Recognized while out in public.

[Rantsalot]

I guess this could be asked of everyone.

Ladies. When you are out doing day to day errands has someone ever approached you and say they knew who you were? I am not talking about people who already have met you or know you already but rather a complete stranger. if so what was the experience like? Did they say anything or do anything ridiculous or was it pleasant? How did you deal with the situation?

Guys. While being in the company of a girl have you been approached by a passer by and say they know who your companion was or ask where you met your companion?

These are just a few scenarios of course but I am curious as to how people react in these situations.

[xoxJanexox]

Nice thread!

Nice thread!

You will be actually surprised how many men out there surfing the net looking for t-girls. Since I started posting my pics in Shemale Canada/other sites last year and just few weeks later I started to notice that I am being recognized frequently in public. Lately, this recognition actually became overwhelming!

A major factor behind this overt recognition apart from the unbelievable large numbers of men cruising the net for this purpose is that my picture are not touched and therefore I could be easily spotted.

The experience was actually variable! Most of the time it was flattering and at others it was "non-intentionally" disrespectful and I will comment on both.

On many occasions, I was approached by a guy in the street/night club etc. saying "are you Jane/Miss Jane from Shemale Canada" and when I acknowledge that they reply with a compliment and leave afterward. In my view, this is flattering and there is nothing wrong with it!

Taxi drivers are now a special category of admirers! Most will recognize me and make a short sweet compliment, but others have gone far to take me to the nearest drive thru to buy me a smoothie etc!

Now to the disrespectful part! There were "few" occasions were I was approached in the streets/night clubs for my services as a provider. For example, "Can we go after the club to your place and I am willing to pay you?". These situations are disrespectful, in my view, as I don' solicit or accept solicitation in public. If you have seen my ads then you should know how to contact me for my services. I really believe that they never intended to be disrespectful, but they might lack the knowledge, or etiquette. Now I am not talking here about devoted t-girls clubs like the ones in Toronto or Montreal which I don't go to as they don't match my style, I am simply referring to regular nightclubs.

Also, something that I find annoying is when someone approaches me in public and tries to make a connection! Apart from the fact it is a futile attempt, this is not cool!

[Mutau]

I totally agree with Jane. Making contact with a person for an encounter should only be done following their outlined methodology explained in their adverts or their web site. When one is in public, respect and discretion is the rule of thumb to follow.

[Shyla Wild]

Got off my train once in Ottawa and got in a cab. The cab driver started driving me there when he turns to me and says, "How was your trip Shyla?" I was kinda shocked and asked how he knew me. He answered, "You know how."

I checked into Fantasyland in Edmonton, and after giving him my ID to match my reservation He called me Shyla. I found that strange because nowhere is that name on any of my ID. He must have seen the look on my face because he quickly assured me that he would put me in a room that no one would notice what I was doing, gave me free internet and told me where trannies hang in Edmonton.

As for people that are my clients, I have warned many of my clients not to approach me in public. Discretion works both ways. If a client is out with his family and kids, I am sure he would not want to explain why a TS just came over to say hello. On the same token, I do not want to have to explain to my family who you are and how I know you.

[Alexis]

All the time..

I guess this could be asked of everyone.

Ladies. When you are out doing day to day errands has someone ever approached you and say they knew who you were? I am not talking about people who already have met you or know you already but rather a complete stranger. if so what was the experience like? Did they say anything or do anything ridiculous or was it pleasant? How did you deal with the situation?

Guys. While being in the company of a girl have you been approached by a passer by and say they know who your companion was or ask where you met your companion?

These are just a few scenarios of course but I am curious as to how people react in these situations.

This happens to me all the time here in Vancouver..

My advertising is very aggressive and my pictures are everywhere..

As long as the guy or girl (yes gg's do it too) is respectful it's all good by me..

I'm out and about all day long usually and during the daylight hours..

Everyone on Davie street knows me and I constantly have people saying hi..

Hard to remember everyone sometimes..

[Rantsalot]

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There was just one time when someone recognized the company I was keeping or so they thought. I was at a restaurant with a girl and this guy with 2 of his friends were gawking at the both of us. One kept saying that the girls name was Autumn but it wasn't and things got heated when one of these guys pointed at me then pointed at my companion and started to laugh. I was just about to get up and do something but my date at the time pleaded not too. Long story short the manager of the store kicked the trio out because they were disturbing the other customers.

Other than that nothing really has come to the point where anyone has recognized someone I have been with except as I said in my previous post, unless they knew of them already.

[Ana_Jolie]

As for people that are my clients, I have warned many of my clients not to approach me in public. Discretion works both ways. If a client is out with his family and kids, I am sure he would not want to explain why a TS just came over to say hello. On the same token, I do not want to have to explain to my family who you are and how I know you.

I think you touched on a very good point here. I have not been in this line of work for sometime and I no longer get recognized and appear to be a girl guys have not seen or heard of before when out and approached when with friends who do escort. I have guys proposition me while out in public with these friends. I dont get uppity about the situation or anything but why is it that guys assume that because an escort is with someone that they must as well. What if my friend was with a family member and the family member did not know that she escorted? This is a breech of discretion and a line they would not want us to cross with them. Furthermore unless there is an agreement between both parties I dont find it appropriate to be approaching one or the other outside of original meeting arrangement. Just like the guys the girls have personal lives as well and to separate the two from each other is the best thing to do. As for guys looking to make things as personal as possible I think that maybe an escort is not what you should be searching out then.

[Rockheart]

Since I know alot of tgirls through my websites and doing photoshoots, i have seen alot of girls out and about.

Generally I do not approach a girl if they are out with a guy, unless I know the guy also.
The guy could be a client, or a friend or a boyfriend etc.

I do not assume everyone in their life knows about their escorting or adult modelling.
Plus boyfriends have become very jealous of me before, so I steer clear of boyfriends where possible.

If I see a tgirl out a club where they are alone, or I know it is ok to talk then I may approach them.
Usually if a girl knows me and wants to talk they will come over.

I like to think all the girls remember me but there has been times I have said hi to girl on the street and they at first thought they were being stalked by a client. Now I make sure the girls shows some recognition in her eyes before I say anything.

I would hope the same would hold true if these ladies saw me out with someone.
Usually if they see me around I am probably out with someone they know anyway.

I try to respect privacy first and foremost.

[Shyla Wild]

The thing is, the way I came up with this is kinda funny.

When I was in University, I had the fortune of working at Thursday's Bar in Montreal. Back during my school years, I developed what some people call "A Problem with Alcohol" where I saw it as "A Solution with Alcohol." Well, it didn't take long before our HR department got a hold of this and I found myself in the office. The only way to save my skin was to admit I had a drinking problem (which I didn't) and I got sent to AA. Better than getting suspended....so I thought.

AA sucks. Especially if you are forced to go. In the end, the only positive thing I remember from AA is that my sponsor told me that he would never say hello to us in public in an effort to avoid uncomfortable situations. I applied this to escorting.

Sending a bartender to AA, lol. I should have handed flyers out at meetings; best place to find clients is AA when you are a bartender.

[aguyoutthere1]

I'm in an area I don't expect to see any Tgirls, and one time I was walking with my better half down the path at the beach, and I see this super hot girl walking towards us. So doing that "hey look over there move" so I am not caught staring at a hot girl, Lucy walks by me. it took me a second to realize it was her as I don't expect anyone out that way.

Needless to say it was a one time thing, as I've been back many, many, many times on my own hoping we spontaneously meet and agree to have incredible, uninhibited sex in the nearest possible spot. (many more fantasies) Of course all of the latter part would be wishful thinking on my part, and I'd likely just nod to her.


KC

[PornGuy]

Im out with Ana Mancini all the time and have been with her when she was recognized in 4 different countries. Most of the time people are very respectful from time to time guys are jerks about it But over all its been fun and nice to see it happen.

PG

[Rockheart]

The thing is, the way I came up with this is kinda funny.

When I was in University, I had the fortune of working at Thursday's Bar in Montreal. Back during my school years, I developed what some people call "A Problem with Alcohol" where I saw it as "A Solution with Alcohol." Well, it didn't take long before our HR department got a hold of this and I found myself in the office. The only way to save my skin was to admit I had a drinking problem (which I didn't) and I got sent to AA. Better than getting suspended....so I thought.

AA sucks. Especially if you are forced to go. In the end, the only positive thing I remember from AA is that my sponsor told me that he would never say hello to us in public in an effort to avoid uncomfortable situations. I applied this to escorting.

Sending a bartender to AA, lol. I should have handed flyers out at meetings; best place to find clients is AA when you are a bartender.

That's what the guy on Breaking Bad does.
Goes to addiction support meetings to sell meth to recovering addicts.

[Shyla Wild]

That's what the guy on Breaking Bad does.
Goes to addiction support meetings to sell meth to recovering addicts.

Target Market right there.


Got to love Capitalism.

[ipsofacto]

just funny

I know that I dont respond exactly to that thread but I find that little story funny and I hope its gone be the same for some of you. I was on a train in Germany, I was hungry, and went to the restaurant, all the tables were full except one where there was a young lady who was alone and invited me nicely to join her. We started to talk and she told me she was Brazilian (we were speaking in Spanish since it was the easiest way to comunicate because I don't speak Portuguese nor German and her English was a bit short, but we both were able to manage a bit of Spanish). The more I was looking at her the more I was questioning myself about small details related to her sex. The conversation was friendly and finally I decided to tell her that i knew she had a secret in her jeans. She gave me a big smile and invited me to come on the same side of the seat and she managed to show me the crotch into her pants. The story ends here, she had to leave at the next station probably for a visit to a client.