From YEEEOUCH!!! To OOOOOH :-)

[Gypsy1955]

We're talking about anal sex here. My first visit to an escort was Aliyah in Edmonton. She very sweet, attractive and ummmm...little bit aggressive. But that's ok.

I had never touched a cock before other than my own and wanted to service her orally. We had some fun, she let me do what I wanted, after a bit she said "now I'm going to fuck you." It wasn't what I was there for but well...

I was on my back, on her table, my legs over her shoulders. Let me say that I felt pretty vulnerable, unmanly and silly being in that position. We both did some rimming and ass playing before that but mostly me eating her sweet butt.

All of a sudden I feel something going in me, I stiffing up , she tells me "breath, relax, take deep breaths" so I try to do as she says, kinda like yoga. In a little it goes...now I'm a bit louder "YEEOUCH!! STOP" I scream! So she stops but doesn't come out. Applying a Little more lub, some small talk, she tries again. All of a sudden I'm cramping on both sides...VERY painful. I scream again "STOP STOP!! how far in there are you??" She says "honey, that's only the tip of my index finger!" Well I never!!! Wasn't I surprised ! We both decided that wasn't going to happen with me. I decided not then not ever!

Which brings me to the topic...how does one, who's virgin there...get pounded by a huge dong first time "YEEEEOUCH to OOOOOHH!!"

NOTE: This is NOT a shot against Aliyah. I made her cum twice that night and she worked very hard until I was spent also. Highly recommended!

[bb420]

i practised on my own before taking a real dong. start small, fingers first, being all soapy in the shower is a good place to experiment it feels weird and uncomfertable if your not prepared and dont know what to expect i played with toys for a few years before i saw my 1st tgirl

[Gypsy1955]

i practised on my own before taking a real dong. start small, fingers first, being all soapy in the shower is a good place to experiment it feels weird and uncomfertable if your not prepared and dont know what to expect i played with toys for a few years before i saw my 1st tgirl

LMAO!! I think you missed my point. Thanks for the step by step instructions however, nothings goin in there...EVER!

[bb420]

if you don't want anything in there, then its going to hurt when someone tries to put something in you. getting all tense will tighten you up and make it hurt more. i suggested to practise alone rather then let a stranger poke around in unexplord territory. you should know your body better then anyone. i thought you were asking how to make it feel good, but you've already decided against it. so i don't know what response you're expecting to get.

[TSFantasia]

We're talking about anal sex here. My first visit to an escort was Aliyah in Edmonton. She very sweet, attractive and ummmm...little bit aggressive. But that's ok.

I had never touched a cock before other than my own and wanted to service her orally. We had some fun, she let me do what I wanted, after a bit she said "now I'm going to fuck you." It wasn't what I was there for but well...

I was on my back, on her table, my legs over her shoulders. Let me say that I felt pretty vulnerable, unmanly and silly being in that position. We both did some rimming and ass playing before that but mostly me eating her sweet butt.

All of a sudden I feel something going in me, I stiffing up , she tells me "breath, relax, take deep breaths" so I try to do as she says, kinda like yoga. In a little it goes...now I'm a bit louder "YEEOUCH!! STOP" I scream! So she stops but doesn't come out. Applying a Little more lub, some small talk, she tries again. All of a sudden I'm cramping on both sides...VERY painful. I scream again "STOP STOP!! how far in there are you??" She says "honey, that's only the tip of my index finger!" Well I never!!! Wasn't I surprised ! We both decided that wasn't going to happen with me. I decided not then not ever!

Which brings me to the topic...how does one, who's virgin there...get pounded by a huge dong first time "YEEEEOUCH to OOOOOHH!!"

NOTE: This is NOT a shot against Aliyah. I made her cum twice that night and she worked very hard until I was spent also. Highly recommended!

if you don't want anything in there, then its going to hurt when someone tries to put something in you. getting all tense will tighten you up and make it hurt more. i suggested to practise alone rather then let a stranger poke around in unexplord territory. you should know your body better then anyone. i thought you were asking how to make it feel good, but you've already decided against it. so i don't know what response you're expecting to get.

I think the only question you asked there Gypsy was answered by bb420. Anyone who enjoys anal sex/stimulation has started small and worked their way up to be able to enjoy bigger toys/dicks.

[Wendy Summers]

if you don't want anything in there, then its going to hurt when someone tries to put something in you. getting all tense will tighten you up and make it hurt more. i suggested to practise alone rather then let a stranger poke around in unexplord territory. you should know your body better then anyone. i thought you were asking how to make it feel good, but you've already decided against it. so i don't know what response you're expecting to get.

THIS.

Because my cock looks non-threatening in pictures because of it's proportions, everyone assumes they can take it. I've warned all my partners to practice before hand - they never do then they find it painful to take me.

Having anal sex can feel incredible, but you've got to, got to, got to stretch it out and get used to something up there. It's a muscle and like any muscle needs to be trained for the task at hand.

Also relax & lube.

[cameeindos]

if you've never been fucked before, what do you expect? that's not a slight, but then you need to practice first, especially if the top is hung. it's probably best to get a dildo and practice. or you should have come clean before she tried to fuck you and say you haven't been fucked before, and ask her to go slow. she probably thought you'd been fucked before.

[TSFantasia]

Don't "Ass U Me" !

No offence to you Gypsy as you said you did not go there asking for or expecting to be topped.

Even before I came out of the closet about my gender and sexuality I would defend gay guys when others would make ignorant
comments about how disgusting these guys were to be sticking their dicks in each other's shit . I would say well obviously they clean
and prep themselves for anal sex just like you see the woman in porn taking it up the ass does. They would say "Oh yeah I suppose".

If a guy wants that and it is expected in the session then the SP would expect the guy has prepped for it (from personal experience though I NEVER ASSUME this anymore).

[Gypsy1955]

Ouch!!!

I'm new, I did this wrong. I'm not suggesting that "I" want to be fucked, I don't, I've experienced all I need to realize it's not for me, it's not appealing, not pleasurable, and not fun...to me. My question, which was raised by some reviews I had read was how do "virgins" do it first time and say it was amazing. Meaning...take the pain, the unpleasant feeling. Although bb420 gave the details, Fantasia actually gave the answer that I seem to be looking for. In the end (no pun intended lol) I guess they both said the same thing. So, if using toys and working your way to larger toys...although they're not flesh and blood...are you still a virgin?

As for me personally...I'll never know the pleasure I am missing. And that's just the way she goes.

[Gypsy1955]

No offence to you Gypsy as you said you did not go there asking for or expecting to be topped. But OMFG Ewwww.

Even before I came out of the closet about my gender and sexuality I would defend gay guys when others would make ignorant
comments about how disgusting these guys were to be sticking their dicks in each other's shit . I would say well obviously they clean
and prep themselves for anal sex just like you see the woman in porn taking it up the ass does. They would say "Oh yeah I suppose".

Then I read reviews of SPs fucking guys that were not prepared or asking for that and I'm thinking either guys are lying or these SPs are F'ing gross and they ARE sticking their dicks in other guys shit!! If a guy wants that and it is expected in the session then the SP would expect the guy has prepped for it (from personal experience though I NEVER ASSUME this anymore).

EWWWW! I don't know if it matters but I'm a very healthy eater and my system works perfectly. I never got penetrated ('crept for bit of finger) so I don't think there was any mess. I'd be totally humiliated if there was! I've never had enema, but if I wanted to be topped I would be squeaky clean, super clean. Guaranteed! As I've mentioned previously I travel with a toiletries bag my own towel and all.

[cameeindos]

I'm new, I did this wrong. I'm not suggesting that "I" want to be fucked, I don't, I've experienced all I need to realize it's not for me, it's not appealing, not pleasurable, and not fun...to me. My question, which was raised by some reviews I had read was how do "virgins" do it first time and say it was amazing. Meaning...take the pain, the unpleasant feeling. Although bb420 gave the details, Fantasia actually gave the answer that I seem to be looking for. In the end (no pun intended lol) I guess they both said the same thing. So, if using toys and working your way to larger toys...although they're not flesh and blood...are you still a virgin?

As for me personally...I'll never know the pleasure I am missing. And that's just the way she goes.

IMO, yes. but then it's subjective

[Gypsy1955]

if you've never been fucked before, what do you expect? that's not a slight, but then you need to practice first, especially if the top is hung. it's probably best to get a dildo and practice. or you should have come clean before she tried to fuck you and say you haven't been fucked before, and ask her to go slow. she probably thought you'd been fucked before.

She knew I was never fucked before, I made that quite clear. She's definitely a top, knows her business...I figure she thought I was lying and that was actually what I wanted. Or maybe my oral to her (first time ever) wasn't very good (probably not) I told her I was there to pleasure her. She has many exceptional reviews so I've no doubt of her professionalism nor her professional knowledge. As I was leaving she told me that 100% next time she was going to fuck me. As much as I liked her, which was a lot, I haven't been back. But I'd like to if she didn't want to fuck me lol.

[Gypsy1955]

Not a slight!

I must point out that this is absolutely not a slight against this girl!! She is very nice, good looking, sexy and definitely wants to do the best she can do. I'm starting to worry that it looks like something it's not. I've learned that maybe next time I will not use names.

[TSFantasia]

I must point out that this is absolutely not a slight against this girl!! She is very nice, good looking, sexy and definitely wants to do the best she can do. I'm starting to worry that it looks like something it's not. I've learned that maybe next time I will not use names.

You can still go back to the first post and edit it out if you liked.

[Gypsy1955]

You can still go back to the first post and edit it out if you liked.

I went back and the Edit option wasn't there :-(