Your loss!

[xoxJanexox]

Are gents becoming too insecure these days?

So this is an observation that I have noted while screening my potential clients over the last several months. I have a low threshold for banning clients especially if they don't follow my rules or come up as disrespectful. In other words, nothing about their age, physique etc. Of course I wont risk my discretion and privacy in exchange for money!

Most of the time I decline to see a potential client, I get this nonsense "your loss"! Some even went further!

Like seriously, do you gents think that because you can afford it, it is granted? If a provider declines to see you, there are others that you can try your luck with!

Ladies feel free to comment too!

[Rockheart]

If you are in the Service Industry and you turn away customers, you have to be willing to take some abuse.

I worked in Night clubs for years, and I got told off in a similar or worse manner for everyone we refused to let in or asked to leave. People don't like to be excluded or kicked out and they say, your loss, you'll regret this etc.

Some don't realize though, in a more personal environment like escorting,
that the provider will not be comfortable just seeing everyone.

Of course we all like to fantasize that we will rock the escorts world too.
So it's your loss, you would have creamed the moment you saw me!

[xoxJanexox]

If you are in the Service Industry and you turn away customers, you have to be willing to take some abuse.

I worked in Night clubs for years, and I got told off in a similar or worse manner for everyone we refused to let in or asked to leave. People don't like to be excluded or kicked out and they say, your loss, you'll regret this etc.

Some don't realize though, in a more personal environment like escorting,
that the provider will not be comfortable just seeing everyone.

Of course we all like to fantasize that we will rock the escorts world too.
So it's your loss, you would have creamed the moment you saw me!

Lol, Ya it is my loss!

I agree to a great extent with what you have said.

[MissLucille]

everyboday loses

I agree with both of you lol. Ive been a bouncer and security guard so I get what Crag is getting at. Understanding this I also understand sometimes tolerance for big/false egos is low and I can re-act strongly myself at times ahem. I have ads on some cruising sites where there are non-working girls, so I get the ones who see the pic but don't read the profile. They'll start describing their manly physique etc. I just say"yeah you sound like the guy I had yesterday and he paid just fine and we had lots of fun". It does feel good to vent though no?

[xoxJanexox]

I agree with both of you lol. Ive been a bouncer and security guard so I get what Crag is getting at. Understanding this I also understand sometimes tolerance for big/false egos is low and I can re-act strongly myself at times ahem. I have ads on some cruising sites where there are non-working girls, so I get the ones who see the pic but don't read the profile. They'll start describing their manly physique etc. I just say"yeah you sound like the guy I had yesterday and he paid just fine and we had lots of fun". It does feel good to vent though no?

Not a vent. Just putting something for discussion.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[truck]

Yes it would be your loss..

I know my worth, you dont!
You know your worth I dont!

So we are both taking a chance..Im cool and down to earth..i dont see why you would ever turn me down..Id follow all your instructions or requirements you have prior to seeing you..
If for some reason you turn me down and I follow what you ask, it still maybe your loss...

With me its not about affordability its about the kindness and experience I give you as a client..There are way too many time wasters you encounter..Im the opposite..So yes it would be your loss losing out on a great client..

[dom r]

I worked in Night clubs for years, and I got told off in a similar or worse manner for everyone we refused to let in or asked to leave. People don't like to be excluded or kicked out and they say, your loss, you'll regret this etc.

To refuse a customer into a night club or bar just because hes a man or how hes dressed or how he looks or what kind of car hes driving because such a night club want more females in instead and theyre being picky about which men to let in that will pass their standards is 1000% discrimination when theyll let in almost any female they see. No different than if McDonalds restaurant did the same but McD would be slapped with lawsuits and the bbb would shut them down if they continued so I am extremely surprised that this doesnt happen to the clubs or bars since discrimination is illegal. Although I dunt care because I dont go out to such.

I have a low threshold for banning clients especially if they don't follow my rules or come up as disrespectful. In other words, nothing about their age, physique etc.

Emotions do not lie. Escorts can tell just by the emotion of the person's voice on the phone if hes a good and honest person or if hes up to something.