Ashamed

[Hockeydude89]

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There?s one t-girl though who has made me feel just a bit uncomfortable because of my attraction to girls of the ?T? variety. At one time I must confess that I was even kinda attracted to that particular girl but when she persisted in calling me and all other tranny-chasers by derogatory names like ?FAGGOT? I came to realize that she herself was acting shamefully by criticizing us while eagerly accepting our donations for her financial well being! Now, that is shameful!

IMO, that girl should repent her living this fallacious style of life and instead, hold her head high by refusing to see any of us or to accept any payoff, subsidy or ransom from those she so disrespects and try to rely solely on those selective street pick-ups and video booth trysts she reports on here.

lol I'm sure I know who you mean. If I'm correct, that person is also quite rude among many other things I could say...definitely not somebody I would be interested in either.

[aguyoutthere1]

My View on Life

To be honest, I do think there is some validity in the term "tranny chaser". The fact is, at the end of the day, men want a genetic woman for a traditional relationship cause that's potentially the beginning of a new family. The attraction to T-Girls is all lust.

I can't speak for all T-Girl lovers though.

You got me thinking, first, that you must be young. I too wanted nothing more than to have a spouse, kids, house, dog. The perfect life. There is nothing at all wrong with that, and I truly believe something in the media, or deep down makes us all grow up with that desire. Almost like we aren't normal if we don't want that.

Well after having it, (and I still have it) it is EXTREMELY over rated.

If my life had not been so fucked up, and I could disclose my stories without hurting anyone, I'd write an autobiographical "How To" live a fun life with a chapter (or 2) devoted to "Learn From My Mistakes".

I've been (and I am) in love and it can be great. Usually, real sparks are for less than a year. Unfortunately from my experience and everyone I have ever met (Except ONE couple), It gets boring, stale, taken for granted and simply becomes a long term companion that is nice to have, but you can get that from close friends. (Who don't take half your shit of you break up)

I know it sounds sad, but my advice to anyone, if you really want to settle down, try to really look at it. Be sure. There is so much fun to have simply from freedom. It really is a word you'll forget the meaning of quickly. No matter how cool she is right now. They change, I'm not sure when, or why, but they all change. Control seems to matter all of a sudden. Back in the day where I seemed to need a "girlfriend", I was not secure in myself. Once you are secure with yourself, happy who you are, then doing what you want, when you want is important.

And as far as kids, this society is getting really complicated. With 25% of our workers making minimum wage (whether or not educated) the cost of having 1 child approaches $250,000.00 up to age 22, and lets face it, they never really leave. Again, it really depends on your priorities. With all the foreigners coming to our schools, having better educations to begin with, getting the best jobs, we're not left with much. Add the burden and responsibility to feed, house, clothe and leave an inheritance (cause they will never be able to retire) and you've just made your entire life, about taking care of others. (Again, not a bad thing, but you get lost in it)

Of course if everyone had my mindset, existence would eventually end. Who am I kidding, other countries would take care of that. LOL

Just my spin and advice. Don't do things in life because society, media, parents make you believe it is what you're supposed to do. A road less traveled comes to mind.


KC

[Locomotion]

You got me thinking, first, that you must be young. I too wanted nothing more than to have a spouse, kids, house, dog. The perfect life. There is nothing at all wrong with that, and I truly believe something in the media, or deep down makes us all grow up with that desire. Almost like we aren't normal if we don't want that.

Well after having it, (and I still have it) it is EXTREMELY over rated.

If my life had not been so fucked up, and I could disclose my stories without hurting anyone, I'd write an autobiographical "How To" live a fun life with a chapter (or 2) devoted to "Learn From My Mistakes".

I've been (and I am) in love and it can be great. Usually, real sparks are for less than a year. Unfortunately from my experience and everyone I have ever met (Except ONE couple), It gets boring, stale, taken for granted and simply becomes a long term companion that is nice to have, but you can get that from close friends. (Who don't take half your shit of you break up)

I know it sounds sad, but my advice to anyone, if you really want to settle down, try to really look at it. Be sure. There is so much fun to have simply from freedom. It really is a word you'll forget the meaning of quickly. No matter how cool she is right now. They change, I'm not sure when, or why, but they all change. Control seems to matter all of a sudden. Back in the day where I seemed to need a "girlfriend", I was not secure in myself. Once you are secure with yourself, happy who you are, then doing what you want, when you want is important.

And as far as kids, this society is getting really complicated. With 25% of our workers making minimum wage (whether or not educated) the cost of having 1 child approaches $250,000.00 up to age 22, and lets face it, they never really leave. Again, it really depends on your priorities. With all the foreigners coming to our schools, having better educations to begin with, getting the best jobs, we're not left with much. Add the burden and responsibility to feed, house, clothe and leave an inheritance (cause they will never be able to retire) and you've just made your entire life, about taking care of others. (Again, not a bad thing, but you get lost in it)

Of course if everyone had my mindset, existence would eventually end. Who am I kidding, other countries would take care of that. LOL

Just my spin and advice. Don't do things in life because society, media, parents make you believe it is what you're supposed to do. A road less traveled comes to mind.


KC

Well put.

[TSFantasia]

I would imagine T-Girls have a hard time finding a man, which is a difficult position to be in I'm sure... I don't know that it's so much because of men being "in the closet"... I think it's because T-Girls represent sex objects to them and nothing else. Why else would a man "chase" a T-Girl as opposed to a genetic woman? Because, at the risk of being rude, he wants the unique features that a T-Girl has.

I know that, for instance, a lot of guys will lose interest in a T-Girl once they fully transition, because they lost those special features. Yes, it's wrong, hence why I said it's lust and nothing else. I honestly fall into that category, which is why I only see SPs and would never lead a Trans-Girl on under false pretenses.

I'm sure there are some open-minded guys out there who would have a relationship with a Trans-Girl. I'm just giving my own "corrupt" point of view.

By the way, I find it interesting that you refer to guys who like T-Girls as bi-sexual... I would have defined them as "open-minded straight". You might be right though, cause personally I like girls, pre-op trans girls, cross-dressers, and even the rare guy.

Hmm well I was going to leave this one alone but I can't lol. First off its your personal point of view so its valid for YOU and where you are at this stage in your life. But the "I think it's because T-Girls represent sex objects to them and nothing else. Why else would a man "chase" a T-Girl as opposed to a genetic woman? Because, at the risk of being rude, he wants the unique features that a T-Girl has." part deserves an answer men look for intimate relationships with women because of the unique features they possess too (feminine features, boobs, vagina) but in general because they are attracted to the other person's looks, body, and personality. If there is enough compatibility and mutual interests, etc then an ongoing relationship forms. This is no different if a guy is attracted to a TG woman has strong sexual desire for and then finds he actually enjoys spending time with that person. To rule out a serious relationship is ludicrous. Why spend all your time in a relationship where you are constantly fantasizing about having sex with a TS/TG and constantly looking for that opportunity? A person can receive the same degree of fulfillment, affirmation, companionship , etc with a TG as with a woman with a vagina .
The last guy I was with we dated for 10 months did all the normal things couples do going to movies, dinners, bars, etc plus had great sex. We met on a normal dating site and when I told him I was TG he was taken back but after said he was too attracted to me not to pursue me. After a few dates we started having sex and had sex for first 3 months without him ever seeing my genitals (run that one through your meat grinders...lol).
My point is while a relationship with a TG/TS may not be for you it is defintely something that guys, who find that they are predominately attracted to and fantasize over TG/TSs, should seriously consider and drop all the rude crude pickup lines and approach a TG/TS like you would any woman (yeah I know alot of you guys are always rude and crude! lmao)

[xoxJanexox]

You got me thinking, first, that you must be young. I too wanted nothing more than to have a spouse, kids, house, dog. The perfect life. There is nothing at all wrong with that, and I truly believe something in the media, or deep down makes us all grow up with that desire. Almost like we aren't normal if we don't want that.

Well after having it, (and I still have it) it is EXTREMELY over rated.

If my life had not been so fucked up, and I could disclose my stories without hurting anyone, I'd write an autobiographical "How To" live a fun life with a chapter (or 2) devoted to "Learn From My Mistakes".

I've been (and I am) in love and it can be great. Usually, real sparks are for less than a year. Unfortunately from my experience and everyone I have ever met (Except ONE couple), It gets boring, stale, taken for granted and simply becomes a long term companion that is nice to have, but you can get that from close friends. (Who don't take half your shit of you break up)

I know it sounds sad, but my advice to anyone, if you really want to settle down, try to really look at it. Be sure. There is so much fun to have simply from freedom. It really is a word you'll forget the meaning of quickly. No matter how cool she is right now. They change, I'm not sure when, or why, but they all change. Control seems to matter all of a sudden. Back in the day where I seemed to need a "girlfriend", I was not secure in myself. Once you are secure with yourself, happy who you are, then doing what you want, when you want is important.

And as far as kids, this society is getting really complicated. With 25% of our workers making minimum wage (whether or not educated) the cost of having 1 child approaches $250,000.00 up to age 22, and lets face it, they never really leave. Again, it really depends on your priorities. With all the foreigners coming to our schools, having better educations to begin with, getting the best jobs, we're not left with much. Add the burden and responsibility to feed, house, clothe and leave an inheritance (cause they will never be able to retire) and you've just made your entire life, about taking care of others. (Again, not a bad thing, but you get lost in it)

Of course if everyone had my mindset, existence would eventually end. Who am I kidding, other countries would take care of that. LOL

Just my spin and advice. Don't do things in life because society, media, parents make you believe it is what you're supposed to do. A road less traveled comes to mind.


KC

This line of advice worth a fortune! And you wonder why only few people make a fortune! Because the vast majority conform with the society stereotypes and lead an "ordinary" life!

[candyhilton]

while were on the topic of tranny chasers...

I feel bad that tgirls give any tranny chaser the time of day... However, its their job to service u men, so they have to tolerate u guys at leaste.

I'm so happy I quit escorting as of Nov 2012... now I don't even have to acknowledge the "hey baby" or "hows it goin'?" from tranny chasers.

I wish Toronto's street sanitation trucks would just swoop in and clean them up off the streets

[Alexis]

New hobby..

I think I'm going to start a new hobby..

Stalking tranny chasers!

Follow them instead.. see where they go and where they live..

Take pictures and keep them for future reference..

I got the idea in June from a girl I met in Toronto..

She's a professional stalker.. really cute one too.. from Montreal..

I already stalk my haters.. so may as well stalk the chasers too..

Maybe some of them overlap.. have to find out..

But seriously.. the chasers and admirers are not a problem.. I'm faltered honestly..

The haters on the other hand.. well most of them are trannies.. that need a bitchslap..

[hercules09]

Maybe I don't understand the term Tranny Chaser.

I am attracted to T-girls. I like and respect the effort they put into their femininity. On occasion, I will see a T-girl escort. I will treat her respectfully and professionally because while I know the money may be attractive, there is a lot of crap they have to put up with. I would never disrespect any escort by haggling over rates or bothering them during their own private time.

[Hockeydude89]

while were on the topic of tranny chasers...

I feel bad that tgirls give any tranny chaser the time of day... However, its their job to service u men, so they have to tolerate u guys at leaste.

I'm so happy I quit escorting as of Nov 2012... now u dont even have to acknowledge a "hey baby" or "hows it goin'?" from tranny chasers.

I wish Toronto's street sanitation trucks would just swoop in and clean them up off the streets

See the problem there is most genetic girls are just as likely to get "hey baby" or "how's it going" as a t-girl....a lot ofpeople say "approach us like you would any other girl" but when you approach a t-girl like you would a genetic girl with a line like "Hey, how are you doing," how could it possibly be considered the way you would approach a regular girl when automatically they assume you only want them because they are a t-girl...it's all very contradictive, and gives me a real head ache lol. Face it. If I walked up to you and just said "hi," chances are you would over react and assume I'm a douche bag pervert, even if I really am JUST trying to make friendly conversation.

[aguyoutthere1]

My thoughts on the girls that say they don't like to be "chased":

I have to wonder, when you get older, and are no longer attractive, will you reflect on the days you were chased, and it will bring a smile to your lips?

I say this because I spend way too much time in a gym trying to "stay in shape". Who am I kidding, when I get the chance and the shirt can come off, at times I'll see women looking and whispering, it does wonders for my ego. (They are probably saying "look at that old dude trying to be hot". LOL) It's a good thing my cock is not huge, because it would fall out all the time by "accident".

I know that being flattered it will always bring me fond memories. I suspect that we all enjoy being flattered for the things we've worked hard at.

Oh, I do agree stalking is way different. A tranny chaser is not necessarily a tranny stalker. I check out craiglist at times looking to chase a tranny for fun. Does that make me a tranny chaser? DAMN RIGHT IT DOES. I'm rarely a tranny catcher though, unless I pay.


KC

[handpuppetboy]

I think the only frustration on the part of us tg women comes just like any women when guys are only interested in a booty call without real dating or relationships but again those of us escorting that is exactly what we want

I have offered quite a few times to take some ladies out from this site when they came to town (without expectations or ulterior motives) in the hopes of getting to know the person behind the typing, all but one declined.

Funny thing is though, they also complain about meeting someone serious, and not in a client/provider setting.

[handpuppetboy]

I'm rarely a tranny catcher though, unless I pay. KC

That seems to be all that most of them want is cash, eventhough they rant about wanting not to be treated as a piece of sex meat, and looking for someone that will enjoy their company without a booty call involved.

[aguyoutthere1]

That seems to be all that most of them want is cash, eventhough they rant about wanting not to be treated as a piece of sex meat, and looking for someone that will enjoy their company without a booty call involved.

I know with many women it is that they say they really want a nice guy to have a normal relationship with, but in truth they want a bad boy and an incredibly abnormal relationship.

Let me tell you from experience, normal gets very boring, and if one person in a couple likes the excitement, they will stray. (Guess what one I am?)


KC

[candyhilton]

Hockeydude89,
guys like u solicit tgirls NON STOP in hopes that they can get free sex.
On a typical Sat night I'll get hit on 25 to 50 times depending on what city I'm in (ALL looking for a freebie).

Tgirls that buy into this bullshit are dumb fucks, and I highly discourage ANY tgirl from giving freebie's (I tell guys "get in line... because there's 1000 guys ahead of you" and their like "oh come on!")

if guys wanna rent a tgirl, u guys can pay (or go be a cheap fuck and jack off to tgirl porn)

[TSFantasia]

I have offered quite a few times to take some ladies out from this site when they came to town (without expectations or ulterior motives) in the hopes of getting to know the person behind the typing, all but one declined.

Funny thing is though, they also complain about meeting someone serious, and not in a client/provider setting.

I get your point and don't doubt your sincerity but guess I would be the same way if I was travelling , paying for flights, hotels, etc to be somewhere for a few days you have to be ready and available for calls on short notice and taking a date you would only be perceived as rude for handling calls/emails to setup appts while on the date.
If I want a date date I have profiles on POF and AFF and I don't try to turn interested guys into paying clients as that's not what they are looking for on there and I think its just a sleazy thing to do. Guys who want to get straight to the point ..or tip as it may apply .. and don't mind paying know where SMC and BP ads are.