So I've seen this dilemma/conundrum pop up in a few posts lately and I know the responses will vary depending on geographical location (more crazies/psychos/scam artists/blackmailers in larger cities?). How do you properly balance a SPs right to operate with a satisfactory degree of personal security and safety with the clients right to enjoy their "hobbying", extramarital indiscretions, etc with the discretion and privacy they expect and need?
No SP wants to be a victim of a Robert Pickton, Jeffrey Dahmer, Craigslist killer, etc. On the other side no client wants to be a victim of a scam artist, blackmailer or even a reputable SPs black book (digital or otherwise) falling into the wrong hands and ruining their marriage, relationship, career or reputation.
So as a client what are you comfortable with and feel is fair info to divulge to a SP in booking an appt?
My personal view is I book most of my appts via emails and texts. Texts gives you the person's phone # so its not a "blocked call". I only give my cell # for last hr confirmation and to give my address to the client and to briefly chat. I don't have FBI or CSIS access to phone/cell records so really if they tell me they are John Smith well I have no way of knowing otherwise. I only do outcalls to major hotels (unless they are an established client) I ask for their Hotel name and room # and look up the Hotel # in the yellow pages/google. This is to verify that the person is in that room at that hotel and I'm not being sent on a wild goose chase or prank! If it is a 4-5 star hotel and won't let me through without giving the guests full name then the client can give me their first name and they can call the front desk and ask that "my friend Suzie, Sally, trannybigboobs lol...be put through when she calls."
I think safety calls are a good idea for any SP to make to a friend or fellow SP "I'm here with John Smith here at Room # at Hotel ****. I will check in with you within an hr". Of couse this may make some clients nervous thinking they maybe getting setup for a BF/GF scam. But I think most major Escort Agencies have their girls practice this and it is part of the terms you agree to when you book an appt. This safety call is a good idea even for incalls that a friend knows to expect a call/text back from you at a certain time.
Anyways those are my thoughts. Your turn
No SP wants to be a victim of a Robert Pickton, Jeffrey Dahmer, Craigslist killer, etc. On the other side no client wants to be a victim of a scam artist, blackmailer or even a reputable SPs black book (digital or otherwise) falling into the wrong hands and ruining their marriage, relationship, career or reputation.
So as a client what are you comfortable with and feel is fair info to divulge to a SP in booking an appt?
My personal view is I book most of my appts via emails and texts. Texts gives you the person's phone # so its not a "blocked call". I only give my cell # for last hr confirmation and to give my address to the client and to briefly chat. I don't have FBI or CSIS access to phone/cell records so really if they tell me they are John Smith well I have no way of knowing otherwise. I only do outcalls to major hotels (unless they are an established client) I ask for their Hotel name and room # and look up the Hotel # in the yellow pages/google. This is to verify that the person is in that room at that hotel and I'm not being sent on a wild goose chase or prank! If it is a 4-5 star hotel and won't let me through without giving the guests full name then the client can give me their first name and they can call the front desk and ask that "my friend Suzie, Sally, trannybigboobs lol...be put through when she calls."
I think safety calls are a good idea for any SP to make to a friend or fellow SP "I'm here with John Smith here at Room # at Hotel ****. I will check in with you within an hr". Of couse this may make some clients nervous thinking they maybe getting setup for a BF/GF scam. But I think most major Escort Agencies have their girls practice this and it is part of the terms you agree to when you book an appt. This safety call is a good idea even for incalls that a friend knows to expect a call/text back from you at a certain time.
Anyways those are my thoughts. Your turn
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