What about real relationships?

[Guest]

Good advice.

Hi,

For all the guys who are looking for a loving LTR with a t-girl you won't find them in here, as this is basically an escort site.

You seriously think an escort really wants to date a guy who looks for "love" in place like this? Get real!

At best, the only way i can see that happening is if you hire a girl many many times and eventually she might fall in love with you. She "MIGHT" fall in love.
I love several of my regulars - but they have wives and girlfriends. I doubt they want ME to replace the woman they have. I am a sex worker. Do you think he wants me to share myself with others 'if i "love" him'.

You want to meet a t-girl, for love? Don't go to an escort site. Try maybe to hang around where TSs have organized support groups, and when you see one you like leaving the group, ask her to go for a coffee, and start slow. But don't stalk them, of course.
Lots of girls who attend support groups are looking for love and acceptance. I know several girls who are in LTRs with loving, faithful guys. They live together and everything, but the girls are NOT escorts. Just be sincere and honest and be ready to wait it out and date her respectfully. As there is no money involved, you are not guaranteed any sex.

If she says she's an escort, forget it. It won't work as her head space is not on "love"
and "togetherness".

You guys come here and fall in lust with kinky pics and videos meant to advertise her services, and you want that as a girlfriend. You can't see it but it's a little misguided on your part!
Coming to an escort site and asking for love means, "I like trannys but i am too broke to pay for one. Please love me for that. Please?"

It's, sort of, like meeting a genetic woman who only wants to be around you for money loans or to get free lifts to places, and you get nothing from her, not even the money you've loaned her. Sound enticing, guys?

In the meantime, i am sure all the girls in here would be more than happy to entertain you for a while - as an escort.

Good luck, fellers,
Babe,
xoxo

[rider014]

Good edit

Hi,

For all the guys who are looking for a loving LTR with a t-girl you won't find them in here, as this is basically an escort site.

You seriously think an escort really wants to date a guy who looks for "love" in place like this? Get real!

At best, the only way i can see that happening is if you hire a girl many many times and eventually she might fall in love with you. She "MIGHT" fall in love.
I love several of my regulars - but they have wives and girlfriends. I doubt they want ME to replace the woman they have. I am a sex worker. Do you think he wants me to share myself with others 'if i "love" him'.

You want to meet a t-girl, for love? Don't go to an escort site. Try maybe to hang around where TSs have organized support groups, and when you see one you like leaving the group, ask her to go for a coffee, and start slow. But don't stalk them, of course.
Lots of girls who attend support groups are looking for love and acceptance. I know several girls who are in LTRs with loving, faithful guys. They live together and everything, but the girls are NOT escorts. Just be sincere and honest and be ready to wait it out and date her respectfully. As there is no money involved, you are not guaranteed any sex.

If she says she's an escort, forget it. It won't work as her head space is not on "love"
and "togetherness".

You guys come here and fall in lust with kinky pics and videos meant to advertise her services, and you want that as a girlfriend. You can't see it but it's a little misguided on your part!
Coming to an escort site and asking for love means, "I like trannys but i am too broke to pay for one. Please love me for that. Please?"

It's, sort of, like meeting a genetic woman who only wants to be around you for money loans or to get free lifts to places, and you get nothing from her, not even the money you've loaned her. Sound enticing, guys?

In the meantime, i am sure all the girls in here would be more than happy to entertain you for a while - as an escort.

Good luck, fellers,
Babe,
xoxo

If I read this right the first time I was sure I saw the word creep somewhere in a direct shot at clients. Good job on the edit as that really could have opened Pandora's box. Also you are so right in your assessment.

[Kylie Storm]

ok first the whole thing about ts wanting to be with another ts in a relationship i really doubt that.......maybe in canada and yes i have noticed this in canada but where i have lived all of my life in NYC and all over the states and a bit in europe you do not see that happening. As far as a relationship with a man for me its just not in my cards ,never wanted one and still don't,but i think that it is a possibility for a man to have a relationship with a twirl escort i gues she would have to be willing to give up the good money and business all together , i mean one of my best freind did it in the states. She now lives on a huge farm land(she always dreamed of that) near chicago and very happy with her man and yes she was an escort but got tired of that life. And i must say they live verrrry well.

[Guest]

Oh well, let me explain...

If I read this right the first time I was sure I saw the word creep somewhere in a direct shot at clients. Good job on the edit as that really could have opened Pandora's box. Also you are so right in your assessment.

Hi rider,

Thanks for the comment.

No, i didn't call "clients" creeps. I substituted the word "creepy" for "misguided" to describe men who are NOT clients and only come to an escort site looking for LTRs because they don't know WHERE to look for that type of t-girl.
I, oftentimes, use the wrong words to express myself clearly.

I am not ashamed of what i wrote and edited out. Nice of you to point that out though .
I just thought that the word "creepy" was, perhaps, a little harsh to call misguided men who only want real loving LTRs from professional escorts in general.

I am notorious for editing my posts until they are as i want them to appear.

Babe,
xoxo

[rider014]

Hi rider,

Thanks for the comment.

No, i didn't call "clients" creeps. I substituted the word "creepy" for "misguided" to describe men who are NOT clients and only come to an escort site looking for LTRs because they don't know WHERE to look for that type of t-girl.
I, oftentimes, use the wrong words to express myself clearly.

I am not ashamed of what i wrote and edited out. Nice of you to point that out though .
I just thought that the word "creepy" was, perhaps, a little harsh to call misguided men who only want real loving LTRs from professional escorts in general.

I am notorious for editing my posts until they are as i want them to appear.

Babe,
xoxo

Just making sure my eyes didn't deceive me, I'm not that young anymore lol. That is why I commended you. Have a great week

[Guest]

oh well

Oh well

[Bawb]

I'd like to clarify that this was not about dating an escort but just a question for twomen in general. It just seems that every site is purely porn or for escorts. Many seem to ignore the larger community as a whole. I can understand about twomen worrying about men only wanting one thing or them being insecure about the situation as those concerns make plenty of sense, just feels like real relationships are incredibly difficult from what I see. Many twomen seem to avoid them all together. Just my observation.

I think TG women are not different than the rest of humanity, they are people, and most people are social creatures who look for a relationship. The gender issue complicates this because the overwhelming majority of men and women cannot\will not enter an association with people don't fit the vanilla world.

I recently started a relationship with a post-op MtF TG, she was celibate for many years before deciding to "put herself out there" with an ad on craigslist. She had health, self-esteem, and career issues to sort out.
Am I glad she chose me; best thing that's happened to me all year!

[Guest]

And you're here?

Hi bawb,

Don't take this post the wrong way, please.

I am just wondering.
Does she know you come here and drool over all the porn pics and stuff?

Do you think she would mind that you still have your eyes on pre op t-girls?
Do you think she would question your motives?

I mean, she was alone for so long, don't you think if she found out you are here that she might be...unsure of you?
I mean, if she is "the best thing that happened to you all year".
This year is up in two months....

Personally speaking, if i was ever going to get involved with a man (as i am now) for an LTR, i would seriously wonder where i am fitting in his life if i found out he still chose to visit sites like this.

She is a post op, and meets a straight guy who accepts her as a post op, M-->F transsexual woman, i don't think she would really like the idea of you gawking at other girls' breasts and private parts on the internet maybe even stroking while fantasizing of others. A site full of escorts.
I wouldn't feel like i was the "best thing that happened to you all year" if i were her and saw you here.

Am i wrong?
Or is she just a disposable 'love' affair?
I am being sincere.

Babe,
xoxo

[Cookie Cox]

At my age, I've been in SEVERAL long-term-ish relationships. I don't think they're any different from any other relationship, whether between a genetic man and woman, two women, two men, or anyone else. Whether your partner is full time tg and how passable they are DOES make a difference. Especially if you're going to bring her home to meet Mom!
Getting naked in front of strangers or having sex for money, whatever the setting, can DEFINITELY lead to jealousy issues with your long term partner! I'm sure similar problems arise with genetic women too. Ultimately, I think wanting a long term relationship comes with maturity (and age!), whatever your sexual identity.