Confused

[Hockeydude89]

Looking around this forum I see a lot of guys are lucky enough to find shemales who like to top....but I'm confused. If transsexuals (from what I've seen) are so against guys like this and supposedly don't want anything to do with their genitals, how the hell do you find a tgirl who likes to be a top? Is it the kinda thing where you just have to look in the right places?

[xoxJanexox]

Transsexual escorts who are functional (i.e. able to top) would provide topping service as part of their menu irrespective of their own personal preference. Put simply, if they were able to perform something that is rewarding financially, why would they decline it?

Escorts are meant to professionals and when you are a professional you don't necessarily limit what you do to what you like but rather to what you are capable of doing. This principle applies to all professionals (doctors, lawyers, etc).

I hope that the above is helpful in relieving some of the confusion!

[tsKITANA]

cant help it. I just had to.

Looking around this forum I see a lot of guys are lucky enough to find shemales who like to top....but I'm confused. If transsexuals (from what I've seen) are so against guys like this and supposedly don't want anything to do with their genitals, how the hell do you find a tgirl who likes to be a top? Is it the kinda thing where you just have to look in the right places?

^_^

[Hockeydude89]

Just joined today lol

[wantitss63]

^_^

LOL! Be nice to the Noob, Kitty!

BTW: still LOVE your avatar, miss!
Steve

[tsKITANA]

Just joined today lol

lol dont take my previous reply too seriously. I was just waiting for the right time & right new guy to use that poster. LOL
And sadly but greatly.. you were it !
Welcome to the forum Supersaiyan KA-ME-HA-ME-HAAA !!!

LOL! Be nice to the Noob, Kitty!

BTW: still LOVE your avatar, miss!
Steve

LOL ! i am nice ^_^ & thanks titss !
hugs & kisses !

[Hockeydude89]

lol it's cool, I don't take it personally. Nothing wrong with being a newbie anyway lol. Also, glad to see I'm not the only DBZ fan here. I couldn't think of any other username and I'm a big fan so I figured what the hell.

[sector7]

Looking around this forum I see a lot of guys are lucky enough to find shemales who like to top....but I'm confused. If transsexuals (from what I've seen) are so against guys like this and supposedly don't want anything to do with their genitals, how the hell do you find a tgirl who likes to be a top? Is it the kinda thing where you just have to look in the right places?

That is the great irony of the t-girl/t-girl admirer world.
Most girls (not all) don't want to top, and most guys (not all) want to bottom.
You can't really blame either side, the girls want to be treated like girls, have the man be dominant and take charge,
the men want to expereince something new, something a girl without a cock can't give them.
So while the girls are transitioning and trying to forget about their penis, the guys are almost entirely focused on it because hey, that's the new and different part.

As Jane pointed out, the girls who can top are the ones who become escorts because that's where the demand is.
This can skew our perception of how many top girls are out there because we only really get exposed to the escort ads.
Someone correct me if I'm wrong but the majority of trans girls, the ones not escorting, the ones you don't
even know when you pass by them at the grocery store, they are mostly bottoms.

But then again maybe I don't really know what i'm talking about. I'm going to go jerk off now!

[Shyla Wild]

Looking around this forum I see a lot of guys are lucky enough to find shemales who like to top....but I'm confused. If transsexuals (from what I've seen) are so against guys like this and supposedly don't want anything to do with their genitals, how the hell do you find a tgirl who likes to be a top? Is it the kinda thing where you just have to look in the right places?

You have a regular job right? And like everyone who works in this world, there are things you like to do, and others you do because you're getting paid. There are many girls that like to top. There are many girls that are very good actresses. In the end, as long as the client leaves happy who really cares if she likes to do it or not. The trick is not to look for just for a top as anyone with a cock can top. The trick is not even to find someone that likes to top, as I know tons of people that are not very good at many things they enjoy doing. The trick is to find someone that's GOOD at topping.

My father gave my some advice once and told me "Never be good at some you don't like doing."

So as a Noob here I welcome you to the wealth of knowledge that is on this board. The review section is probably an excellent place to start to narrow down your search.

That is the great irony of the t-girl/t-girl admirer world.
Most girls (not all) don't want to top, and most guys (not all) want to bottom.
You can't really blame either side, the girls want to be treated like girls, have the man be dominant and take charge,
the men want to expereince something new, something a girl without a cock can't give them.
So while the girls are transitioning and trying to forget about their penis, the guys are almost entirely focused on it because hey, that's the new and different part.

As Jane pointed out, the girls who can top are the ones who become escorts because that's where the demand is.
This can skew our perception of how many top girls are out there because we only really get exposed to the escort ads.
Someone correct me if I'm wrong but the majority of trans girls, the ones not escorting, the ones you don't
even know when you pass by them at the grocery store, they are mostly bottoms.

But then again maybe I don't really know what i'm talking about. I'm going to go jerk off now!

I was recently part of a roundhouse discussion with Sunshine, Kylie Storm and Lexi Wade for Sex Life Canada in which we discuss parts of this and other points which might be interesting points to bring to the thread.

http://www.sexlifecanada.ca/canada/national-sexlife-journal/understanding-dynamics-tgirl-attraction-part-two

[toban]

You have a regular job right? And like everyone who works in this world, there are things you like to do, and others you do because you're getting paid. There are many girls that like to top. There are many girls that are very good actresses. In the end, as long as the client leaves happy who really cares if she likes to do it or not. The trick is not to look for just for a top as anyone with a cock can top. The trick is not even to find someone that likes to top, as I know tons of people that are not very good at many things they enjoy doing. The trick is to find someone that's GOOD at topping.

My father gave my some advice once and told me "Never be good at some you don't like doing."

So as a Noob here I welcome you to the wealth of knowledge that is on this board. The review section is probably an excellent place to start to narrow down your search.

I concur with Shyla's words of advice so please take heed of that as you venture into this world of new experiences. Since you are new here though, we do not know enough about you or where you hail from to give you much in the way of specific advice on "where to find shemales who like to top".

There is a wealth of information available by reading the many escort ads available on Shemale Canada. Many ads contain phrases such as "good with first timers", "strict top" or "prefer to top" or conversely "strict bottom" while others may state that they are "versatile". By reading ads of girls that physically appeal to you you should then go to the Review Section of this forum, enter her name in the Search Forum box at the top right and hopefully there will be information enough to enable you to gain some insight from reading other clients comments about her service. Lacking any reviews, you might also ask here about any specific girl that you might be interested in.

Time spent on research will eventually pay off in many happy endings! All the best in your search!