I get much pleasure from receiving anal.But the first few moments of penatration are painfull.Does anyone have tips on how to make those first moments more pleasureable?
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No pain,, No gain ..LOL
The following might be helpful:
1- Do your homework: Cleansing, anal training (dildos etc).
2- Proper positioning.
2- Top that knows what she is doing. Topping is an art!
However, there will always be some discomfort in the initial part (passing the sphincter) as this area is very sensitive to stretching and here where the role of the top comes into play. For novice, the penetration should be slow and gradual and linked to pleasurable feeling (e.g. reach around hand job etc) to divert the bottom from the unpleasant discomfort.
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One of my girlfriends (we're a loving "open relationship" couple) -- who, incidentally, used to escort for a couple of years, and quit the biz last summer -- does the reach-around hand-job on me while beginning to penetrate my ass with her cock (strapon) when she fucks me. It really does work in making the whole experience much hotter and very positive.
So, I endorse Jane's advice. :-)
- M
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Nothing can be quite as frustrating as trying to achieve anal sex without proper precautions and set guidelines. Hi, I'm TS Tonia lee and in this brief summery I will walk you through the steps needed to receive a wiener in your butt. These are meant only for educational purposes and not intended to be misused or used in such a way that harms yourself or others.
Step 1. Prepare your anus.
The most commonly used method involves lubricating the butt hole with various products sold at most major retail stores. When applied properly, the wiener will simply "slide" into place with little to no resistance. This, however, can in some cases result in what I like to call "surprise depth". This is when the wiener slides in to deep for a first time encounter and temporarily stuns a person causing shocking amounts of discomfort for the recipient. To avoid this, simply slide the wiener in with patience and allow the subject to cope with this new found sensation.
Step2. Adjusting your position.
Perhaps one of the most overlooked aspects of anal sex is how to posture yourself to fully prepare for the wiener. As a matter of preference, I use "doggy style" to accommodate my partner for maximum exposure. Some may choose to take the pussy approach and gently sit on the wiener. This is commonly looked down upon in the community.
... no pun intended.
Step 3. The final stage.
At this point you are enjoying the anal sex and content with the wiener in your butt. Take note on how your partner often get's "to exited" and slams your ass like it's a pinball machine. Avoiding this is difficult due to being in a face down ass up position with very little strength left to fight back. Many of us, including myself, like to close our eyes and think of pleasant things like swans and beaches. This is what we refer to as "anal shock".
After enjoying your ass pounding try to avoid movement as much as possible. It is best to lay on your back and just wait it out. Most recovery times are between three to five hours.
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i find it just perfect to lube up a medium size buttplug n sit on it, stand up put your undies back on with the plug still in there, do something for 5-10 minutes, then pull it out. do that a couple hours before your sex. use lots of water-solution lube during sex. it's like stretching before a workouti am woman, hear me roar.
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Originally posted by joyyypark View Posti find it just perfect to lube up a medium size buttplug n sit on it, stand up put your undies back on with the plug still in there, do something for 5-10 minutes, then pull it out. do that a couple hours before your sex. use lots of water-solution lube during sex. it's like stretching before a workout
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Originally posted by tek1234 View PostI get much pleasure from receiving anal.But the first few moments of penatration are painfull.Does anyone have tips on how to make those first moments more pleasureable?
#2 After you give yourself and enema you should warn up with the biggest toy you can handle..
#3 Tell the person fucking you to work it and not penetrate you immediately..
That should make things a bit easier.. also getting fucked more often helps, even if it's just a good realistic toy..
I get fucked all the time, if you just stick it in.. it hurts.. lol..
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Originally posted by ToniaLee View PostNothing can be quite as frustrating as trying to achieve anal sex without proper precautions and set guidelines. Hi, I'm TS Tonia lee and in this brief summery I will walk you through the steps needed to receive a wiener in your butt. These are meant only for educational purposes and not intended to be misused or used in such a way that harms yourself or others.
Step 1. Prepare your anus.
The most commonly used method involves lubricating the butt hole with various products sold at most major retail stores. When applied properly, the wiener will simply "slide" into place with little to no resistance. This, however, can in some cases result in what I like to call "surprise depth". This is when the wiener slides in to deep for a first time encounter and temporarily stuns a person causing shocking amounts of discomfort for the recipient. To avoid this, simply slide the wiener in with patience and allow the subject to cope with this new found sensation.
Step2. Adjusting your position.
Perhaps one of the most overlooked aspects of anal sex is how to posture yourself to fully prepare for the wiener. As a matter of preference, I use "doggy style" to accommodate my partner for maximum exposure. Some may choose to take the pussy approach and gently sit on the wiener. This is commonly looked down upon in the community.
... no pun intended.
Step 3. The final stage.
At this point you are enjoying the anal sex and content with the wiener in your butt. Take note on how your partner often get's "to exited" and slams your ass like it's a pinball machine. Avoiding this is difficult due to being in a face down ass up position with very little strength left to fight back. Many of us, including myself, like to close our eyes and think of pleasant things like swans and beaches. This is what we refer to as "anal shock".
After enjoying your ass pounding try to avoid movement as much as possible. It is best to lay on your back and just wait it out. Most recovery times are between three to five hours.
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Originally posted by AlexisDVyne View Post#1 Make sure the person fucking you knows what they are doing!
#2 After you give yourself and enema you should warn up with the biggest toy you can handle..
#3 Tell the person fucking you to work it and not penetrate you immediately..
That should make things a bit easier.. also getting fucked more often helps, even if it's just a good realistic toy..
I get fucked all the time, if you just stick it in.. it hurts.. lol..Last edited by tek1234; 02-11-2013, 12:46 PM.
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