What does it mean.

[Hockeydude89]

I have seen this question asked numerous times on the internet and have wondered myself since I first realized I liked t-girls when I was a teenager...but what do you consider guys like us? Guys that like t-girls, are we bisexual or just straight or just experimental....maybe it just doesn't matter? I don't know really. For me, I guess I've always viewed myself as bisexual. It doesn't quite bug me as much as it did six years ago when I was 17 but sometimes I still wonder. Opinions?

[wantitss63]

Hmmm......this question has been asked more than once.... I guess my first response would be 'Why does it matter?' A label is just that - a way to categorize someone. However, to actually answer the question, in my case, I don't think I could call myself straight: I like gg's and tg's - I don't find men atttractive at all. That said, I do enjoy sex with tgirls - oral, anal, give, receive. So.......at the end of the day, I enjoy sex with someone with the same genitalia as mine as well as with gentic women, therefore I'm not totally straight. It' really isn't something I think about much: as long as consenting adults are involved, who really cares?

My 2 cents.......

[Hockeydude89]

That's pretty much how I've come to look at it myself. I'm really not attracted to men, but I love women and I'm deeply attracted to transsexuals. So it's more of an attraction to people with the same genitalia as myself like you said. Like I said, I gave up worrying about it, but I guess back then it was really because I was a teenager and it was all really confusing to me. Now, I'm almost 24 and it just doesn't matter anymore. Sometimes the question crosses my mind, but I don't spend hours racking my brain for answers like I would have done in the past. I more or less consider myself bisexual.

[ToniaLee]

Normal. Your just a normal guy that likes something that has been a part of erotic social behavior since the dawn of man. Transsexuality is now a medical frontier but before all the hormones and surgery, cross gender eroticism has existed to entertain those who seek it. It's like prostitution. The sex industry has thrived since the world was flat and monsters waited for you at the edge of the world. It's probably not going anywhere and one of the most prominent forms of adult media world wide is Tgirl smut. To me, you liking videos of us is like me wondering if anybody else watches Brazzers. Of course we do.

[ToniaLee]

Also, don't define yourself because the more you do the less of a person you become. If you define yourself as gay or strait you feel obligated to live life by those guidelines. If you let go of sexual orientation, you are left only with what you truly desire and are more open to find new pleasures and not restricted by self identity. You can be confident in what you like.

[Hockeydude89]

Also, don't define yourself because the more you do the less of a person you become. If you define yourself as gay or strait you feel obligated to live life by those guidelines. If you let go of sexual orientation, you are left only with what you truly desire and are more open to find new pleasures and not restricted by self identity. You can be confident in what you like.

Good point and wise words. I've always been the kind of person who believes in just being yourself anyway. So I suppose that makes the most logical sense.

[wantitss63]

Good point and wise words. I've always been the kind of person who believes in just being yourself anyway. So I suppose that makes the most logical sense.

It absolutely does - there are far too many people on this planet who are bitter and unhappy because they refuse to acknowledge their own true identities and desires. They overcompensate and bury themselves in guilt. Not healthy at all - for them or those around them.

[OldMediGassed]

Glad this question came up... for two reasons:

1. I am bisexual. I experience attraction to both males and females. Some might label me pansexual because my attractions are not limited to the gender binary, ie.. biologically male or female. I use the term bisexual as a term of convenience, since most people have an idea of what it means. As a bisexual, I've met lots of gay men. I haven't yet met one man who identifies as gay who is sexually attracted to a pre op trans woman.

2. I was looking at this forum last night, and somebody mentioned somewhere that Bailey Jay has an Internet radio program, and that it's quite good. That person was right -- Bailey is quite bright and funny, as well as a very engaging host. I listened to an episode last night, and her first caller wanted to know if he's gay because he's turned on by Bailey's movies. Ms Jay said she get asked that question every single day of her life. She gave the guy a great example:

"Are you attracted to Dwayne 'The Rock' Johnson?" she asked.
"No," he replied.
"Would you be attracted to him if he had a vagina?"
Same answer.

So this caller -- if you absolutely have to label his sexuality -- may well be straight. He likes cis gender (biological) woman and transwomen. He digs women, and he's open to whatever is located bellow decks. A lot of people use that analogy to distinguish between gender and sex: Gender is in the head, and sex is below deck.

The thread starter brings up an interesting question. How do trans women regard us? I haven't asked all of them. I've heard that some of the ladies see us as closeted gays. That's not been my direct experience with the handful of trans women I've met. I'm not offended that someone thinks I'm gay, but I'm disappointed by the narrowness of the view. If a person says to me that she's female, then she's female, regardless of what's below deck. I'm very open to honouring how people identify their gender as a matter of respect for how trans people have been discriminated against.

And as for you, Supersaiyan89, I agree with you. Don't worry so much about the label. You know what you like. As long as everyone is consenting and plays safe, what's the problem?

[Rockheart]

You are what you think you are.


Plain and simple.

[Hockeydude89]

Glad this question came up... for two reasons:

1. I am bisexual. I experience attraction to both males and females. Some might label me pansexual because my attractions are not limited to the gender binary, ie.. biologically male or female. I use the term bisexual as a term of convenience, since most people have an idea of what it means. As a bisexual, I've met lots of gay men. I haven't yet met one man who identifies as gay who is sexually attracted to a pre op trans woman.

2. I was looking at this forum last night, and somebody mentioned somewhere that Bailey Jay has an Internet radio program, and that it's quite good. That person was right -- Bailey is quite bright and funny, as well as a very engaging host. I listened to an episode last night, and her first caller wanted to know if he's gay because he's turned on by Bailey's movies. Ms Jay said she get asked that question every single day of her life. She gave the guy a great example:

"Are you attracted to Dwayne 'The Rock' Johnson?" she asked.
"No," he replied.
"Would you be attracted to him if he had a vagina?"
Same answer.

So this caller -- if you absolutely have to label his sexuality -- may well be straight. He likes cis gender (biological) woman and transwomen. He digs women, and he's open to whatever is located bellow decks. A lot of people use that analogy to distinguish between gender and sex: Gender is in the head, and sex is below deck.

The thread starter brings up an interesting question. How do trans women regard us? I haven't asked all of them. I've heard that some of the ladies see us as closeted gays. That's not been my direct experience with the handful of trans women I've met. I'm not offended that someone thinks I'm gay, but I'm disappointed by the narrowness of the view. If a person says to me that she's female, then she's female, regardless of what's below deck. I'm very open to honouring how people identify their gender as a matter of respect for how trans people have been discriminated against.

And as for you, Supersaiyan89, I agree with you. Don't worry so much about the label. You know what you like. As long as everyone is consenting and plays safe, what's the problem?

Yes, I've heard the same thing, that men like us are closeted gays. Never did agree with that theory. I know what I like and I know I'm pretty much not interested in men.

Also, Bailey Jay is definitely one of my favorites lol

[toban]

Are you sure? I'm kind of perplexed about what I am!

You are what you think you are.


Plain and simple.

For the longest time I never knew or even cared about what I thought I was, but now that I think about it I am probably just what I might have thought I was, but how do I know for sure?

I may not have been thinking clearly about what I thought I was and so really I may not actually be what I think I thought I was.

Such a worry!

[Hockeydude89]

For the longest time I never knew or even cared about what I thought I was, but now that I think about it I am probably just what I might have thought I was, but how do I know for sure?

I may not have been thinking clearly about what I thought I was and so really I may not actually be what I think I thought I was.

Such a worry!

I've found that thinking about it drives you insane. It's best not to worry about it to much, for you're own sake.

[OldMediGassed]

[aguyoutthere1]

You either suck cock, or you don't suck cock. You decide what that makes you. Sorry, had to say it.

Then figure out why it matters. We probably only live once, have fun.


KC

[merelypink]

labels do not matter