The Gross Fat Old Clients!

[TSFantasia]

Relax I'll Do The Bumping, Pumping & Grinding

A big thank you to Jane and Alexis. As one of those about whom this tread was written, I really appreciate your taking the time to discuss this important subject. I of course agree that good hygiene is of the utmost importance. I have been lucky I guess in that the girls I have seen share your opinions on this subject. Twice I have been asked to submit a picture which tells me that the SP is looking for a hot stud, so I just passed on seeing them. Thanks also to Babe and Fantasia for their comments. Having a heart attack is something I have thought about. Once when I was with Asia, I became kind of light headed and my vision was a bit blurry for a few minutes. When you get to be my age and weight I guess it's best to take it easy and let the SP do most of the work, LOL.

I find my longest most loyal clients to be men in their 50's and 60"s (If they are in their 70's they aren't telling me and hiding their age very well). Some in their 40's also . Guys younger tend to be just checking the fantasy trannie/t-girl fetish thing off their list or seeing how many t-girl notches they can get on their belt. In other words they tend to be one-timers at least as far as individual SPs is concerned. And yes I make sure I do most of the bumping, pumping, and grinding regardless of the position we find ourselves in with my older clients. If I find them getting too frisky & winded I will back them off and take over. "You hold still I will do the work!" LOL. This is also an important factor for older men to maintain an erection, which is just as much about blood flow as it is sexual arousal. If all the blood starts rushing to the lungs, legs, etc, then there will be a falling of pressure in the most crucial area!!

[xoxJanexox]

It was acknowledged by several ladies in prior pages (seems they've since been removed) that it's common knowledge that the young, hung stud may receive better service. Bathing, respect, attitude were all discussed. I mentioned my age (58) which is what prompted me to respond as I feel that my dollar is as good as anybody else's so, I want the same service and treatment. I suppose it comes down to acting at times.

Can you please explain which posts were removed? I didn't notice any posts to have been removed.

[rider014]

Uh ya think?

It was acknowledged by several ladies in prior pages (seems they've since been removed) that it's common knowledge that the young, hung stud may receive better service. Bathing, respect, attitude were all discussed. I mentioned my age (58) which is what prompted me to respond as I feel that my dollar is as good as anybody else's so, I want the same service and treatment. I suppose it comes down to acting at times.

And we have a bingo

[Guest]

In need of a nurse?

Hi to all the more mature, overweight, balding gentlemen,

Do you need a nurse to take care of you and give you a nice warm soapy sponge bath?
Well, look no further - i'm here!

I just need to figure out how this darned stethoscope works. Where does that thermometer go again?


I am not REAL nurse, see my black shoes?

Nurse Dahlia,
xoxo

[Jim S]

Well.... Not sure how to read into this comment... A sincere thanks or a sarcastic backhanded compliment?

I could leave this statement as is or, as usual, put my now extinct 2 pennies of thought into this, as the Baclofen,Lenoltec, and Naproxen(look it up, don't ask) have kicked in quite well. Mondays haven't been my favorite day of the week lately!

First impressions have been, are, and will always be the most important factor in how one person treats another, more so in brief encounters aka a one night stand or a one hour session. It's called human nature. In my younger days, being an athlete and having my weight, body fat % etc. monitored on a regular basis, and now... Let's just say if I ever get a flat tire, I'm in no trouble, the differences in the initial perception from the opposite sex was night and day even before I uttered a sound.

For an SP to claim that she treats everyone the same, well I have a hard time buying that one. Respect, dignity, and gratitude, yes that I can see, but enthusiasm and service quality, hmmmm kinda doubt it. Do I have any proof of this in the SP world, not really, only the reviews where the provider can have varying degrees of levels of satisfaction by the clients. I bet if the clients for some of the providers with different views were lined up, I could put money on the ones that didn't have a good experience,and come out ahead!

There are a few with excellent reviews across the board and those girls should be commended for their ability to leave their clients satisfied, as I'm sure not all of them were of the same type.

Seems to be that the only complaint about the young, hard bodied studs is that they think they should get a discount. If none of these studs complained about the money, would they be an issue here at all?

Try an imaginary experiment, take the six pack, twenty something, 9 inch cocked guy, then take the forty something, pudgy, 6 incher, and tell me who you will be more enthusiastic to be in a session with. Oh ya neither of them can speak, they're mutes.

From a client's perspective, you'll never know if you are being treated different than the guy that was there an hour ago.

I'll clear that up for you....it was a sincere thank you, I really appreciate when a girl agrees to see me and provides excellent service. I do own a mirror and I am old but I'm sure not dead. When ever I am seeking out a girl to see, I always ask if age is an issue. I could never find fault in he truth, so if girl says she doesn't see older gentlemen, I thank them. I would rather that then wasting time and money on someone that was repulsed by the thought of seeing an older guy. The isn't always pretty but it is always the truth.

[rider014]

Pleeease!

Nurse Dahlia,
xoxo

If you're good with slipped disks, sign me up. Goes with the territory of being OLD I guess lol

[Gypsy1955]

Gross fat old

Can you please explain which posts were removed? I didn't notice any posts to have been removed.

My mistake. No pages have been removed. I got confused in that this topic is a result of a prior client review where the client was asked to show some respect for others. The client wasn't happy with the provider saying that he wasn't fat, old and gross, that he was good looking, fit and hung therefore he should have gotten better service. At 58 I might be good looking, fit and hung (above average anyway) but it appears my mind isn't what it used to be. Sorry if I created any confusion. I also agree with you because maybe the old, fat, person who are reading these blogs see themselves and it can be degrading and hurtful. Respect for all!!

[TSFantasia]

Gross is bad hygiene

I will refuse to top a lot of guys if they can't give me a reasonable explanation has too how they prepped themselves to be topped. But this falls under the hygiene category regardless of age. As I'm an escort and not a nurse in the sense of dealing with people's excrement . If a guy is morbidly obese I will not top him just out of the sheer mechanics as I don't have a 12 inch dick for starters!

[Alexis]

Thanks..

I'll clear that up for you....it was a sincere thank you, I really appreciate when a girl agrees to see me and provides excellent service. I do own a mirror and I am old but I'm sure not dead. When ever I am seeking out a girl to see, I always ask if age is an issue. I could never find fault in he truth, so if girl says she doesn't see older gentlemen, I thank them. I would rather that then wasting time and money on someone that was repulsed by the thought of seeing an older guy. The isn't always pretty but it is always the truth.

Thanks..

I dunno.. I'm pretty unbiased but I am a bitch. I have strict screening and I am picky about the clients I see..

I have a lot of fun with guys that are very average.. Their personalities and sincerity make me comfortable..

Big muscular hung studs.. Yes please fuck my brains out and know I'm going to be nervous.. lol..

I'd still prefer they be in their 40+'s tho and not their 20's..

Fucking young twinks is ok too I suppose..

But everyone is an individual and I know lots of really awesome guys of all shapes, sizes, ages, races, etc..

[Gypsy1955]

I will refuse to top a lot of guys if they can't give me a reasonable explanation has too how they prepped themselves to be topped. But this falls under the hygiene category regardless of age. As I'm an escort and not a nurse in the sense of dealing with people's excrement . If a guy is morbidly obese I will not top him just out of the sheer mechanics as I don't have a 12 inch dick for starters!

From my perspective I couldn't imagine visiting a lady and not be impeccably clean including clean shaved down yonder, as I would expect from the lady. But, you ask me how I prepped...I lie, I tell you what I have to say, I put water rinse up there, whatever, but in fact I didn't do anything. How would you know until after the session started? But externally, clean mouth..check, hair..check, body..check, feet..check. As for topping me I wouldn't know how to prep for that. It will never happen to me, nothing goes in! At least not there. But I guess not I'm talking as an individual.

[Jim S]

Thanks..

I dunno.. I'm pretty unbiased but I am a bitch. I have strict screening and I am picky about the clients I see..

I have a lot of fun with guys that are very average.. Their personalities and sincerity make me comfortable..

Big muscular hung studs.. Yes please fuck my brains out and know I'm going to be nervous.. lol..

I'd still prefer they be in their 40+'s tho and not their 20's..

Fucking young twinks is ok too I suppose..

But everyone is an individual and I know lots of really awesome guys of all shapes, sizes, ages, races, etc..

In fact I don't just tell the provider I'm an older guy, I will often text over a pic, (God I hate the term provider) so the girl has all the facts prior to agreeing to seeing me.

[TSFantasia]

From my perspective I couldn't imagine visiting a lady and not be impeccably clean including clean shaved down yonder, as I would expect from the lady. But, you ask me how I prepped...I lie, I tell you what I have to say, I put water rinse up there, whatever, but in fact I didn't do anything. How would you know until after the session started? But externally, clean mouth..check, hair..check, body..check, feet..check. As for topping me I wouldn't know how to prep for that. It will never happen to me, nothing goes in! At least not there. But I guess not I'm talking as an individual.

Right you are and I deal with it but surprising how honest guys are here.. must be a prairie thing..lol. Had more of an issue when I didn't ask as I assumed guys, who spent a lot of time as bottoms and playing with dildos, knew this as common knowledge...apparently not.

[Gypsy1955]

Right you are and I deal with it but surprising how honest guys are here.. must be a prairie thing..lol. Had more of an issue when I didn't ask as I assumed guys, who spent a lot of time as bottoms and playing with dildos, knew this as common knowledge...apparently not.

YIKES!!! Scary thought!

[rider014]

Amen Brother!

From my perspective I couldn't imagine visiting a lady and not be impeccably clean including clean shaved down yonder, as I would expect from the lady. But, you ask me how I prepped...I lie, I tell you what I have to say, I put water rinse up there, whatever, but in fact I didn't do anything. How would you know until after the session started? But externally, clean mouth..check, hair..check, body..check, feet..check. As for topping me I wouldn't know how to prep for that. It will never happen to me, nothing goes in! At least not there. But I guess not I'm talking as an individual.

Have no fear, you are not alone in here with your views of being topped! And I absolutely agree with being clean head to toe when when going to see a SP. To show up filthy and gross just doesn't make any sense as you would be setting yourself up for a disaster. She'd take one sniff and I could guarantee you would be treated different.

[Gypsy1955]

Being topped

Have no fear, you are not alone in here with your views of being topped! And I absolutely agree with being clean head to toe when when going to see a SP. To show up filthy and gross just doesn't make any sense as you would be setting yourself up for a disaster. She'd take one sniff and I could guarantee you would be treated different.

I'm not afraid of being topped...I have no desire to be topped lol