrote IMHO b4 posting, eh?

[Tia Phoenixx]

This time I have to agree with Jane. If we kept with the narrow minded outdated thought process here then women would not have the vote and they would still stay home barefoot and pregnant. As society and human beings evolve social roles change. Once there would be no such thing as gay marriage or once there would be no dominant women who top men with strap ons. What was once a social norm today will gradually change as society changes. So even if the majority of women like to bottom more and more women and trans women will grow to love topping men. There is nothing wrong with that.

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there is no wrong or right answer here. Everybody is entitled to express their feeling honestly. And my true feeling is: a bottom, because i feel like a woman and like to be treated like one.

However, most of my reviews stating me as a versatile, which is true to some degrees.
Why I can be a good versatile or even a good top? Because i'm happy and content sexually.

Fulfilling sex life is extremely important. I can make my clients happy sexuality, because I'm happy sexuality too.
Why am I happy?
Because there are enough stock of fresh, good boys who screw me every day, especially while I'm on holiday. So, when i get back to work, I've had enough to be a bottom, and ready to be a top or versatile again, and from time to time a bottom too. In other words, I;m up for everything because my desire of being a bottom has been fulfilled.

The challenge comes when I work longer than usual, so i have to create another strategy to maintain my fulfilling sex life. Since i'm in the middle of tour right now and cannot go on holiday. I've decided to give a special discount for those who are top: www.tia-phoenixx.com/rendezvous and the result is amazing.

Today for instance, I'm busy since the moment I arrived in St Louis, tomorrow will be the same too.
But I am happy, because the last two clients who came to see me are truly my type: one is an army of 27 and the other is a mechanic of 24. Hung, muscular and athletic and full of stamina. Both of them. Each of them fucked me at least 3 times in an hour. I was in paradise for two hours...i was in Ecstasy: enjoying their muscle, touching their hairy chest and arm pit, smelling their masculine odor, realizing how strong and fresh they are, I sucked their big dick like a yummy lollipop. Yum!

I'm happy and satisfied now and ready to go to bed.

Tomorrow, it is my turn to fuck or get fucked or both by my clients...and making them happy and fulfilled as well.
I can do it easily and far from being jaded..because i'm fulfilled and happy. I have had enough to be a bottom and now, i don;t mind to be a top.

It;s a "happy circle" you know. I can give my clients happiness/sexual satisfaction because i'm happy/fulfilled sexually.

Too bad...i have not got the time to write my blog entry..hopefully by tomorrow. I will discuss this issue further

good night,

Tia

[bb420]

I'm pretty much a 100% bottom. I don't really like being sucked off either.
Even with females, I'll go down on them and they'll pound my ass with toys or a strap-on.
I've been with more female escorts this past year then T-girls. Way too many hot girls coming to Winnipeg lately, and not enough t-girls.

I'm a special case though.... I don't crossdress nor do I have the urge to "feel like a woman".
Maybe I just like being used and getting other people off...

[56k]

If you want to have a meaningful debate then you better maintain the principles of a respectful dialogue!

Where did you see this as a debate? It is a matter of preference. If I recall correctly, you were the one who quoted my statements questioning why I feel the way I do, in which I replied.

You better go back and read my post at which time you might realize that your reply is irrelevant!Please don't give me a lesson about the dynamics of the top/bottom encounter, I am a Top provider and probably top in a month your entire record for years!

Based on the explanation points, it appears you are in defence mode for reasons unknown. Is there any reason you feel that I am attacking you when I am merely responding to you using no derogatory statements whatsoever? I don’t recall saying anything derogatory to wards you yet, your wording would say otherwise…

As for genetic girls, trust me there are plenty of girls who are just sick of men who are so proud of their testosterone levels! There are also plenty of t-girls like that as well, but I am afraid that you are affected by Craigslist ads!

I would imagine that is based on your experience however, not mine. I was looking to see a ratio standpoint on how many generic girls have you encountered that were dominant versus submissive that were not an escort. But, it appears you cannot answer that question. I don’t recall asking the ratio of “girls who are just sick of men who are so proud of their testosterone levels!”

Being a majority or minority is not the question as i have alluded, so you better read before you jump and get an erection!

As I mentioned before, based on the explanation points, it appears you are in defence mode for reasons unknown. Tia Phoenixx and I were just talking amongst one another exchanging common views on the subject at hand. Nothing more. Nothing less.

[xoxJanexox]

. Tia Phoenixx and I were just talking amongst one another exchanging common views on the subject at hand. Nothing more. Nothing less.

If you are under the false impression that you were talking privately with Tia in an open forum, then let me correct you here right away. This is an open forum, If you want to talk with Tia among yourselves you might resort to the private messages option!

Again, my posts are very clear for the audience with the signals they carry and your noise is all over the place! The audience are smart and mature enough to figure out the signal from the noise!

This tactic of throwing the sands in the eyes is old and outdated! My points are crystal clear and should survive your blurring attempts!

Again, and for final time I would say this, if you enjoy being a top, that is your choice, it doesn't make you more of a man and others who prefer to bottom less of men! The opposite applies to girls and t-girls!

You don't define nature or what is natural! Nature is more open and diverse than your closed/narrow mind!

[56k]

If you are under the false impression that you were talking privately with Tia in an open forum, then let me correct you here right away. This is an open forum, If you want to talk with Tia among yourselves you might resort to the private messages option!Again, my posts are very clear for the audience with the signals they carry and your noise is all over the place! The audience are smart and mature enough to figure out the signal from the noise! This tactic of throwing the sands in the eyes is old and outdated! My points are crystal clear and should survive your blurring attempts!Again, and for final time I would say this, if you enjoy being a top, that is your choice, it doesn't make you more of a man and others who prefer to bottom less of men! The opposite applies to girls and t-girls! You don't define nature or what is natural! Nature is more open and diverse than your closed/narrow mind!

As I said in my previous post....

Where did you see this as a debate? It is a matter of preference.

If you want continue to debate on a matter of ones preference, you are on your own.

[handpuppetboy]

I am versatile and I enjoy a good flip flop session. I will also top only or bottom, depends on who I am with and how the mood strikes us.