The Gross Fat Old Clients!

[TSFantasia]

This thread is simply premised on what I have clearly mentioned on my first post. A phenomenon that I have seen "on many occasions" by some members of the community (Both Clients and Sps).

This thread is a good opportunity for people to see both sides of the argument. Looks and preferences are very subjective in nature. You might be attracted to white guys and I might be attracted to black guys and vice verse. You might be attracted to young and I might be attracted to older gents and vice verse.

I am a young provider and don't see young clients (less than 30 years) except rarely. I don't label them and when I accept to see one I treat them nicely. On a personal level I am not into young guys as well.

Also, having a preference for something is one thing and treating people nicely is another thing.

Also, for those obsessed with their looks and six packs, if they were that good, why they are resorting for money in exchange of intimacy?

Agreed every ones preferences and what characteristics/traits they find attractive/turn ons in a person is different. My point being when you come across those in a client its ok to enjoy yourself a little more . As for the good looking guys exchanging money for intimacy can be the same reasons the older, overweight, etc. guys do:1) They are attached and need to keep it discreet and seeing an escort is less complicated and risky than having a GF on the side. 2)With T-Girls because they have no intention of dating or being in a relationship with a T-Girl but still want the experience.

[superquad1968]

Also, for those obsessed with their looks and six packs, if they were that good, why they are resorting for money in exchange of intimacy?

Jane, I've read you a lot and you are a smart woman but this is a faulty premise. Not to mention, that's stereotyping us beautiful people.

As the saying goes (I think it was Charlie Sheen. Who knows), "I'm paying you to leave". Also, they're not paying for "intimacy": they're paying for sex. If a client goes to an escort for intimacy, he's not going to get it. Fake intimacy is not intimacy.

People pay to get their rocks off for a multitude of reasons; time, laziness, "sure thing", etc.

* I will now fade back into the wall

[Gypsy1955]

Fat old gross

Jane, I've read you a lot and you are a smart woman but this is a faulty premise. Not to mention, that's stereotyping us beautiful people.

As the saying goes (I think it was Charlie Sheen. Who knows), "I'm paying you to leave". Also, they're not paying for "intimacy": they're paying for sex. If a client goes to an escort for intimacy, he's not going to get it. Fake intimacy is not intimacy.

People pay to get their rocks off for a multitude of reasons; time, laziness, "sure thing", etc.

* I will now fade back into the wall

I would like to agree with you but for one little observation. Fake intimacy for sure from the escort, if it's real in the clients mind...then the escort did a good job and the client got the intimate sex session that was wanted.

[cameeindos]

Most men who pay for it (whether GG or TS) IMO do it for the fun, for easy sex without using game and thus to "supplement" regular sex. to say only sad/ugly losers pay for it is a misconception.


It's like Charlie Harper in Two and a Half men. he was a man whore, but had just as much paid sex and gamed sex lol..

[xoxJanexox]

Jane, I've read you a lot and you are a smart woman but this is a faulty premise. Not to mention, that's stereotyping us beautiful people.

As the saying goes (I think it was Charlie Sheen. Who knows), "I'm paying you to leave". Also, they're not paying for "intimacy": they're paying for sex. If a client goes to an escort for intimacy, he's not going to get it. Fake intimacy is not intimacy.

People pay to get their rocks off for a multitude of reasons; time, laziness, "sure thing", etc.

* I will now fade back into the wall

There is no stereotyping here, but rather a disturbing reality to the inflated egos. Please note that I am not directing this at you personally.

I have nothing about people who were gifted by the nature with their good looks but what I really find disturbing is when the "beautiful" guys play the good looks in the escorting department. You are "beautiful" then go ahead a hook up any of the girls you would pay for in a Saturday night.

I hit straight clubs all the time, do you know what it the competition factor for good looking guys in a Thursday night, let alone a Saturday night?

You are busy, lazy, you want the "sure" thing, then the Gross Fat and Old Clients can plead the same cause!

[superquad1968]

There is no stereotyping here, but rather a disturbing reality to the inflated egos. Please note that I am not directing this at you personally.

I have nothing about people who were gifted by the nature with their good looks but what I really find disturbing is when the "beautiful" guys play the good looks in the escorting department. You are "beautiful" then go ahead a hook up any of the girls you would pay for in a Saturday night.

I hit straight clubs all the time, do you know what it the competition factor for good looking guys in a Thursday night, let alone a Saturday night?

You are busy, lazy, you want the "sure" thing, then the Gross Fat and Old Clients can plead the same cause!

Thanks for the response, Jane.

Do the "beautiful girls" get a pass? Or is this a "gender" thing. I'd suggest not because both play on their genetics in all aspects of life.

Your premise, I think, was "beautiful people" don't need/shouldn't use escorts because they have their looks. In other words, "If they were all that, then they don't need to call you". My observation was that your reasoning why they go pro was faulty.

Perhaps you missed my point. Some guys go the "pro" route so they don't have to do "the club thing" and play the game in the club. (like me, they may be 20 years past that). Hence, the busy, lazy, sure-thing reasons for sex worker use. There are people with differing motivations to call you. That's all.

And yes, the "Gross Fat and Old Clients" can use those reasons also. They may work 60 hours a week and don't have the time to do the "wooing" thing. Besides, paying you for their jollies may work out to be economically advantageous for them. If they can keep their heads (the top one) straight, psychologically advantageous as well.

BTW, to be clear, those "beautiful people" who try to play the "beautiful people" card in any aspect of life should always be knocked down a peg or be pegged. Either is good for me.

Cheers,

Dave

[superquad1968]

I would like to agree with you but for one little observation. Fake intimacy for sure from the escort, if it's real in the clients mind...then the escort did a good job and the client got the intimate sex session that was wanted.

Perhaps, but for me, intimacy only occurs between two (or more if you're lucky) people with true feelings for each other.

Fake anything, by definition, is not real.

Cheers,

[xoxJanexox]

Thanks for the response, Jane.

Do the "beautiful girls" get a pass? Or is this a "gender" thing. I'd suggest not because both play on their genetics in all aspects of life.

Your premise, I think, was "beautiful people" don't need/shouldn't use escorts because they have their looks. In other words, "If they were all that, then they don't need to call you". My observation was that your reasoning why they go pro was faulty.

Perhaps you missed my point. Some guys go the "pro" route so they don't have to do "the club thing" and play the game in the club. (like me, they may be 20 years past that). Hence, the busy, lazy, sure-thing reasons for sex worker use. There are people with differing motivations to call you. That's all.

And yes, the "Gross Fat and Old Clients" can use those reasons also. They may work 60 hours a week and don't have the time to do the "wooing" thing. Besides, paying you for their jollies may work out to be economically advantageous for them. If they can keep their heads (the top one) straight, psychologically advantageous as well.

BTW, to be clear, those "beautiful people" who try to play the "beautiful people" card in any aspect of life should always be knocked down a peg or be pegged. Either is good for me.

Cheers,

Dave

I think that all people of legal age should see escorts lol.

My reasoning was meant to address those who lack the sensitivity toward others, in my opinion.

If they want to brag "good looking", sorry this is not what escorting is about.
If they want to brag "good looking", let's prove it on a practical level.

You might be surprised that the most hansom clients I have ever seen never actually mentioned anything about themselves. Overselling is always deceiving

[dom r]

Yea but to us,errr us?, yea to us over 40's,err over 45's(although i was told i look and act like a kid),they look young and pretty cute ta us. BESIDES whos paying who, huh? Dare naut payin me. foo foo....Although its understandable, if theyre so pretty and young 18 to 30's they would rather see younger and better looking clients. I think it may be reaching that point as escorts continue to grow larger in numbers which will result in younger escorts only accepting younger clients thus older clients will have to search for older escorts.

[TSFantasia]

Poor Straight Only Male Escorts

Imagine the kind of women guys, who are trying to be straight only Male escorts. have to deal with! Cottage cheese thunder thighs here we come! I doubt that many of their clients are beautiful sexy lonely neglected housewives!

[Gypsy1955]

Perhaps, but for me, intimacy only occurs between two (or more if you're lucky) people with true feelings for each other.

Fake anything, by definition, is not real.

Cheers,

I for one believe in the power of the brain, our largest sexual organ. I was regularly visiting a young lady that I liked and enjoyed very much. "I" had true feelings for her, "I" believe she did for me also...we may never know for sure. When I was with her, the intimacy was very real, in my head and in my heart...for "me." As soon as I walked into that room the endorphins, testosterone and brain waves started going crazy! When I start to kiss her and touch her and pleasure her, the intimacy was very real...for "me." If it was fake intimacy from her, she did a wonderful job, I didn't feel that. Nobody can tell me it wasn't real because you weren't in my head or in my body. :-)

[VanessaBell]

Eh, I actually really prefer older clients because they seem to suffer less from "legend in their own mind" syndrome. Clients in their 20s are seriously worse than Hitler.

[Gypsy1955]

Eh, I actually really prefer older clients because they seem to suffer less from "legend in their own mind" syndrome. Clients in their 20s are seriously worse than Hitler.

LOL! I'm older. I'm into pleasure in my own mind not just a fuck which hopefully translates to pleasure for both of us, as I do consider myself to be romantic, considerate and unselfish.

nice to see you use the "eh" word. Apparently young Canadians don't use it so much any more. We're losing part of our national identity eh!

[rider014]

Sing Along

I for one believe in the power of the brain, our largest sexual organ. I was regularly visiting a young lady that I liked and enjoyed very much. "I" had true feelings for her, "I" believe she did for me also...we may never know for sure. When I was with her, the intimacy was very real, in my head and in my heart...for "me." As soon as I walked into that room the endorphins, testosterone and brain waves started going crazy! When I start to kiss her and touch her and pleasure her, the intimacy was very real...for "me." If it was fake intimacy from her, she did a wonderful job, I didn't feel that. Nobody can tell me it wasn't real because you weren't in my head or in my body. :-)

Funny how after reading this, a song that I hadn't heard in years popped into my head....
I'll make it a little tougher for you, with the internet it should be easy to guess, would have posted the you tube vid, not too sure how, soooo I just might have to drag out the ol ax and mixing board and make my own vid for here, gotta learn how to play it first, doesn't look too hard. Anyways,

" you're such a secret, misty eyed and shady
lady how you hold the key
Oh you're like a candle, you're flames slowly fadin'
burnin' out and burnin' me"

Hmmmm, don't ask me why? Yep the brain is a funny thing

[TGIRLZ4ME]

I for one believe in the power of the brain, our largest sexual organ. I was regularly visiting a young lady that I liked and enjoyed very much. "I" had true feelings for her, "I" believe she did for me also...we may never know for sure. When I was with her, the intimacy was very real, in my head and in my heart...for "me." As soon as I walked into that room the endorphins, testosterone and brain waves started going crazy! When I start to kiss her and touch her and pleasure her, the intimacy was very real...for "me." If it was fake intimacy from her, she did a wonderful job, I didn't feel that. Nobody can tell me it wasn't real because you weren't in my head or in my body. :-)

I agree with you this is the difference between an escort who provides a real GFE (girlfriend experience) and one who does not. The first engages you, she looks into your eyes, she converses with you, she allows you to kiss her passionately and you feel her returning that passion! The latter type will not look you in the eyes ,will have their head turned to the side during sex, as if to say they are "enduring" you having sex with them and "please finish"! Those type of girls are not worth our time and money no matter how great their face or bodies look. You leave feeling dirty, rejected and like you did something wrong. We have our wives to do that for us !