Do you show your tranny in public?

[merelypink]

sometimes to lunch or a movie

[Forumslut88]

Well said, you hit the nail on the head

agree!!
very good!

[TSFantasia]

I Call Bullshit!

Not saying that a few of you are not the exemption to the rule, but having talked to girls on TG boards/forums and seen the dozens of T-girl You Tubers videos. And from personal experience the answer is NO. Most guys who are attracted to CDs, trannies, t-girls, trans woman view themselves as straight to bi-curious and want everyone else to continue to view them as straight. They suffer from extreme social paranoia and the belief that all people are equipped with X-Ray vision, so doesn't matter how passable you are pre-op! They view us as a fetish sex object and are only interested in seeing us on that basis. Yes a few will go on a date for a few drinks in a location they are confident they will not bump into anyone they know. They do this as it seems like a better option to paying 200-300 for an hour of a T-girl escorts time. A few drinks $40, thinking they are going to get laid immed. after priceless (but not going to happen). And thinking if they satisfy the girl's need for a public date from there it will be all clear sailing midnite booty calls and BJs There may be a few areas of the world, like Thailand, where being out in public and people knowing that you are with a lady-boy/ t-girl is accepted. But for most cities in North America it is kept to wild nights out on the gay bar strip and guys can make up the excuse that they were so wasted they didn't even know where they were or who they were with! Ok that's believable now that we have all seen Hangover 1-4. LOL

[bb420]

i've never left the hotel room.
im always a customer, never a date.

[TSFantasia]

i've never left the hotel room.
im always a customer, never a date.

That is the norm and nothing wrong with that as you are paying for a discreet date and sex hook up. Also have to say that full-time trans women are looking for guys within a certain age and looks range just like GGs. If a 50-70 yr old tries to take a 20-30yr old T-girl out on a regular date likely the answer is NO. Of course each girls preferences are different. For me it's 30-45, 5'10" or taller, and reasonable fit and attractive. For me to date someone outside of that they have to be pretty exceptional in some other areas.

[bb420]

I guess what I really meant is that I'd probably be open to dating a Tgirl publicly.. but the opportunity just hasn't presented itself.
And that's kinda hard to make that jump when I only see working girls...

[Bawb]

I am curious how many do walk the streets, go to restaurants, bars etc with their Tgirl date?

Do you?

I like it when we are out in the open.

Of course!
My current GF is post op TG, very passable, we go out for dinners all the time
We rarely get "the stare".

[candyhilton]

[TSFantasia]

Fetishes Belong In the Bedroom, Private Party or Club

To be fair here to guys its ok to keep your sexual fetishes in private including part-time CDs. I mean you may be into the whole S &M, sub/dom. thing, but no one wants to see you at the mall, restaurant or movie theatre in your leather gear , butt less chaps, with your sub/slave following behind with a dog collar and leash. No one wants to see you out with a stereotypical cross dresser either. These are things for the bedroom, private party or Club. For a TG transitioning, who is living and working fulltime in her gender that's a different story and most are tired of the "discreet booty calls" and are looking for something more substantial than that. Also TGs will knee you in the balls if you call them a "tranny" too. I know a lot in the TG community would disagree, but reality says being passable and attractive is very important. No different in the GG world attractive, feminine girls get asked out more, have more doors opened for them , have more guys tongue tied and stumbling over themselves to chat you up than the girls who are not attractive, overweight, masculine looking, etc.

[VanessaBell]

I loled pretty hard at the thread title. Anyway, if somebody was somehow paranoid about being seen with a trans girl, I'd hope that she'd just tell them to get lost, whether they were paying her or not. Even if it's not totally delusional and the girl doesn't pass, it's still incredibly rude.

[Jim S]

I loled pretty hard at the thread title. Anyway, if somebody was somehow paranoid about being seen with a trans girl, I'd hope that she'd just tell them to get lost, whether they were paying her or not. Even if it's not totally delusional and the girl doesn't pass, it's still incredibly rude.

I totally agree with you Vanessa...I can't even believe this is worthy of being a thread. lol

[TSFantasia]

I loled pretty hard at the thread title. Anyway, if somebody was somehow paranoid about being seen with a trans girl, I'd hope that she'd just tell them to get lost, whether they were paying her or not. Even if it's not totally delusional and the girl doesn't pass, it's still incredibly rude.

Well my point was more of a PT CD, who doesn't pass getting all delusional and demanding that a guy take them out on a date as an un-passable CD. Unless the guy is totally out of the closet gay (and even then) he's not going to go for the idea. CD's can get a lot of smoke blown up their ass by guys on sex sites , who are turned on by the fact they like to dress as girls and have sex that way. The reality check is when a guy won't be seen in public with you.

[VanessaBell]

Well my point was more of a PT CD, who doesn't pass getting all delusional and demanding that a guy take them out on a date as an un-passable CD. Unless the guy is totally out of the closet gay (and even then) he's not going to go for the idea. CD's can get a lot of smoke blown up their ass by guys on sex sites , who are turned on by the fact they like to dress as girls and have sex that way. The reality check is when a guy won't be seen in public with you.

Oh, yeah, I definitely agree with that. I was more talking about the thread overall as it relates to actual trans girls, whether it be in cases of friendship, relationships, or escorting.

[xoxJanexox]

Society perceives t-girls the way t-girls present themselves.
If a girl handles herself with class and integrity, society will view her this way and men will be proud to walk along her side!

I am against segregation and all on favor of integration. Therefore, I tend to enjoy mixing with the mainstream crowds.